Dirty Divorce Tricks Spouses Play | How to Avoid Them During Your Divorce

Great video! PA divorce lawyer here. Best thing you can do: don’t get married! Go live your best life! Low stress! Travel wherever, whenever you want! You can still have terrific intimate relationships without bringing in state divorce laws. Stay safe out there!

I am a California woman who was blindsided by divorce after 20 years of marriage. He served me mid-December. I am still in shock but managed to maintain my silence for our teenage girls. I didn’t want to ruin their Christmas. Today I meet with an attorney to find out where I stand.

Thanks, i will never marry and start investing wisely.

I won't ever get married again

Unfortunately there is no restraining order from emotional abuse. It is hard to prove , so an abusive parent will get 50% custody. Physical abuse if not documented through law enforcement won’t count and an abuser will get away . Many don’t know when a spouse throwing garbage , items , punching walls , damaging property is a physical abuse and have to documented!! Even if your spouse —- mentally inadequate and dangerous emotionally— the spouse still will get a custody. Dirty trick —- when a spouse fears the mom will get custody during his negligence and her being a good mom— he may propose a foster care . True story. Lie —- courts often do not act the best interest of the child . Kids become a product for a price the highest bidder is whiling to make. In the situation —- mediation is the worst option. If dealing with a narcissist— mediation is the worst option. Find those extra money to go to a trial and the court . Painful lesson is learned.

If either one is having an affair, they are a BAD PARENT. They don't deserve custody of the children they disregarded. Cheaters are not good parents...the end.

When my wife filed for divorce, I had to find an attorney. I set up an appointment with one, and spoke to him and gave him a bunch of details and voiced concerns. Then he said wait a moment, it appears I am already representing your wife. Umm, excuse me? You tell me that AFTER I give you all those details?

Yeah, it's all nice and pretty but lawyers cost $$$ and if mom is a stay at home mom, where is she going to get $$$ to pay for a lawyer??🤔

Very helpful info. Thank you

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Rule no. One: Spouse is to have a budget and live by it. Separate checking and credit card accounts. This is the standard of living de facto. Never joint accounts. Play fair but never get tangled up in fixing her financial screw ups, late payment, over draft on checking. It’s on her. If it becomes a problem early out of the gate and you want to stay together, get legally separated. That means you are married but your finances are separate. Note this is a common practice for the elderly to save their loved spouse from economic catastrophe when they themself, will have extreme medical expenses in the forward future, and can only receive government help after their personal finances are exhausted. So no it is not unusual to be married but legally separated.

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Dirty Trick Number 7 is exactly what happened to me

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