WHAT HAPPENED TO PERSONAL STYLE ? | OVER THE TRENDS | HOW TO FIND YOUR PERSONAL STYLE

It occurred to me this week that I want to be INSPIRED and not INFLUENCED. “Inspired’ is a creative term, “influenced” is a monetary one. when I’m inspired, I want to be a better version for the best version of myself I can be! When I’m influence, I simply think that buying something will make me be that person!

I think this is why I can’t get away from thrifting. As the self aware Aries I can’t stand doing things because others are doing it lol. As soon as I see too many people in it I start avoiding it

I found this so interesting , I was a fashion student in the 1980s and now my Daughter is a fashion student and I find her attitude so different to what mine was . We all wanted to stand out , be different , now they all want to blend in , look like what they see on social media . I say create , don’t follow , absolutely we are all influenced by our surroundings but , hopefully those surrounding aren’t just social media . Well done you , for breaking away from that narrative .

At 70, I still love what I love and shop accordingly -I don't want to look like everybody else. You addressed STYLE so beautifully, thank you.

High-waisted wide leg pants are my jam!

I really love the humanistic approach to this video. It really brings back home how creative we were before social media and Pinterest. Allowing ourselves to get back to what we know as far as who we are and what REALLY makes us glow. I found myself getting away from what I know works for me. looking back at old pictures truly shows me what my style was and is till this day. I’m 42 and proud to say I’ve always loved easy relaxed simple clothes and interesting accessories 😊

Lately, I don't watch content from a couple of influencers I follow as often as I used to. I get a bit turned off by them because they kind of only show what they have bought, instead of giving advice about how to create your own personal style. Your video and your message are much needed. ❤️

I totally agree! Who has money to keep adding to their wardrobe every season?? Maybe a piece or two here and there. I love how "influencers" love to say what's in and out of fashion. If you find your own personal style, it becomes timeless. I think it's ok to evolve as you grow, but for the most part I know what I like and what I feel comfortable in❤

Figuring out WHY you’re drawn to a look before trying to emulate it is so key, because then you can really let your individuality take over instead of just replicating someone else. And the tip about looking at the runway is excellent, the raw design principles of the garments really shine the most there.

Thank you for this post. I totally agree. I’m quite bored of style influencers posting the same ideas, outfits, trends, sponsored pieces. It’s gotten repetitive and boring. Styling matching sweatsuits with a long wool coat…. A button down with wide leg jeans and a sweater over the shoulders… we’ve all seen it. And the never ending “core’s”, I just can’t. I want to see fresh and new ideas… actual personal style ideas. So thank you and I’d love to see where you go with this.

I'm actually amazed how much the exercise of imagining your own fashion collection from scratch and giving it a name clarified things for me. I get so caught up in types of fashion and what styles appeal to me when it can really just be boiled down to big boxy cuts and durable materials that just look cooler and cooler the more worn they get. It was just a lightbulb moment of "oh duh, canvas, leather, denim. Earth tones and deep saturated warm colors. Loose cuts I can comfortably move in. Big dramatic collars. No sleeves unless it's a jacket." that cut through all the noise.

This was the most intelligent, unique, and enlightening analysis of personal fashion that I have ever experienced. Ms. Carolyn is brilliant. I’ll have to watch this several times, there are so many layers to absorb. Loved it.

My mother recently passed and I've been doing a lot of thinking lately. I've just started a real, earnest attempt to revamp my closet with pieces that suit me on a deep level and its the most exiting process! For the first time (possibly ever) I'm starting to LOVE the clothes and shoes I have. Another interesting side effect is that I'm less and less concerned about my weight and body insecurities. I'm positively distracted by my love for the clothes.

Finally!! Thank you for speaking up! A lot of these fashion influencers seem to lack their own personal style nowadays. Everybody's channel wearing the exact same thing talking the same way about the same thing. I'm over it! what are they influencing us to do walk around looking like twins?! These fashion influencers are starting to look like robotic retail influencers not stylish fashion influencers same content,same look and no personal style. PLEASE MAKE IT STOP✋🏾

Hi Carolyn! This is 75 years young, and I must say you did it again! What an intelligent, honest, and thoughtful video! Great job! ❤️❤️❤️

I love this video because you’re not serving us monetized fish (influencing us with items) You’re teaching us how to fish ( a systematic way for us to find our own personal style and stop over consuming while moving futher and futher from feeling like ourselves)

You are correct in your analysis. I am a modern man with a personal preference for the Humphrey Bogart look. Pants with pleats, clean shoes, properly laced oxford shoes, shaved with a touch of spicy fragrance. When you look good you also feel good and ready to take on the world. Best wishes.

Sis i love that you made this video. I was just saying that all the content creators and influencers are influencing each other. Wearing and saying the same thing and it's getting boring. I love your unique since of fashion and it inspires me. Please continue to be unique. Everybody seems to be chasing the partnerships and not the art of true style. Most don't have it. They may have fashion, but they don't have style. I love it sis... unplug, get re-inspired and inspire us!!!!!!

YES. When I was a teen, I used to be sad that I could not follow one visual style, because I like things from different styles and subcultures. After a while, I realized that this is ~personal style~ and that a lot of the people I followed (the ones who had a somewhat ""unique"" style) had different influences too and did not try to fit in a box. When you post a pic of a outfit nowdays, there are always people asking "what's this aesthetic?" bcs they think you should have one, to give them a simple answer.

I'm doing a 100 day challenge of no thrifting, no shopping and simply playing in my own wardrobe and aiming to wear and share a 100 different outfits that just make me happy. Day 20 and already feeling reenergised by what I already own. I found I was just buying more and more and not appreciating what I already have. Genuinely personal style is the best. Great thoughts here! x