Lisa Bevere: How to Improve Family Relationships | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

Published 2024-04-11
This week on Better Together, Lisa Bevere talks about the need for boundaries with our families. Join the conversation as Laurie Crouch, CeCe Winans, Taylor Madu and Havilah Cunnington join Lisa Bevere to share personal stories of how they set boundaries with their families.

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00:00 The Importance of Learning Godly Boundaries
04:09 Lisa's Story of Boundaries With Her Mom
06:31 The Need to Rescue and Fight for Others
08:19 Trusting God's Will Over Our Feelings
11:13 How to Put Boundaries on Family Members
15:51 Extending a Hand Even If There May Be No Reconciliation
18:15 When the Enemy Twists Scripture to Manipulate You

All Comments (21)
  • THIS RIGHT HERE...... I WAS THE RESCUER, AND FIGHTER FOR MY FAMILY TOO, I ALSO WAS THE FIXER AFTER I MET MY HUSBAND JOHN THINGS BEGAN TO CHANGE, I HAVE LEARNED HOW TO SET UP HEALTHY BOUNDARIES WITH TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS. I AM HATED AND TOLD I AM BEING RELIGIOUS OR WHATEVER THEY MAY SAY BUT I AM CALLED TO MY HUSBAND, AND MY CHILDREN FIRST. GOD HAS BEEN TEACHING ME BOUNDARIES, WHERE IN MY CHILDHOOD I NEVER SEEN NOR WAS BOUNDARIES MODELED FOR MY SIBLINGS AND MYSELF. I NEEDED THIS
  • @Godslight1970s
    That was a word a word a word! "I was trying to train my husband and serve my kids" Thank you🙏🏾
  • @ChildofGod98765
    Jesus, hear my prayers. I want to quit but I’m holding on to my faith. As a single parent things are hard on me both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. I’m constantly struggling to provide the basic necessities for them I’m so ashamed. God hear my prayers. Every month I constantly struggle to pay my bills and struggle to provide groceries for my children Im so ashamed. BUT I KEEP FAITH. Even though I want to give up. Amen!
  • @gingerlee4116
    My take away is sometimes there is not restoration. God knows best, and if He doesn't restore, then its best. Amen..
  • Wow!! This was a right on word for me. I have my older daughter living with me & has been the last 5 1/2 years & it was to only be a year. Watching this, I have learned that I have to set the boundaries for her otherwise she will not grow. I need to let go & let God be her mediator, not me. Thank God for this word & these beautiful women.
  • @pumpfidentwoman
    I have had to put boundaries on people. You only take what you allow! There has to be healthy, Godly boundaries in any healthy relationship. Restoration requires repentance. This can take time and the time for restoration varies with each child of God and situation. The Bible says guard your heart.
  • 🔥🔥🔥 My Family Is Torn Apart, There Are Some Who Wish To Reconcile, But Some Want Nothing To Ever do With Each Other Again, Yet It is All From Very Small Misunderstandings..Jesus Have Mercy, 🙏 My Prayer That We All Can Love❤ Each Other Again As Christ Loves❤ Us Unconditionally.. Thank You For This Message And Prayers By Cece.
  • @S5767
    Just what I needed to learn. My dad is a narcissist and my mom has been conditioned to this treatment even when there’s solution, she doesn’t want to change new ways. I felt bad for her and kept trying to build her up in God but to no avail. She only hears and doesn’t act on it. Today I stopped! I will not be guilty for the choice that she makes consciously every single day.
  • Many times depression is caused by biological factors: vitamin & mineral deficiencies, thyroid hormone imbalances, sex hormone imbalances & brain chemical imbalances. Of course trauma & outside factors too.
  • Thank you for this I needed it , I currently don't have my daughter in my life she is 22 and took away my grandson, She has walked away from God, I am so broken but all I can do and accept that God will restore the relationship with her and I. I trust hes going to bring her back home. He knows her heart and she is his prodigal daughter.
  • Thank you ladies for your transparency. I’m just like Lisa was and I needed to hear this because I definitely enable my mom and excuse her behavior. This just help me understand what I need to do. God bless you all. 🙏🏾❤️
  • @terri.schenk
    Ladies, this is so good, wise and full of so much grace. Thank you.
  • @ca4561
    Lisa Bevere - I totally understand the dynamic you described. Thank you
  • AMEN to kindly truth-telling the toxic person; describing for them what healthy behaviour looks like. Thank you, Ladies, for the much needed topic!❤
  • Thank you for shairng this. Definitely needed to hear this today. God bless you all ❤
  • I love this!!!! Train my children. love my husband. Got it. This is the second time I'm hearing it. First from Pastor Mildred. Love it! Secondly, the message on forgiveness and restoration is WOW!
  • Thanks, I am blessed by this message. It has given me peace over one family relationship that was making me feel like I am a bad person. It got me to a point where I had to leave everything to God.
  • @ceelo22
    This is one of the most honest and vulnerable videos I’ve seen. So beautiful. Thank you. We’re all doing our best and with the grace of our God it’ll all work together for good. ❤️