Breaking Up with a Narcissist
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Published 2020-08-22
Narcissists and their narcissistic abuse can be destabilizing and make you question everything about your relationship. In this video, Dr. Ramani discusses what it's like to break up with a narcissist and learn how to prevent these behaviors from hurting you. This interview will empower you to take the necessary steps to improve your mental health.
Topics:
What is the first thing a narcissist will do when you break up?
What is hoovering?
Why does a narcissist leave you?
What does “enlisting flying monkeys” mean in the context of breaking up with a narcissist?
On the flip side, what is it like when a narcissist leaves you?
When does gaslighting occur during this process?
How do you leave a narcissist?
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All Comments (21)
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My therapist told me that if my ex husband really loved me, why would he physically emotionally and psychologically abuse me? And that’s the moment I knew this was all a power game to him. Narcissists aren’t capable of love. They take and take until there’s nothing left. 4 days free. Pray for me.
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That doggo is sleeping so well. I'm kinda envious. Doggo has no trauma, nor worries.
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When she said “ narcissists make the other partner look crazy when they go to therapists or talk in front of others” - I felt that.
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Narcissists don't like others for who they are. They only like the things that others do for them.
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tip: when they admit they're a narcissist and tell you that you deserve better, PLEASE believe them
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They will never accept responsibility for their part of the breakup ! Anything they did wrong is because of something you did ! Even though you didn’t do it !
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The thing that resonates the most, is the making you look like the bad one. They chip, chip, chip away until you literally break. Then they call you crazy.
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“Narcissists don’t like to be left”, yet THEY’RE the ones discarding people and ruining the relationships. It’s so twisted! Like, who has all that time and energy to go out and do all that???
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Once you realize and accept that they'll never change ever, you are halfway there.
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My husband ditched me. I felt abandoned but now I'M SO HAPPY!! ✨️🥳
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This video helped me decide to end my relationship with a narcissistic-alcoholic with extreme anger issues. I love me more 💜
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They replace you before you leave. They have a line of takers on the back burner just waiting for the day that you decide to have boundaries and "abandon them" even though they've already abandoned you.
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Left 6 days ago. Gathered my things quietly and got out after 4 years of marriage and a 7 year relationship. My heart goes out to anyone who is going through this 💔
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I just left my narcissistic relationship of 8 years. This relationship consisted of him cheating, lying, emotional/physical abuse - there was point during our relationship where he would refer to me as a dog and say he needed to train me to be more obedient. Not even 10 minutes after we broke up he had another date set up. I’m one day free and although I’m heartbroken and sad I’m finally realizing that this next girl is only gonna go through exactly what I went through. Good luck to her I guess.
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My couples therapist actually started siding with my narcissistic partner, and they made me feel crazy. The more I cried, the more I looked unstable. I remember that day vividly, and sadly, I think about it occasionally, which makes me realize how manipulative this person is. We share a child, and he is about to become a lawyer. I fear ending up like Betty from "Dirty John". Wish me luck, guys. I'm planning my way out.
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I just left my narcissist boyfriend today after he did me so dirty. Im going through a very bad breakup. Please pray for me. I just feel hopeless and ready to end it all😔😢
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Don’t tell them u leaving, just leave silently and that’s it
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That comment about not wanting to leave because you fear they will be the person you want when you do to someone else is literally what I felt having just gotten out of an emotionally manipulating narcissistic relationship.
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This woman knows her stuff. It's insane how spot on she is. Narcissists are almost textbook predictable
