The Christians Guide to Guarding Your Heart with Toxic People

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I must REMEBER “ I’m a God pleaser not people pleasure 🙏🏼

Such a great framework! “Givers need to set limits as takers don’t have any.”

Your teaching should be a course available in middle school, high school, college, and churches (although narcissistic pastors would not allow it). So much damage could be avoided. So many destinies fulfilled.❤

I was the victim of childhood abuse, but my victim-hood status ended the day I took 100% responsibility for my life & choices. Victim status privileges are nothing compared to the freedom that radical responsibility gives you!!

It’s just hurts at times when being who we are gets trampled on.

I set them and she left. Very thankful. Covert narcissists are no fun to live with or be in any relationship with at all.

This is something amazing since I accepted Christ after been in a narcistic relationships today I know myself more then EVER! I praise God 🙏🏼🕊️✝️

I’ve started practicing Biblical boundaries for awhile now and boy it’s amazing how people don’t like it, but I’ve also seen some great progress too! It’s been a journey not over reacting, but learning how to respond in a Biblical manner. You are so right! Knowing ourselves is so important, knowing our likes and dislikes and setting those healthy boundaries is so important. I love all your teachings!! They’ve helped me a lot along with a strong prayer life and Bible study, which I have done for years, my biggest fault was thinking if I didn’t give in I wasn’t a good Christian, I’m so thankful these videos has cleared up that misconception. I’m no doormat!! God bless!

Outstanding strategy. I set my boundaries way late in life but they are quite firm.

Why did I surrender my values for their approval😳 Wow so true

❤❤Boundary Newbie❤❤

Oh how I wish my brother in law could hear this! He is the henchman of my narcissist mother in law, the favorite son who is just like her. He loves to say that honoring your mother and father means that they get to do as they please, when they please, and boundaries put in front of them are sinful and dishonoring of their role. I know he is wrong, but…🙄

Boundary oldie here, checking how I've done everything right with these toxic people, also in my close family. May they eat from their own fruit! 🙏

I agree. Boundaries are all about knowing and respecting yourself. Be prepared to flex those self-control muscles when they try to use every trick in the book to manipulate your boundaries to what better suits them. Proverbs 25:28 comes to my mind. "He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls." ❤

Your "I feel _ when you do _ ..."-method is also a good narcissist-identifier - because they will not get the subtle difference, still feel attacked and go into raging defence! I have tried for over 2 years communicating my feelings to a narcissist without success.

You are a brilliant psychologist. I love that you use real life examples . They really help me. I also learn well from your awesome biblical references. I thank you for helping me so much. God bless you! I also recognize that you must work very hard to help us. Again a huge thanks 👍👏🙏😍

This lady is a straight GOD SEND 💯❗️🎯🥹😌👍🙏🤍🕊️

Loving your ease and application of biblical quotes

Hi Kris, I found you here about 2 weeks ago, and now I cannot stop listening to your amazing Godly advice! Wow. Unfortunately, I am still in this relationship that is so exhausting. I am a Christian, he says he is, but he "bucks" everything that I say about how I want to follow God. We do not live together, but we used to. This drag-on relationship has continued for nearly 8 years. I had NO IDEA what a narcissist was until 5 years ago. Call me naïve, but that's me. Yes, I sure have thought that if I "love him enough", this would change. wow am I wrong. I have no idea how to fully step away from this, and don't know why it's taking me so long to "just go", but I have to do something other than lay down and keep being walked all over. Thank you for all the education you give us!