How to Tell If Someone Likes You: 12 Signs a Guy/Girl Likes You More Than a Friend

Published 2018-03-03
How can you tell if a guy or girl secretly likes you more than a friend? While the Bible tells Christians not to judge the inner thoughts of another person, we are allowed to try and read social cues. Here are 12 signs that may mean someone likes you plus 3 signs that don't mean someone likes you.

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All Comments (21)
  • @BrandonViani
    Friendly reminder: With God there are no coincidences.
  • my opinion is to secretly pray and wait in God. I'm sure God will let you feel in the spirit if the person is right for you...
  • @dizonjinrim2012
    Some people are just too friendly and can send wrong signal to lots of girls. :-)
  • @Vi3ver1
    One word gals and gents: DISCERNMENT. So pray for wisdom and discernment. Ask a specific sign from God and of that guy or girl has it, you know he or she is God sent for you.
  • @Kareena1988
    1. He treats you differently than he treats other girls 2. Invites you to a social event, wants to be with you 3. Ends up sitting by you..stand next to you 4. Compliments you 5. social media likes 6. He is concerned when you speak with another guy 7. Rearranges his schedule to be around you 8. Acts awkward around you 9. They talk to you more 10. Other people make comments about our attraction 11. Help you out with something 12. Sticks up for you, even if u arent around. False signs: 1. Eye contact 2. Voice of God and illusion of this man being your mate 3. Not randomnly running into the guy on the street=coincidence.
  • That feeling, when you realized that your actually doing the 12 signs he gave.. 😂
  • @crazyleaf257
    Ironically, girls find it easier to talk to you guys they do not like. So it’s very opposite. Also we are compassionate and want to encourage the underdog. Which like you said makes them think we like them.
  • 1. The man treat you differently 2. Invites you somewhere 3. He is seating by you 4. He compliments you 5. He is engaging in social media with you He gives extra attention to you 6. He looks concerned when talking to another man 7. He rearranges his schedule for you 8. Acts bizarre 9. Talk to you more 10. Other people notice the chemistry 11. Eager to show their affection and help you 12. He sticks out for you
  • @41A2E
    The one about being awkward is true. At work the girls I had no interest in I found very easy to talk to, but then the one I really liked, every time she'd ask me something I had a brain error and I couldn't speak for about 5 seconds. I think the feeling may have been mutual, however I was so unprepared for somebody to actually like me back that I never reciprocated her gestures and probably screwed myself by doing so, as she doesn't approach as much anymore probably because all her previous attempts seemed to be in vain from her perspective.
  • @terranova3655
    Im content with being alone. If I’m meant for someone, then great but I’m not expecting anything. Our father is isolating me for a reason so I need to focus and stay away from the jezebel spirit
  • I've had a lot of guys think I like them more than a friend just because I spoke to them, or was nice to them. It's actually really annoying because I've had some of those guys ask me out on dates only to act like a wounded animal, and or get angry at me when i said no. Some of these guys are so not my type in any way shape or form, but somehow got it stuck in their heads because I smiled and said hi it must mean I'm the "one". I can talk to a dude and it doesn't mean I want him like that it means I'm a human interacting with another human and im being nice because i'm nice to everyone, even animals. In my experience any guy that is truly interested will value you, not just compliment you but show you that he values you that has nothing to do with money, looks, or success.
  • @l.patrick3155
    Practical, honest & straight to the point! Mark, your videos are turning into a 'daily view' for me, no joke!
  • @austinp1998
    I definitely agree that someone can just be really nice and it gets confused as they like someone. That’s how I am. I am nice to any girl I meet so that’s not a sign that I like them.
  • God told me that my husband was my soul mate and that it will never work out with anyone else but him. And we have been happily married for 9 years.
  • @Summerbunny15
    I don't quite agree with the one on eye contact (not meaning anything)...It depends on the situation and the way eye contact is made...for example a person can signal to a love interest by looking in their direction just a little longer than they should, then looking away, then repeating again a little while later-I know I've done this (quite unconsciously) with someone I've liked before, and they've caught on!
  • Long stares and eye contact... sighs. I thought we have something. 3. Happened twice. Okay. Bye!
  • @stevehicks399
    Best advice is don't play games. You don't have to be too forward, but it's ok to let them know you like them.