Christian Dating Boundaries (kissing, touching, etc.) & Why Should We Have Boundaries?

Hi everyone! Quick UPDATE: A few months after making this video the Holy Spirit convicted both Ernesto and I to stop kissing all together... this may or may not be something others feel convicted to do but we certainly did and since this video is all about boundaries we wanted to give that update because God has changed our hearts & minds in regards to that area of boundaries-- and it might help you to consider having this boundary as well! Of course, we are not saying "don't kiss" or "do kiss", but rather pray about it to see what the Holy Spirit is leading you and your boyfriend or girlfriend on doing in regards to the boundaries to have in your relationship. If you'd like to hear more on why me made this decision, you can watch us talk about it in this video: https://youtu.be/zEZH1I7VgTE?t=710

I just want to add and remind you guys, that the best way you can date successfully without falling into temptation is if the person your dating has the same convictions and boundaries as you. You can be the holiest person ever, but if you get into a relationship where your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries, you will most likely fall into any type of temptation, it doesn’t even have to be sex. So please be careful! Don’t think that you are stronger then you really are.

"Its about being with someone who understands boundaries and also holds them up" ❤

Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it. This is where true beauty comes in! Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul. ✨ if you played your part and loved someone with all your heart ✨ if you spoke on your feelings & tried to communicate ✨ if you waited for change & none came it’s not your loss, it’s theirs. let go, heal, & move on to someone that deserves you. You deserve someone who you were created for and who was created for you, to understand and love you properly

Great tips ! I have boundaries.there’s always temptations Me I can wait .

New subscriber !! Love this ❤️

Thank you for this video, it really helps

I absolutely love your channel. I've binged watched a couple of your videos and I'm so happy that I found your youtube. Thank you so much Kat and Ernesto for these videos, they are so helpful and will reach so many people that need them like me! Please never stop making these videos :)

Man I feel like god lead me to this video thank you guys praise god

God bless you two 🙏

Definitely my best Couple. They say things in line with Gods word, not just their opinion. had to subscribe to this channel for the wealth of knowlege i glean. Thankyou Kat and Ernesto. Wish i had met you guys earlier

Amen! Appreciate your bold faith in your videos. May God use you both to shine HIS light into the hearts and lives of many. ❤Isaiah 54: May God enlarge the place of your tent, lengthen your cords, expand you to the right & to the left..." Praying for you both that God will greatly multiply your audience, May the Lord be glorified through your lives as you trumpet HIS heart and truth. Bless you Kat & Ernesto! 🙂

Always enjoy watching your videos. God bless🙏😁

Hope this can encourage all of us to continue honoring God with our bodies and in our relationships! No matter how difficult it may be, through the help of the Holy Spirit it is possible and so worth it to do things God's way ❤️

😊I’m glad I watched this and I agree with you guys on everything that was said thank you for an eye opener friends ❤shaloem shaloem

Thank you for this video it really help answer a few of my questions! God Bless y’all 🤍

Thanks a lot

Theology of the body is great on this

wow, that sentence "if someone is forcing you to do something they don't truly love you" hit me really hard. im in a relationship with someone that has been really pushing me to be social and finding people to rely on instead of allowing God to bring the right people. to bring me to a place where she not just the only person i go to. i see the good in this and there has been other areas of my life she is trying to push for me to do or have that it makes me feel like its her wanting me to tick off her list of demands. someone please help me with some advice here?! and yes she is a born again Christian and loves God

I love you guys ❤️