2 way’s women INSTANTLY LOSE RESPECT | The psychology of getting respect from men

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I "knew" a man for 20 years. Understood us to be "friends" so when he hit me up with interest to get to know each other more deeply, I felt I trusted him enough because we "knew" each other and our friend circle over the years. Very slowly as he got to know me, the respect he claimed to have, faded and I was ultimately treated like trash. The irony is that I grew in the midst of his games and I was able to see that he had low self worth and had used women until he got bored in his codependency. So I say to women, be careful about accepting a man's judgment about you, he is often less than he wants to be and is projecting it onto you.

This is some great insight on the psychology of a man. Men are not stupid. They pay attention to a lot more than us women think they do. They watch your every move but say nothing and act accordingly.

Wow! Love #1. A guy I hadn’t even gone on a date with yet asked to sync Apple Watches, tried to insinuate controlling my appearance and other weird behavior. I told him goodbye. Red flags.

This is so true. Women must take themselves seriously.

As a women i also look into a mans background cause what applies to women also applies to men and plus i'd think : so many other ladies had access to him etc

Again Ibn hits another one out of the ball park! As a military veteran I'm often the only Woman in the company of many Men. I'm usually outnumbered however I make it known by just aura I will be respected. I was in a class and one guy said... "Girl, come over here." I stopped him right there. "First I'm not a girl. I'm a Woman. Secondly, don't ever command me like I'm your pet!" Silence. Another male vet came up and said... "Miss Sonja. You are definitely going to make sure you get your respect."

You made an exemplary point to say, "wise men watch the actions of fools" is exactly why most men do not deserve respect in the first place. The women you're speaking of are operating from the same space. So, 1. Respect the women who are coaching women into self respect. 2. Build a community based in better morals. The man's ego says because he's getting all this pootang he's to be respected by other men, however, the women are to be disrespected for entertaining him. It's disingenuous. And then, these men don't know how to bring grocery stores, doctors offices and any other viable products into the community.

I listened to you teach this in another video and I stopped walking to Wal-Mart at night, which I loved doing. I never knew the man's perspective. I also made sure that it was obvious that i take my safety seriously. I remember the Middle Eastern owners of my old corner store lovingly but seriously telling me to wear pants under my dresses. Wow! My neighbor here became visibly upset when he saw me allow a man to side hug me at Wal-Mart then the other neighbor who overheard the first one got on my case the NEXT day! God has always blessed me that the men around me would try to look out for me. Wow! I'm glad you're letting women know❤

The fact that a man is deciding my level of respect based on a made up scenario in his head of me being his woman and he would want me to do this or not as HIS woman and not respect me outside of that on an individual level outside of any connection to him is absurd. It's already crazy the level of entitlement 😂. I don't need or want any entitled man or woman's respect attention or interaction then to begin with/

Hey Kev, don’t know if you’re gonna notice my comment but I just wanted to say how much I appreciate what you do. I’ve been following you for the last 5 years and to me you’re like the caring, loving, zero BS older brother I never had, but always needed. Before I had no confidence, no self love or self esteem, I’ve made every mistake in the book. I didn’t know any better, mentally abusive men was all I’ve ever known. I’ve had horrible, soul crushing dating experience. But your words really spoke to me. With your advise I learned to love myself and not tolerate minimum effort, low quality men. With time I build the skill set to distinguish men who have integrity and would actually make a good husband, what is love versus lust, and so on … I transformed. I’m happily married now to the love of my life and I don’t think I would’ve been able to recognize his green flags and give him a chance if it wasn’t for your advice. Thank you so much for everything you do, Kev. God bless you and your beautiful family ❤️

Never heard anyone else pose this viewpoint. Thank you for the perspective. Appreciate your teachings.

If men care that much about the shame from others, than that “man” isn’t a man. End of the story

I agree with this to a point. We have to focus on narratives and context as well. I have someone who takes everything out of context bc of his own insecurities and creates his own narrative that is a false reality. He allows women to touch him or take up his time. But then feels like I shouldn’t talk to men due to “respect”.

Very Interesting. I Never understood why women don't look too much at the man's dating history resume to see if he may be a good partner. But that makes sense. I guess that's what makes us different than them. Mann

Oh my god the second thing that u said literally blowed my mind cause that was my problem in my dating life.

Breaking down this topic in understandable language really helps. I get it now.

Good Job Kev, as always, another ANOINTED VIDEO, Thank You as usual.

Excellent explanation of a man's point of view, Kev! Very clear and mindful. Thanks!😊

LISTEN ... she is saying she FEELS ... that definitely doesn’t equate to acting like we are 16. We are mature women who carry ourselves as such. I would personally feel embarrassed to be out here acting like my kids who are close to 30. She's right ... but no I am well aware that I am NOT young anymore and trying to deny it won't change that fact