Signs You're Not Exactly A Man's Man

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Published 2014-03-25
All this stuff isn't what being a man is really about anyway.

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All Comments (21)
  • @BodyBruiser
    How to be a man:  1. Be as tranquil as a forest, but on fire within. 2. Find your center. 3. Be swift as the coursing river, with all the force of a great typhoon. 4. With all the strength of a raging fire, mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
  • @user-pq9mt3gf7e
    why are these things considered "manly"? these mean nothing? i hate gender stereotypes. 
  • @Danvik91
    How to be a free human being: Screw any stereotype and gender role, and be who you are. Justice has spoken
  • As a heterosexual man, maybe it's more important to be a "lady's man" (not saying that I am) than a "man's man". I'm kind of a modern guy. I like sports. I do my own auto maintenance. I like sex as much as the next guy, and I like beer even more than the next guy does. However, I also believe in not being a total tool towards women, and the importance of treating her like a lady. Many of us have daughters or sisters, and we all have mothers. Dudes need to evolve to a point when being a heterosexual man doesn't mean just the desire to bang chicks. We should enjoy the company of women, and thoroughly appreciate all that makes them feminine and interesting. I'm not saying that I'm above feeling just raw, primal, carnal attraction. Sure, I have seen gorgeous women, and have found myself unable to properly separate mere aesthetic attraction from carnal desire, but I believe it is possible to be respectful, while not repressing the primal part of my masculinity.
  • @TheCryptidman
    That awkward moment when you realize that men like this make tons more money sitting at a computer than men working every day of their lives in manual labor.
  • traits of a real man: 1.) wears pink 2.) wears any fucking colour 3.) wears pants 4.) wears skirts 5.) wears anything 6.) wears nothing 7.) when they say they are/identify as a man, thats it ! you are not less or more of a man for your behaviors, choices and/or genitals etc, etc, etc !
  • I gues everyone defines it differently what makes a guy a man. Personly I dont care about sports, I dont drink alcohol, Can't really repair anything, can't grow a good beard and dont feel a need to discuss the looks of all attractive women I see walking by if I am standing with other guys. But to me that doesnt make someone a man. Taking responsibility for your actions, and treating women properly is though. To me thats the difference between a boy and a man. That and I find it more important what women consider to be a man than what other men consider to be a man.
  • Wow, our society's stereotypes are ridiculous. Liking alcohol and sports is what defines if you are manly?
  • @WonderMousePC
    Just because your bad at sports doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to catch basic objects, that's just pathetic...
  • @takeru91
    I'm not a man's man..... AND I'M PROUD OF IT!!!
  • @rahulbinov1987
    Wow it must have been embarrasing to have been picked to do this video.....
  • @user-up4tz1on5x
    This is totally me. I hate it when people says I am not those kind of man. There is no one size fits all, I am not a stereotypical man..... I am sick and tired of hearing people telling me to man up.....
  • Some jars are packet so tightly that you can't possible open them without breaking the glass. So instead of pretending to be "manly", be smart and poke a hole in the can to release the pressure. Now anyone can open the jar.
  • @_kiwi_247
    All of these are, except jars, but I'll explain why this isn't because "I'm not a mans man" Can't grow convincing facial hair - that all depends on levels of testosterone, something you can't control without pharmaceuticals  Concerned about the presence of bugs - how does jumping away from something that pops out of nowhere make you less manly? Alcohol tastes like fire - it does taste like fire. People who say it doesn't are lying, and they're lying because they don't want people to think they aren't manly, but IMO, integrity/honesty is more important than pretending to enjoy straight spirits. Helpless at auto-repair - so because I spend my time learning stuff more useful than auto-repair, I'm not manly? It should be that people who don't study science aren't manly. Shy away from ogling women - my workmates ogle women all the time, I don't join in because I think it's disrespectful, she is someone's sister/daughter/mother/wife, I'm not going to go all crazyhorny and start going "damn dat ass is fi-ine" just so people think I'm manly. Sports not being your strong suit - jeez this stereotype... why is liking sports manly? Why isn't being academic more manly than liking sports?
  • @SilentMover95
    Restrain from ogling a woman doesnt make you a man but a gentleman.