How To Ruin A Relationship | BONDING PODCAST

I didn't know Troy is also a therapist. This guy is great!

I’m in a position where Troy is now one of my favorite comedians at the moment

There's nothing wrong with being attached to something when nothing is permanent. Understanding that something isn't forever is just another reason to appreciate it.

If you can be this raw and real with another person, you can find lasting love. The two of us didn't meet until our 30s and have family and personal history that should have precluded our 20 year marriage. Yet here we are. Wishing happiness for you both too.

Let's face it. Comedy comes from tragedy. Comedians are very smart, intelligent, wise human beings with a dark past. That's what makes them see things from a different angle.

Troy, you are now one of my favorite comedians, and I've only seen 2 minute clips of you battling hecklers. We need more than that

I thought I was attracted to Troy before, but no, this man's vulnerability and grounded nature demonstrated above has me floored. My appreciation for him has doubled. Good on you, Troy, and good on your partner here who was willing to explore her own stuff here, too. ❤

You're doing something real here in a way that many other comedians and talents aren't capable of. Keep pushing, you're hitting the main vein.

"I just hate myself too much, to ever love somebody the way I'm supposed to" that's just..yeah, that definitely resonates, for sure. For me, though, a weird flip happened when my child was born. At the same time, I began to love my son so endlessly, more than I ever thought was possible for me to do, and started hating myself more than ever before, which is a tall order. So, now I'm stuck in this situation where the emotional pain of self hate is so heavy that, on some days, I'm seriously considering ending things. That being said, logically, I understand that my child needs me, and the love that I have for him keeps me going. I'd like to thank you, Troy, for making me laugh last night, when I found your channel, cause yesterday was one of those days. Wish you all the best.

Interesting that a lot of ppl see those who don’t want to get married as “broken”, those ppl can be giving the best reasons but then ppl always wanna dig into their life because there HAS to be something that caused this. Getting married is a choice, not a must. Also, self-hatred surely has to be worked on by yourself, same as insecurity, or any issues you have, but no one ever said you cannot have some support/help and if your partner is strong, insightful and patient and they love you, and you want to work on yourself, you have enough self-reflection, it could actually happen that you will improve as a person. Some ppl chose to be with you for many reason and that means you deserve the love and support

It’s funny she says being alone is nice because she can be meditative and not worry about what her bf says s thinking, if he’s happy, is he f’n somebody else. I’ve been married/dating my wife for 11 years and I’ve always been in this meditative state lol. I don’t worry or stress over those things. We talk and work together and try to make each other happy but also make ourselves happy independently. We don’t have to do everything together, enjoy everything each other does, we can have friends and do things that make us happy. The key is to be honest and respectful and don’t lie or cheat. Simple af

This was the longest 7 minutes ive ever watched of you... in a good way... wow. Im going to share this video because of how much it will speak to people who cant seem to give themselves a hug before they give one to someone else they care about. Keep doing you dude, I'm inspired <3. Also Perfect ending xD

I came here for comedy and ended up realizing how much my parents’ divorce affected my ability to maintain a lasting relationship… what just happened

"i hate myself too much to ever love someone the way im supposed to" punch me in the gut, why dont you.

Troy's on stage act is very volatile and incredibly spontaneous. It's easy to think that in private life he'd be the same way ... always wanting attention, always competing to best the other person, but this video is a revelation. He's thoughtful, restrained, sensitive and insightful. A very intelligent guy, and a rare combination of personal qualities. From attack dog to vulnerable and honest human. 👍👍

I found you from making me laugh at uncomfortable humor and now you’re helping me find a good mate. The gift that just keeps giving

In the book the Alchemist the boy searching for treasure finds that he had to go through the self hatred of life to truly feel it so that when He gets home he can Truly understand the Joy of Living the Life that you Are Granted. The treasure was always at home

Sometimes we fall into relationships that are similar to those we grew up seeing. The familiar aspect of it can seem comforting. It's always good to reflect on our life and how we might have picked up unhealthy patterns and if you're ready to do the work it can be very empowering 💪❤

I'll just add this: the kindness you give increases the happiness you have. My grandfather told me to forgive quickly and forget about it quicker. He and my grandmother were married for 74 years, and considered the happiest couple anybody knew.

4:49 fuck man that hit hard