Stop Being EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT On People: Part 3: BK Shivani: English

This maam saved my life when i was in my worst phase in 2017/18 god bless her

Don't waste energy just for strangers on the road . Bless them that they reach home safely .. that was very powerful . Thanks very much Didi, Om shanti .

" I have to create the right thought in response to their wrong behaviour" ... exactly defined what we needed to listen.

I guess this video came in my feed at the right time. I have been emotionally unwell from last week due to an incident which made me feel.. powerless, worthless, and someone who can be shouted at with no valid reason. I spent 2-3 days thinking: did I deserve that? Why it happened? Why is it always me who can be made feel invaluable? Why people don’t empathize with me? I knew i was being emotionally dependent and giving control to other people on how to dictate my emotional state. I knew I was being victim. Yesterday, I shouted at my brother since he is always engrossed in gaming and mobile, the moment he wakes up till the time he sleeps. In return, I was rebuked. And I slept feeling worthless, powerless again. I have decided to behave indifferent as anything I say, is either misunderstood or is invaluable to anyone. I gets lectures for saying little things or suggesting something. I have decided to be a speech minimalist, the least I speak, the least I am judged, rebuked, or lectured. I know it’s difficult doing what is being said by Shivani ji, but I’ll try my best to conserve my mental energy by not reacting to situations and become indifferent to it. That’s how I see it.

Her voice is so calming ❤ plus she’s speaking facts!

Om shanti...10 years ago when I was in class 9 i watched awakening with Brahma kumaris daily..every evening i just waiting for the program...my childhood become so beautiful..and now i am 27..after 5 years of marriage everything is going wrong..i starting to watching again and things going to perfect... I found my peace of life.. thank you shivani di..u r shiv Baba's most beloved child ❤

I m just looking her face amazing glowing skin without makeup.... It's all about super natural power..... She is really pure soul.........

She is very clear and so sorted ....respect you sister ...

Shivanididi you make us realize how simple life should actually be....but how complicated we ignorant souls have made it! Thank you for your presence in this world! We arw blessed. Om Shanti🙏

Thank you Shivani di i am dependent on myself i dont need anyone . I protect myself , my future is so bright , God is always with me , i am strong and powerful , loveful . I love myself , i take care myself , My thought my choice my destiny thank you ❤❤❤

I love the perfect example she used on traffic, it was the best use of the talk and she even suggested how to use your mind to reduce that one irritation. it was wonderful homework. we've all watched hundred of YouTube videos about inner engineering but I think when you can immediately use a take home example like this one, you can actually start implementing the talk LITERALLY on that same day..

Emotional independence & protection from other’s drama is the key to our own peace.. 💜🙏🌹

What a peace in her voice and satisfaction..❤️

Good morning Sister Om Shanti stay healthy your teachings make me peaceful soul ❤

Thank you sister for guiding us on our daily problems Thank you so much for bringing this real and relatable topic in everyone's life.

Om Shanti didi🙏🏻 I am a powerful being I am a peaceful soul I am calm and stable always I am always happy Thank you thank you thank you Universe

You are a very enlightened individual! Thanks for your lecture, it’s very valuable to everyone in every society! You’re doing much better than any government I’ve seen lately! Everything is of mind!

very soft spoken like flaws of river .

Om shanti thanku shivani dii ,now i don't depend emotionally anyone... I am strong 😊

Om shanti, Sister Shivani ❤️❤️❤️. Always, with love and Gratitude….. Thank you, thank you, thank you… ❤️🙏❤️🙌😇😘🌼🌺🌼💐☘️🌎