HOW THE FATHER WOUND IMPACTS A WOMAN'S RELATIONSHIPS

"Whenever a woman tries to fix a man, she breaks herself!"

Ladies you can't fix a grown man he has to fix himself ❤❤

1) chooses emotionally unavailable men. Seeks out a man that mirrors the characteristics of her father and tries to get his approval. 2) tolerating poor treatment or abuse. 3) overcompensating in relationships; coping mechanisms to prove your worth/approval. Phil. 2:3-4 4) seeking validation through sex or physical affection. I Cor. 6:18-20. You’re sinning against yourself. 5) repeatedly testing a partner’s commitment. Hard to trust loyalty of others because of fear. I John 4:18. 6) difficulty with emotional intimacy. She can’t be transparent or vulnerable. 7) attempting to fix or save a man; tries molding him into what he should be. Gal. 6:2-5 8) power struggles in relationships. Becomes aggressively resistant to male authorities. 9) fears commitment. II Tim. 1:7. 10) sabotages relationships. Prevents her from being optimistic about making this work. Compounded with dreadful fear of being disappointed again. Hope deferred makes the heart sick. Titus 1:15.

I am so very thankful my father taught my sister and l that we are the prize. Therefore, when l got married my husband treated me like a queen. However, about 6 years into our marriage he began to be controlling & jealous. There was no need for this. He became jealous when l would talk to my grandmother and friends on the phone. My parents had moved to Washington, D.C. After my parents relocated. He began to "run in the streets" womanizing. I would not tolerate that kind of disrespect & abuse from my husband. I divorced him and never looked back. I raised my 3 children and graduated from college and got a good job. I've never remarried. Simply because l haven't met a man that is deserving of me. I don't say this to sound arrogant, but as a truth because l know l am intelligent, a God fearing woman and attractive. Thank you Pastor for your wisdom ! in

At 6 yrs old, my father was murdered and my mom was an absent parent (no love) 😢. So after he died, I was lost. I'm looking forward to this teaching. Thank you Pastor Blakes for your guidance. ❤

I had an absent father and a narcissist mother. It’s been tough.

I believe this is root of problem many of us had in contributing to our poor decisions. Thanks

My “dad” not being there was one of the worst things that has happened to me. The worst!!I’m 44 yrs old and still struggle with father wounds. Not feeling good enough hit the nail on the head!!! I’ve put up with reckless relationships because that’s all I thought I was worth. I am now finding my self worth and am healing from past hurt. God bless y’all!

As a young man this is very eye opening, i will forever keep saying it, your ministry is a gift to my Life.❤‍🔥

Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.

RC is my favorite internet preacher counselor guy

My father was in the home, but not emotionally present. I can see how the things that happened to me has negatively impacted my choices in men.

My father was an excellent provider but that's where it stopped. He left too much up to my mother who is narcissistic. These father wound lessons have helped me grow so much. 🙏🏽❤️

The profiles are exactly alike based on the men I USED to choose and the way my father made me feel...abandoned, unprotected, not a priority and not enough.

I am living proof that father wounds take a lifetime of work to undo. I have been triggered and pushed partner away unconsciously as a result of not recognising the narrative that I not chosen, not enough, will be abandoned after a while by my partner, be always the stop-gap/ placeholder due to dropping my standards & accepting less etc. was sabotaging my relationships up to the present

He started out treating me like a queen, then changed on me, because of his mother’s wounds, it freaked me out because I felt like he couldn’t cover me like he promised in the beginning.

RC I feel like you and TG officially healed my father wound. I used to feel all of these things but lately have been tested in ways that showed me that I am healed from the needing the approval of any man but the man upstairs!

Greetings Pastor Blake’s! My father was “around”. But, we didn’t have the “father-daughter-talk. I had “strong” women in my family who stayed in my ear. I still made mistakes. But, thank God I listened. To this day I loved myself enough to leave, and recognize the “red flags”. I am so thankful for you! I listen to all your videos. I have your books. 📚 You are the “father figure” to keep me grounded, avoiding falling in an “emotional vortex”, and recognizing “Tom-foolery”, when I see it. I, along with a lot of other ladies, truly appreciate you and Mrs. Blake’s for taking the time to teach & bring value to our lives. 💙

So true. I'm still healing from these predatory men who used to manipulate me. I ended up with narcissist men who turned out to be just like my own father. Sometimes I wish I can travel back in time to tell myself not to get involved with these men, but atleast I learned from these experiences and recognize these behavioral patterns. Some were communal narcissists into humanitarianism or donate to charities thinking they were good people, but I found out the hard way. Maybe it would be be an interesting topic with your take on communal narcissists. I now make art with fun, cute, and happy images to make people smile. Whenever I get triggers, I come watch you, and I feel better already. You're like the father I never had., and thank you for helping us all to reach the top!

Today is my father’s birthday. At 10/11 years old, I became responsible for uplifting him. He would vent that he didn’t feel appreciated. On one occasion, I wrote a 3 page letter ( remind you I’m about 11) to him about great memories and what I’m thankful for. Guess what he did? He got mad one day and tore it up in my face. He went on to say that I was an ungrateful and disrespectful child. I cried like a baby. My dad was a hot/cold, pastor/street runner, emotionally , mentally, and physically abusive man who would also praise me. 🥴 My dad is a selfish manipulative charming man with mother issues. I’ve dated some selfish manipulative charming men with mother issues. I’ve stopped engaging with him and also the men like him at this age and stage of my life. Thank God, I recognize my responsibilities in a relationship.