Shocking CONFESSIONS of a HABITUAL CHEATER with Laterras R. Whitfield

Honest question for women: how are you being a wife, mother, working full time and catering to your man and not being completely drained all the time? Marriage sounds awful for women tbh

Not sure if I my wife and I fit your demographic but it is possible to to be married and not cheat on your wife. 40 years of marriage, up,s and downs and even being $420,000.00 in debt which left us $93.00 in the bank. So why would I want to cheat on my wife when i took vows that I would honor her? What we must remember is the price for sin is heavy, very heavy. I’m so sorry that this young brother couldn’t keep the vow of his marriage however Gods grace is sufficient. There is no woman walking on the planet that is worth my soul. The $420k debt? Is gone paid in full And through all of that Gods grace kept us

We always talk about why we cheated no one talk about how the non cheater cope with the cheater after being still living together. It is a psychological trauma difficult to overcome

I love how he still covers her, because its obvious that he was not the only problem but he doesnt put any blame on her

The same way a man dates you is the way he is going to be married to you. He cheated on her when he dated her, and he cheated on her when he married her.

40 year old woman here. Staying single is the best choice I've ever made. I practice celibacy, I still look 30 and I sleep PEACEFULLY every night knowing that no one is making me look like a FOOL out in these streets😆 Life is WONDERFUL when one makes GOOD HEALTHY decisions😊

His message on taking accountability rings so true. My ex husband cheated on me in the first year of marriage and my intuition told me. He never admitted it until 10+ years later in marriage counseling when he was trying to manipulate his way out of admitting his present cheating. It hurt me so bad that he was so conniving to admit it to a third party instead of me, solely to get out of being open & honest to address things head on. I knew enough then to decide that was the nail in the coffin for me. I left the marriage and never looked back. Mistakes are mistakes, but accountability helps people own them. Poor behavior patterns go beyond mistakes. Some cheaters fall into the act from a desperate place. Others plan, lie, manipulate, gaslight, etc. to keep cheating as long as they think they can get away with it.

The emotional intelligence and transparency of these men is astounding and refreshing! 🥰

Hardly Initiated and the Dear Future Wifey Podcast are two of my favorite podcasts. I love that these podcasts have open discussions with both men and women without the toxic bashing of each other. It's so refreshing. I wish continued growth for both podcasts and that you guys are surrounded by people that will pour positivity into your spirit.

Regardless of the platform, you’ve always respected your ex-wife and honored your word. Thank you for your vulnerability and integrity 👏

Cheating will destroy your marriage and only God can heal the relationship between wife and husband 🙏🏾

I really don’t think men know how much it hurts to be cheated on. It can leave a person scarred for life.

Dear Future Wifey Day 1 fan here!!! Laterras is a disruptor! He continues to disrupt what the culture views as “normal” (toxicity, improper communication, lack of self-awareness & accountability, double standards & etc.) for the benefit of God’s Kingdom! I am so proud of him!! He represents Christ & the DFW community well!!!!☺️☺️☺️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

At 42::50 Ryan says he’s a firm believer that a good man can cheat. Look up the word cheat. There is no good in the definition of that word. It’s crazy to me that after ALL of these guests and lessons that this is still a belief. There’s a quote that states: When you know better, you do better. What you know, you are accountable for. You have to be VERY careful with your words and what you do to others because it will CERTAINLY come back to you. Those who love themselves and their mate are exclusive with their bodies. Sharing your body outside of your relationship AND standing by a person who does such dishonors you both. It’s a huge risk-health wise, mentally and spirituality. I wish people loved themselves more. We have to do better.

Yaaasssss! About the pre-engagement counseling, pre-marriage, during marriage, post-marriage monthly check-ins! I'm for ALL of it! 👍🏾🙏🏾

This man’s story is just like mine smh, men are not thought to have self worth so we look at sex totally different than how women do. Now the journey to becoming that man that understands what it mean to have self worth and to stop sleeping with a bunch of girls is hard work within it self, just looking at girl alone is like second nature to us , growing up as a West Indian man i saw men get praised for sleeping with girls and if you don’t you are called names for it, so now as a grown man it’s hard to break those bad habits that you thought was cool. I am now on this crazy journey that will most likely make me loose friends and that’s ok, respect to this man for sharing his secrets with everyone to indulge in, what he have done is hard and should 🐝 respected.

I appreciate this whole thing.. We are constantly torn apart (black relationships) we need to talk.. communication is real! Thank you all for authenticity!🎉

14 minutes in and my minds 🤯 He keeps it so real. 🙌🏾We need more people in the church to keep it real. Because it definitely goes down in the church 😳 And nobody wants to talk about that.

Please do another collab! Very authentic conversation that is needed among African-American males.

ANOTHER ONE!!!!! This was an amazing collab. Laterras was demonstrating so much maturity and authentencity. MEN & WOMEN LISTEN UP!!!