How to *actually* stop obsessing over men wanting you. (life changing)

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I actually really dislike being hit on. Being stared/gawked at is annoying/creepy after a while. It's so important to love yourself (not narcissism) and have confidence in your identity especially in Christ. Thanks for this. 💗

Psalm 118:8, 9 "It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man. It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in princes"🙏🏼💕

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I wish men would put as much thought into dating as we did. They will gas up women left and right and then once they get her, they just change their mind on a whim. It was never love, they were just horny or bored or lonely, or all of them. And I hate the damage it does to women who just want to feel loved and safe.

How to solve: 1. acknowledge you have a problem 2. delete social media 3. acknowledge potential romantizicing 4. dont need to make your entire life about enterianing men to find love 5. revaluate the quality of your life without male attention 6. nurture your relationship with God. 7. nurture platonic relationships 8. take control over your confidence

My problem isn’t wanting all male attention, my problem is when I know 1 likes me I’m expecting him to be obsessed 🙄🥴

that movie 'he's just not that into you' really felt like a slap across my face back in my middle school days haha, glad i watched it

I deleted social media in 2020 (if I remember correctly). I just have YouTube and Pinterest. It made everything so much better.

OMG! The wanting male attention to replace your father's attention was real. When I realized I wasn't looking for that type of attention until after my father passed away, such a game changer!

My advice for everyone: focus on God inseatd of on men, and the right man may come along. Also ask God for help to find the right man.

When I’m ovulating, it’s when I feel the most lonely and makes me the most boi crazy

I can take a compliment or two but after that it just becomes uncomfortable and creepy. Be yourself and stay prayerful. In time, you will find/be found by the right one.

Thank you so much for this video. I realize i am "boy crazy" but i am not acting on it, i am not currently dating or avtively looking for a man, but in my mind idolizing relationship is very harmful and makes me very miserable. A useful resource on the topic is "Get Lost" by Dannah Gresh, is a book targeted to girls but the principles are true to any single woman. If anyone is interested in reading it with me, i'd love to!

Diagnosis Idolize male attention: 1. "I wonder if he thinks im pretty" 2. want attention of men you're not attracted to 3. more social when men are present 4. poor boundaries with men 5. have sex and get into relationships quickly/ use sex as levarage to keep men interested 6. hard time rejecting men 7. tailor appearance to what uill be appealing to men 8. perosnality changes based on the guy your'e talking to 9. directionless without make attention/approval 10. improve yourself only to be more attracrive to men 11. get easily attached 12. become more alert when men are around 13. don't have quailty relationship with father 14. desire male attention even when marrried or in a relationship 15. struggle with your faith 7/15 = idolize men

As a male Christian its lovely hearing the female christian perspective on these topics it gives me insight.

I felt attacked for a second omg it’s not other men’s desire that I crave, I just struggle with needing my man’s attention 24/7. I’ve identified it stems from daddy issues and the fear of being someone not worth loving. I pray I find confidence and you have strength to get through the tough time you’re having. I know you’re strong!

I'm not a Christian, but I love your channel and have followed you for ages now. I was always very soft and feminine, but I was hiding it because I felt scared and also compelled to behave in a more independent way due to societal values and upbringing. You have no idea how many times I've rewatched your videos. And also Teal Swan. I don't agree with everything she says, but she also taught me a lot. I'm currently realizing how much I'm struggling with this issue. Maybe it's because I had no parents since they abandoned me. Bullying, being naive, and being used by people broke me in so many ways that I hadn't even perceived. I think women and men relate to a lot in this video. I do believe in something, in Gods, in the Source, and ever since I connected and talk to Source every day, many things have changed in my life. It gives me a sense of peace and being loved. So yes people it does help!!♡ I'm going to write down every single question you said and ponder about it. ❤ thank you... Really... Thank you so much Jasmyne. You bring light to his 🌎.

Totally random but your hair looks great, grew so nicely too. ☺️💕🙏

Wow look who we got here 🥰