Vanderpump Rules #scandoval: Makeup Therapy. Let’s Talk About Cheating GRWM!

If you’re comfortable, please leave any stories/situations you’d like insight or advice on below! Otherwise send me a DM on IG :) I’d love to include it in my next makeup therapy video

Like you, I was with a man the majority of my 20’s (24-30) who was cheating on me the last 2 yrs (of our rel) with his co-worker….Now they’re married 🙄 14 yrs later & I'm still not completely over it. So hurtful 💔

So many thoughts so little time lol but damn, I remember YEARS after my toxic relationship, I would still cry about it. And not because of all the terrible shit that this terrible person did but because it broke my heart to think of who I was back then, the lack of self-esteem and self respect and that totally lost and naive version of me. It was really hard to find that grace to forgive myself for staying in something so unhealthy. Love these Saturday morning chats. Thank you as always for sharing, Sam💖

I have learned that it is okay to talk about what they did to you. It doesn’t matter how they feel about it. If they wanted people to think they were a good person, they should have been a good person.

Your honesty is so refreshing 👏🏽👏🏽

I never been through any relationship things like you have but I have had childhood trauma and they way you were talking is so therapeutic to me I even subscribe to your podcast after this video ❤

I can't wait for you to find your forever love because you're such an amazing human being!!! Now that you're healing you will begin to attract others who are healing as well. There's nothing wrong with taking time to heal. You deserve the very best and I hope you honestly receive that and believe it!!!!! So do the work you need to do within yourself so you can be whole and healed! He is definitely out there and I'm sure he'll find you soon !!!!❤❤

Truly been loving these chit chatty videos! I’ve been following you forever and always loved you but I feel like you’re so much more open and just you without caring. Thanks for sharing ❤

I lost it at “get a flashlight or a fl3shl!ght” oh my god Sam you’re hilarious 😂 In all seriousness, given your experiences I can totally see why this would be hard to watch. Your humour to cope with the trauma and darkness is so relatable. ❤

When you said Sims I perked up 😂 Really enjoyed your take on all this. I got hooked on Vanderpump AFTER this scandal lol. Also I’m so sorry about how your relationship ended 😢 I had no idea. I hope you are thriving!

Have you by chance read All About Love by bell hooks? Your definition of love as a behavior made me think of that. In the book, hooks make clear distinction between liking, caring for and loving someone. It's a beautiful and healing book, I think everyone should read it at least once.

Omg I really enjoyed this! Thank you for being so honest

Loved this video !! I am obsessed with like all Bravo shows, and this season of Vanderpump is so juicy 🤭 Appreciate your advice as well 💕

Ooooo I love this! I’d love a weekly Saturday morning chat. Selfishly speaking. When a friend of mine told me he had cheated on the past, his words were “I’ve had indisgressions”. I’m sorry? Pardon? Indisgression? No. That was an action you chose that has the potential to devastate a woman for life. And his excuse was he had a higher sex drive than his wife so instead of bothering her he takes care of it himself. Dude. Maybe try a conversation and therapy with your wife. There’s a reason she’s not matching your intimacy. When men cheat its a sex excuse. When women cheat we are ungrateful sluts. I’m getting spicy over here Samantha! I also have a friend that o know her husband has cheated and likely still is. I also know he’s made moves on me. She’s a lovely woman. I don’t know what to do. Do I tell her that he’s an asshole and talks behind her back about her? I think she’s fully aware he’s an asshole. There’s seems to be a thing that if you’re the one who shares the news, you’re also the villain 😢 She doesn’t deserve this. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. We need this chat!

As always great vid! ❤ ty for sharing. I hope all humans grow through their experiences. 😊

I feel you, Sam. People can love you but sometimes not in the way you need to be loved. Accepting that can be hard.

i love piping hot tea on a Saturday morning 😌 hoping Rue is doing better!

Girl I love bravo too! Hi Samantha I back and had to stop by your channel🤗 and girly you are still as lovely as ever! Love the makeup 😊

I’m inclined to think they are vain and want all eyes on them. Nobody deserves to be cheated on so the victim doesn’t deserve blame. I will say that if we decided to get involved with someone who is a know cheater, we should do so with our eyes wide open. Past behavior is the best predicted of future behavior. Love is a motivation more than a feeling.

"Flashlight/ Flesh-light" 😅 Samantha you are hilarious 😃🤭💛