My Trans Girlfriend Started Sleeping With Men | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

Published 2023-07-06
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SUMMER and Lucy met five years ago on an online dating app. After hitting it off right away, the couple soon made it official. As the relationship became serious, Summer began discussing the idea of having an open relationship due to her fear of only having one sole partner. Lucy agreed to the open relationship but struggled with jealousy in its early stages. Lucy had never been in a serious relationship and was worried about what others would think: "I was nervous going into the open relationship because non-monogamy is not the norm in most relationships." One of the biggest adjustments to the relationship dynamic for the couple has been Summer’s decision to transition to a woman. Summer had been exploring her femininity since 2015 and in 2020 finally decided to transition. Summer was initially nervous about how it might change the relationship, but Lucy has been her greatest support, "seeing Summer’s appearance change throughout her transition has been really wonderful to see." One of the biggest factors in the couple’s recent dating life has been the adjustment to the social changes of Summer dating as a woman. "It was like going from 0 to 100 from one side of the dating pool straight to the other side and having to adjust to the way women are treated in dating." Transitioning has also allowed Summer freedom to explore her bisexuality, and the couple are now happier than ever before. In the episode, we meet Lucy’s long-term friend Kyra. Kyra has been concerned for Lucy’s mental health and Summer’s intentions, and the couple is intrigued to hear if she still feels the same.

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Videographer: Nathan Pellow-Jarman
Producers: Kate Moore, Yasmin Walker
Editor: Reuben Yarwood

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All Comments (21)
  • @Treepress
    Lucy needs to move on 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
  • Summer is using Lucy as a placeholder. Plain and simple. Summer wants to be a woman and to be with men. My guess is Summer was NEVER into Lucy (especially with all the cheating both before AND after the transition) they were just looking for someone desperate enough to tolerate their manipulation. I hope Lucy leaves Summer soon and finds real love.
  • @isabeladiniz4680
    omg the situations a woman with low self esteem puts herself into can really be unbelieveable
  • @RecklessInspirer
    Something seems out of touch here. I find it interesting that their friend said that Summer is “less toxic as a woman” than as a man! Then she mentioned how he was always trying to sleep with other women. It’s as if he went from being a womanizer to being a poised, proper trans woman. Just because you transitioned it doesn’t mean that your whole personality changes. You’re still you. This seems off to me.
  • @alanaaites8292
    You should absolutely be upset if your partner wants to sleep with someone else. They can seriously catch any number of diseases , and give that to you. You could end up dead because of their choices.
  • @Snaxs01
    This one is toxic and the fact that Summer has only slept with men during an open relationship means something.
  • @Lalaaaa1995
    Lucy can do better . The moment that girl finds a man that she wants he will leave her.
  • @MartialArtsCat101
    I understand transitioning but not so much open relationships. Lol. I think it’s pretty obvious Summer is not as into Lucy as Lucy is into Summer
  • @Yaziceed
    I can barely understand what summer is saying
  • @nesnonya3463
    Poor Lucy. See I'm actually into feminine men and men who crossdress, and while I don't see myself being with someone who is trans, I couldn't ever support my partner wanting to experiment with other people while in a relationship with me. Just no. That's cheating. Lucy, you need to find someone who will love you because Summer will more than likely leave once they find a man they are infatuated with. Then you will be left alone and heartbroken. Please Lucy, don't do this to yourself. It's incredibly selfish on Summer's part to expect you to go with all this and not even consider YOUR TRUE feelings because I know damn well you are not okay with Summer being passionate with other partners.
  • @JLongbone
    Flat out admits he became a woman so it'd be acceptable to date men, then he asks for an open relationship. This is doomed lol
  • @edikaramuratful
    Its incredible this blonde has just the first relationship , and how noone caught her... I would marry her in a heartbeat.
  • You can do whatever you want with your live. If they were me and my s.o. would say to me that they want to be of the opposite gender (in my case I tend to like more women than men) I would support them as a friend but not at a lover
  • @jessi5401
    “It feels like a cheat code.” Lucy has a lot to unpack. With this being Summer’s first relationship, I worry about how she’s coping. This is not the norm and I can’t imagine diving headfirst into something like this without having any previous context. That being said, they’re consenting adults and can form whatever relationships they want and I wish them both the best. That doesn’t mean I don’t see glaring red flags.
  • @vero9348
    Everytime i hear "we have an opened relationship but i always problems with that" i cringe. One was cheating and obe was cheated on. To have an ope ed relationship it was to be a 2 people idea. So fricking obvious its painful to say.