Gave Him Lobola Money To Marry Me - Ntando

This lady deserved an interviewer with sympathy because this guy seems like he just wanted izindaba but showed no emotion at all. My heart goes to you beautiful woman of God ❤❤❤I’m happy to see you being a living testimony , may the Lord continue to pour His love on you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thank You Justify and Thank y'all for watching. Thank you for your kindness and beautiful words 🫂❤️😭

This lady’s story is so important for parents to hear! It was tough growing up with ignorant parents. The interviewer must sharpen his skills. Why would you lough, and giggle like that? I am sending this lady so much love and healing! ❤️❤️

I just want to hug Ntando. She did not deserve any of this. What a beautiful, actual exquisite, and is clearly despite her pain, is so internally beautiful. I am so glad you are alive to tell the tale. You got this.

To every black person who has undergone trauma as a child, baby work hard & take yourself to therapy. Relieve your childhood and heal yourselves. Take yourself to every place you wished as a child. Because we make the mistake of looking for healing in other broken people , and re-traumatize the child & adult in us. All the best to this beautiful lady

Childhood trauma is actually dangerous because it changes how you perceive yourself. It allowed other people to warp her perception of herself and make her feel ugly. She's a beautiful woman who didn't have a place to belong and from what I hear never felt at home with anyone. I can't blame her because as humans we all desire companionship and human company.

I said this on TikTok already but I’ll say it again here. To all spiritual women, whether you’re a prophetess or just are in tune with God and yourself in that regard please be aware that we get targeted in areas that are blind spots especially if there is a yearning. I’m a prophetess myself and have experienced this spiritual blinding many times due to the wrong relationships (not just romantic, it’s friendships and family too) When she said she usually sees everything before it happens but failed to see this, it’s really because her trauma left a void that created a blind spot because she placed the wrong person in that void. My sisters please please please ask for discernment when it comes to any relationship and don’t fight when the answer is a no just because you like the person or you think you can change them. A spiritual blockage is no joke, you will be done the worst things to so that you lose your faith and never find your way back or use your gift ever again.

To anyone who can come across this message who is near this lady please tell her God loves her.her story is so touching the world is praying for your restoration darling ❤❤

Now I understand how Ntando got here, childhood trauma affects your self esteem in unimaginable ways. This broke my heart💔

I’m so sorry for what you went through. Ladies never pay for your own lobola.

I love how this interviewer gives this lady a chance to talk, very rare these days

Facebook brought me here.... This is so sad😢😢😢😢💔💔💔

She's strong after everything that happened to her she's still beautiful n u cab see she's a very kind n polite person ❤❤❤❤❤

never tell a man your past .just focus on the present..coz uzohlekisa ngawe

Her story must be a TV drama or some sort of a movie for an awareness to other people out there not to fall in such traps.Both genders must not ignore red flags 🚩 in the relationships.This is the most painful story 🥺She’s an Angel..she deserves more Love ❤️

'God loves you' This is very powerful. This guy may not show any sense of emotions to Ntando but what I learned is he showed them spiritually. those words don't just come out of any person's words. Ntando my sister you are very brave and one thing I can say those tears you gave on this podcast showed that you did not lose anything but gained a lot out of your experience. I will repeat in bold that GOD LOVE YOU

TikTok brought me here ke sana😭

The only thing I can say after watching this is, fathers lets love our daughters, they will never feel alone and they will never experience what sis Ntando experienced. I am so sorry sis Ntando, you are so beautiful.

If you from TikTok let’s gather here

Wow what a sad story... Ntando doesnt realise how beautiful she is. This woman is so beautiful so melow, soft and sweet. If I was a man and I saw her for the first time, Id make her my wife. So sorry for her that man took advantage of her😢 She just wanted someone to love her and to fill that void.