😒The bar for moms is so high it's unattainable. Dads? Different story.

DO NOT send hate to either of these creators! They are both great - this is an exercise in pointing out inequity. ❤

So right!! Like when a dad says he has to babysit as his wife is working…. It’s called parenting!

Please say this louder for the people in the VERY back 😂 Jen you are a truth teller and I am thankful for you. I hope you're doing well❤

Preach girl! Whenever the dad does anything, he's "helping" her, like it's her sole responsibility.

My husband cooks and cleans a lot. A lot of my friends/family always remark about how "lucky" I am. I want to scream when people say it to me. I KNOW none of my husband's friends/family tell him how lucky he is to have a wife that cooks/cleans.

Meanwhile… mom was inside dealing with chaos and trying to keep everything chill, wishing she could go fart around on the grill in peace and quiet for an hour. 😂

“…the bar for dads is so low it’s literally in hell” 🤣🤣🤣☠️ Glad to see you’re back❤️

Exactly. Your anger is warranted big time. Thank you for calling this out and I agree 100% Let’s ask who made the kids lunches, who lined up daycare, who makes doctors appointments and finds the doctors. Who is in charge of paying the bills and on and on. Moms! I hear you.❤❤❤

Jen, you have no idea how much this resonates with me today. Not exactly about parenting but about what expected of people based on their gender. My husband is a great father, and he does a fair bit of things at home. I have been a stay at home mum for the last 5 years. It was our mutual decision that one of us would stay home with our daughter, who is suffering from asthma. She was 6 when we decided it's the right move for our family. We split duties accordingly. I deal with day to day stuff, and he is responsible for stuff I don't like or can't due to health reasons (I suffer with few chronic conditions). It works for us. I like taking care of the service or talking to various tradesmen and sorting things out for the house. He doesn't. He doesn't like fixing stuff or building things. I do. He takes bins out because I dislike it, and he is responsible for dealing with spiders, washing car, and windows in the house. I deal with solar panels, bank and arranging for things to be fixed. We both do things we are good at. The amount of abuse we get from his family over the fact that I know when our car is due service and he does not, is unbelievable. A few days ago, our front doors needed to be fixed, and I called a repairman. His family lost it why we dared to spend our money on a specialist when he could spend hours and fix it himself. I was told directly that he should deal with stuff like that because he is a man, and he is more capable of making decisions relating to "men stuff." I don't understand why people have problems accepting that we live the way we want. We are adults on our own for 20 years, and we are more than capable of handling our lives the way we see fit.

Right on Jen!! It's incomparable the things moms do for their kids and families, compared to dads. And I don't mean that is all households, but lets face it, it is most households. It is disgusting the things moms have to do and think about CONSTANTLY day in and day out for their families. That is called mental load and it is a real thing. Thanks for bringing attention to this. So many people just assume it is the wives role to fulfil ALL the needs of their families and it is not, it is a partnership.

Exactly! I also choose not to affected by "Mum guilt" and all those other sh*tty terms - my kids are fed, clothed and housed - end of story! Great see you pop up again Jen, hope you're well. Whenever my oldest has to pick a YT vid, it's yours 💖

Amen, Jen!!! Kudos to you for calling it out. You do your best to feed your children healthy things - occasionally some chips or juice boxes or sugary treats but you put multiple veggies and fruits every night with dinner, you make veggie trays and leave them in the refrigerator while you are traveling for work. I’ve seen all the prep you do before you leave town. So much more than I get done. Tonight I couldn’t think of a veg to put with air fryer chicken wings so I cut up a cucumber for me and hubby and gave my son some microwave cooked broccoli (raw and made into florets.) At least i put out a veggie for us. There are nights where I have no energy to deal with veggies (if I forgot to prep before I left for work.) Some nights I make pasta in the instant pot and serve it with garlic bread and call it a night. We eat, I have to clean it all up, make dog food and get them to eat it and clean that up. By the time I get to bed I am totally pooped and I am 63! So, good for you all that you do for your family. 👏👏👏

AMEN - the bars so high I can't even see it anymore.

I wish I could like this more than once. You are 1000% correct!! Thank you ❤❤

Bang on. Some people don’t know how to cook or don’t have time to cook. Getting food on the table is healthier than getting fast food every day. Kindness people.

Spot on as usual! Thanks for calling it out!

Very true Jen. To be honest I stopped reading comments on most videos. It’s either someone bashing or someone saying love you. No one knows enough about someone to bash them and certainly not enough to say love you.

This is a really powerful short. You totally made your point: well done. Interesting that no one is pointing out how unhealthy pancakes are, especially with all the presumably artificial food dyes.

Omg thank you thank you thank you for always speaking up!!! I agree with all of your comments for moms and dads. I’ve always worked full time and cleaned and cooked and ran my kids around without thinking twice and the criticism of , as a mom, not being available for my kids was amazing. As long as kids are fed and have happy parents , it’s that simple.

Truth!!!! So glad to see you. Hope you are doing well❤️❤️❤️