Why Mind Wandering Is Bad For You and How to Stop It

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Published 2022-01-05
Random, unintentional thinking like you do when your mind wanders happens in a different part of the brain than intentional thoughts. And too much mind wandering is bad for you in that it makes you more anxious and unhappy. In this video, I explain why mind wandering increases your anxiety and unhappiness and two things you can do about it.

References
Wilson, T. D., Reinhard, D. A., Westgate, E. C., Gilbert, D. T., Ellerbeck, N., Hahn, C., Brown, C. L., & Shaked, A. (2014). Social psychology. Just think: the challenges of the disengaged mind. Science (New York, N.Y.), 345(6192), 75–77. doi.org/10.1126/science.1250830

Killingsworth, M.A., & Gilbert, D.T. (2010). A Wandering Mind Is an Unhappy Mind. Science, 330, 932 - 932.

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All Comments (21)
  • @jowens197
    I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder this past year. My mind always wandered at lightning speed, but no one had ever explained to me that it was a bad thing. I'm having to unlearn years of bad habits. This was a great insight
  • I’ve been a daydreamer since i was a child, and it’s always the same subject matters. Don’t know if it would be possible to stop at this point. Dreaming and making up stories in my head is such a big part of my sense of self.
  • @Princesskerji
    Caught my mind wondering multiple times during this video 😭
  • @ulviyye_7232
    Controlling automatic thoughts is a huge step in overcoming depression and anxiety. Meditation and these kind of topics should be taught at school.
  • @jesse1email
    Agreed. The “over active default mode“ is one of the reasons why incarceration of prisoners rarely leads to rehabilitation. Being imprisoned gives the jailed person almost nothing else to do besides ruminate on the negative. Building anxiety which can eventually lead to psychosis.
  • @SmumplytheF2P
    I have ADHD, so everytime I try doing things like, art, studying and most stuff that are supposed to calm me down, just makes it worse for me because of my mind switching to bad memories I have instead of focusing. (Mainly judgementalism and self loathing, comparing myself to others). This is such an informative video that I'm so happy found it's way in my recommended.
  • @robfut9954
    Sounds to me like mind wondering is only bad if you’re a negative person or have bad thought habits. For others it can be a source of creativity, I know a lot of artists who let their minds wonder and it helps them come up with innovative ideas.
  • @Trigger_Nash
    I don't believe I have anxiety, but I do have ADHD, and what you're describing is the most damaging symptom I have. It's made my ability to function as an adult very difficult, to the point where my job is on the line.
  • @Doubleaa500
    My mind wandering is a wonderful thing that my mind does! It can lead to so many creative things to write or draw and I've spent hours staring out the window as my mind wandered listening to music and it made me relax and random spontaneous thoughts came through. I'm not a stressed person and I still meditate and focus on the present, but I couldn't imagine my mind not wandering and feeling my active mind!
  • @pharoah125
    I love the way this doctor can give scientific advice and then effortlessly transition into humor. Most doctors are either smart but dull or entertaining but sketchy. She’s the real deal.
  • @locaterobin
    I'll share two things that prevent me from doing this. 1. In broad strokes, having one purpose that I am living for (I run an animal rescue, and an awareness organisation to help reduce their suffering) 2. Every day, have a top idea in your mind. Since I make videos...I usually am working on a script in my head, which keeps my attention focused.
  • I have ADHD and I'm not 100% sure this video applies to me. Yes, my mind wonders allot but it's like if I was daydreaming and not remembering psychological trauma. I'm am glad to say that I don't suffer from anxiety and or depression (that I know of), I just have a somewhat stable life with my parents and loved ones. I loved the information though and I think I'll keep an eye out to see if one of my friends needs this video.
  • @krowkovtuber
    i LOVE her straightforward and informative way of making content. just straight up knowledge, no unnecessary intros, no annoying background music. the world needs more Dr. Tracey Marks!
  • @audreymo63
    Didn't know a wandering mind was a thing-"Default mode thinking". I have to stop myself sometimes from intrusive thoughts..remembering a terrible memory from the past..thank u Dr.
  • @shaggybreeks
    Psychedelics cause someone's internal negativity to be "purged". Indeed, "purged" is the correct word in one incident I had involving peyote. It hit me 2 days after ingesting, and I thought I was sober, and then a huge wave of guilt washed over me, and again, "washed" is the correct word. It was absolutely NOT a pleasant experience, but dang, did it ever settle in my own mind, something that had been eating away at me for years. Purging is not necessarily pleasant to experience, but what a relief.
  • Honestly, I was never aware this was a defined issue. I work a long 10 hour shift, and quite often I try to put my mind off of the daily grind just to try and pass time. I’d drift into idle thought, and eventually I did precisely what she mentioned regarding bad thoughts. It would then put me in such a dark mood while on the job, and it only ever broke when break time was called. There came a point where I got tired of falling into those bad thoughts, and so I tried to focus on other, more creative inclined things. I tried to think of my hobby as a writer—what things I could imaging writing about my characters, what they would do in one fantasy setting or another and other stuff like that. If I felt myself slipping back into *Default Mode*, I’d take a deep breath and refocus on my personal interests again.
  • @bravestarr8857
    "Your brother STOLE from you! What you gonna do?!" 🤣 Thanks for brightening my day with that line. Very informative video. Kudos to you for not being afraid to talk about potentially beneficial drugs, just because they were tarred as 'bad ones' by legislators with other agendas. Psilocybin literally saved my life 20 years ago - Felt I had nothing left to lose. The effect was incredibly profound, and I found a job again soon after. All the best, and thanks for your hard work.
  • @3bitner325
    This explains one of the reasons I had to quit my job. I was so used to the repetitive movements of my work and basically go on auto pilot and my mind would wander to negative thoughts, how life would be easier if I killed myself or found a way to go to prison and not have to work so hard anymore going from day to day. It was horrible and unhealthy, and I was confused why I felt that way while I was at work because as soon as I clocked out or was off for the weekend, I felt perfectly fine. This video made a lot of sense. Thank you.
  • @benbobo8330
    Meditation helped me a lot with mind wondering. After a while i will catch my mind wandering and laugh about it. And get back to the present
  • @TimoteoJuan89
    I don't think I've ever found a Psychiatrist as collectively professional, informative, AND cool all at the same time as her. Keep up the great work, Doc! Thanks for all you do. ❤