Am I The A Hole | r/AITA 15

I don’t think the receptionist is the ahole no matter what they did/do. Its not their responsibility. Ofc telling the wife is the right thing, but its not their duty to tell

I love when the chat is like "needs more context" like girl that's the whole point you're trying to guess if you're the ahole or not off of the title before you read the story 😂

“So she proposed to herself??? On his behalf..?…. Oh!”

There's a lot of difficulty that comes with reporting an affair, especially when you know the people involved in a work capacity. Horrifyingly, people get attacked/targeted for revealing affairs because you are potentially revealing something that will ruin their lives. Obviously that's on the ones committing the affair, but unfortunately the person in the middle often takes the abuse for it. I was in a similar situation, and I told the wife anonymously once I left my job. My fiance's coworker proudly confessed to him that he is cheating on his fiance, and it's been eating him up inside, but we are waiting until he leaves to tell her (he's actively trying to leave). If it can at all be traced back to you and they know where you work every day, it gets tricky. And you could also lose your job, as even if you go about it outside of work and they find out, they will likely try to get you fired. It's hard, and telling the person is the right thing, but you have to go about it in the right way.

ooof, as a dog lover and dog owner the dog walker one made me MAD. like you said its SO easy to just say you cant walk the dog if its not something you are up to doing. instead they lie and make someone believe their dog is being taken care of when its not...and thats a long time for a dog to be left alone without being able to use the bathroom. like its ok not to be able to do a favor for a friend , just TELL them you're busy or not feeling up to it or whatever and to find someone else, hire a professional dogwalker, etc. Its the lying and making them think their dog would be in good hands when the poor pup is at home alone eventually freaking out cause it has to pee but wants to be a good boy and not go on the floor ... that makes me GRrrrr

YAY! I always throw everything down when Adam drops an AITA episode!

second story: huge nta, it truly weirds me out how unwavering belief in orthodox monogamy compels people to cross all kinds of boundaries, from abusive shit like constantly checking your partners location etc. to inserting themselves into the personal lives of others to air out their “suspicions.” cool story—i’m poly and i’ve been in a romantic and sexual relationship with a man for eight years who got married a few years ago to placate his religious family/community. his wife found out about me and promptly used our messages to create revenge porn of me, which is supposed to be punishable by up to 3 years in prison in the state where we live. when i called police to report it, i was advised to “let it go” and just never speak to this man again because apparently as his legal wife under state law SHE CAN SUE ME and him for “alienation of affection.” after she literally SEXUALLY ASSAULTED me. this shit is such antiquated garbage, it absolutely shocked me that they would actually discourage me from reporting a fucking crime. fuck the u.s. honestly

Happy to see you’re happier. You deserve the world Adam ❤❤

fucking hate these ads ... I was trying to sleep with my earphones by my side and my phone in the charger away from the bed ... Now I had to get up because of these fricking add😭... It's not anyone's fault ... I am just ranting 😢

In regards to the situation concerning Jane John and joe: I’m gonna go with NTA. Op is not the asshole for expressing valid thoughts about someone who was actively violating their boundaries, and John should not have told joe that. Joe could’ve seriously hurt op because John snitched!

34:08 So amazing to be validated by Adam, because I was really feeling fucking crazy because of that girl.

I just want to point out how often everyone’s answers would change from YTA to NTA once the story was actually read. (No shade at all I love that Adam asks everyone to choose based off the title it’s interesting) But I think it’s a great example of why nuance matters and why it’s so important not to judge without knowing the full picture. You can feel certain about something but I so often think people would be shocked how differently they would probably feel if they had more information.

These kinds of series are good to watch because it’s a learning moment for myself when these kinds of situations happen irl and I’ve been watching the aita series just to prepare myself for any the events mentioned js if idk what to in any situations

I love these videos. They are such a nice break from online drama.

My ADHD was so bad that I ruined many friendships. God, how I wish I could go back, get therapy and be a better friend..

Listened to this in the VOD last night at work, and damn... The muckers really got a ton of juicy shit going on in their lives 😂 . I would say I agree with Adam on all these.

The girl from the last one reminds me of someone I knew in college, she was so obsessed with the idea of having a baby that she used to spit her birth control pills down the toilet. It got so bad her partner had to check her mouth to make sure she swallowed them.

Unless I personally know someone personally, I'm staying out of it. That's not by business. PERIOD. I'm not getting in the middle of drama. I don't care who is involved. Sorry not sorry. If I know them, then that's different. But strangers, stay out of it.

Don't vent to John anymore but NTA

missed the stream but will not miss the vid‼️