If He Does THESE 7 THINGS, It's Time To LET HIM GO... | Stephan Speaks

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I had a date and a guy did 50/50 Bill thing. Lol. I sad ok. Then he asked where will we go? His place or my place? I said it will be 50/50! I go to my place and he is going to his 😂

7 Red Flags in Men: 1. He asks woman to pay 50/50 on bills 2. He’s not willing to discuss issues 3. He does not want to give woman a title (eg. Girlfriend) 4. He gets physically and verbally abusive 5. He keeps Woman a secret 6. He tells woman “All men cheat” 7. He neglects woman’s needs 5 Principles if Considering Fixing Issues: 1. Evaluate Overall Relationship 2. Woman must hold herself accountable for her own issues affecting relationship dynamic 3. Address Relationship Issues in a Calm, Loving Manner without a Negative Attitude 4. Look for Progress and Understanding 5. Create a Structure for Improvement (eg. a periodic Relationship Checkup with built-in rewards for successful improvements) 5 Positive Attributes in Men During Improvement Phase: 1. A Willingness to Talk/Listen Effectively 2. A Genuine Effort (Woman must express her appreciation for his effort) 3. Consistency 4. Emotional Control 5. His Personal Accountability

It hurts like hell when you know you need to let go of someone who is wrong for us but you can't because you'll still waiting for the impossible to happen...

You are so right. Men only do what we allow them to. Yes we do need to be held accountable for what we allow . It starts with loving ourselves, and setting healthy boundaries

i dealt with a person who got mad over a topic and stopped communicating for 2 weeks. when they contacted me and decided to "talk" I told them it was 2 weeks to late. Rather than addressing the matter right then they chose to avoid the topic as if it was going to right itself. Now there are two issues. I said I cannot deal with this in a relationship. it showed me that when things get hard/tough you "run" instead of resolving the issue. Talking is how you solve problems.

WE DEFINITELY NEED TO HEAL FIRST MEN AND WOMEN.

Emotional abuse too the silent treatment is horrific and more damaging than any other abuse in my experience.

Left a narcissist two weeks ago. I know what I deserve ✌🏽

If he says he's not ready for a relationship yet he acts like he cares even after he said to move on

We all need someone like Stephan 😩

💯 TRUTH, run Lady. Ps: Never accept a 50/50 situation no matter what.

My ex told me that he doesn’t mind listening to me about my feelings but only bring it up once and then shut up about it but refused to discuss it further! Sometimes after me telling him how I feel, he would just say “ok” and wouldn’t say anything else and just say “are you done?” Another issue not resolved! I would get mad and frustrated with him and sometimes it would escalate! He refused to resolve issues and when I would bring it up later in the week or two weeks then I would try to communicate he said this same topic again, didn’t we talk about this? He would say you nag and complain too much and always bring up the same thing over and over! To me it wasn’t the same topic but also we didn’t resolve previous discussions. Very frustrating, and he never ever apologized for his part but blamed me and said I nag too much when all I wanted to do was communicate. 😢. We just broke up tonight!

This man asked to take me on a bae vacation and then asked me to find a suite with a balcony. I said okay and as I was looking he called again and said let him know the price so he can give me half 🤣🤣🤣 I stopped looking cuz I wasn't going half and keep in mind he makes probably three times what I make

In the other word, that 50-50 thing is either for broke guys or simply calculative guys who want benefit from a relationship but won't spent an extra penny

Mindset is key. Years ago I moved in with my son's father (college sweethearts), 50/50 rule. We got married, graduated from college, good jobs.. but he made more than me. It hit the fan when we had our son and new expenses came. He wouldn't contribute more. Young and dumb at 29 we got divorced. He never missed a $300 child support payment but lost his family. 30 years later we're all good but still says it's his biggest regret.

Just ended a relationship where a man did all of these things...the empathy in me almost stayed but I’m so glad I cut it off.

Single two years and loving my life and learning so much about me !! 56-and soooo peaceful

I started watching your videos a year ago knowing I needed to leave my ex, and for some reason I stupidly stayed around until yesterday. The dude publicly humiliated me. Wish I'd have listened to you sooner.

I left him alone today.. made up my MIND after 15 years and two sons later. I’m glad, I’m upset with MYSELF AND HIS FAKE ASS, I’m SUPER HURTING for my SONS... my memory is my WORST ENEMY.. please PLEASE PRAY for MY SONS AND I💯