4 Signs to Tell If God's Calling You to Be Single

🔥Join the all-new BibleU to understand, interpret and explain the Bible better! bibleu.academy/

For the notetakers <3 How can we tell - through DISCERNMENT ~ God-given ability to recognize the true nature of a thing, and to govern yourself accordingly. the ability to assess a situation based on principles in scripture and or promptings in the spirit 1. Do you sense that God has clearly spoken that to you? Ask God to give you the grace to deal with the inconveniences of singleness Marriage is not a right, singleness is not a curse. If you don't know then move on to the next question. 2. Do you want it? ( A relationship) God works through our wants. Example: Hannah who deeply wanted a child. She could not shake this relentless desire. He will give your heart what to want. Our desires are unique to us. 3. Are you ready for a partner? (This one called me out) Are you emotionally and spiritually at a place of health where you can properly steward a relationship with another person? Can you handle them without injuring them? Are you the person that the person you are looking for is looking for? (Sheesh) 4. Can you live a single life ethically? Paul in Corinthians: For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. Dr.Dharius didn't mention this but I wanted to add this point because I'm currently in this. The single season is a beautiful time for us to learn how to see the opposite sex with kindness/respect and not for some kind of gain (romantic/desire) We need to learn how to humanize people to treat them through the lens that God sees them. If we can do this well in singleness, we will be well prepared to do this in marriage.

Lord if You don’t have a Person for me….Remove the desire! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽in Jesus Name. Amen

Im 51 and tired of being single. It's a pain that at times is deep. I love myself an God but I'm tired.😢

I found out I was called to be single maybe a year or so ago. It used to bother me so much but since God told me that I’ve been Ok I just been praying He show me what he wants me to do 🙏🏾💓🙏🏾

7 years of being single and I finally learned that I was okay the way I was and that the men I encountered only wanted to drain me of my kindness, love, and caring attributes. Now that I know better and talked with God on what actual love is, I am in a better headspace and relationship with him now. It's up to him if he wants me to be married, I am okay with my singleness

My soul yearns for God's beautiful design of marriage.

Life really be life-ing. Married or Single....just try to make it through the day. 😂😂

I am definitely Not called to singleness. I couldn’t do it for the rest of my life. Jesus please send my future husband.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

12 years single and I haven’t felt a day of loneliness when giving my life to Christ completely. I have been single without desires to slip up. I can see how my path looks to be single until I go home, until recently… a 5 year friendship with a special guy just told me he loves me. Now, I’m trying to pray what the Lord wants me to do with this. So, is it for this season or forever? Lord guide me.

Please please please be aware of seasons of desperateness. Where you are putting being married in its wrongful place. I have done this and no good comes from it. All that happens is you can make decisions that mess you up and where you need so much healing from. We already have our past trauma’s to deal with, why add more. God loves us so much and He wants us to seek Him and grow in Him. Be restored from ALL the broken pieces. Marriage is something that we need to be ready to be our most patient and our best visions. I am currently healing from the season that I really wanted to be married and I am sure so many can identify. God is loving on us so let’s keep receiving it and learning to love right; then watch what our Father will do whether single or on the way to marriage (internally we will be different) ❤️🙏🏾

No, I'm not ready for a partner. Keeping the hope that God is healing me. Learning this season how to be single and grow through adversity.

I am working on me right now, so I know I am not ready! But I do desire to be when God sees fit!

Yes I want a partner and im ready for marriage. I want to be a healthy helpmate.

How do I know if God called me to singleness? 1. Do u sense that God has clearly spoken that to you? 2. Do I want that? 3. Am I ready for a partner? 4. Can I live a single life ethically?

I’ll wait on Gods timing

I pray that's not my calling. I burn too much 😢and i turly desire partnership

Being single is a blessing and a beautiful thing!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I've ALWAYS loved marriage & knew it was a gift from God & I was made for it, but I am also Blessed to be single & satisfied. Beautifully said❤

No I don’t feel called to singleness. I feel this is a societal issue not a spiritual one