How to INSTANTLY Make Him Emotionally Attracted | Attract Great Guys

Let there be silence is gold

3 simple steps to begin building a deeper connection with a man: 1) "Make him feel like a Hero" - make him protect and provide for you, make him earn your love, make him be his best version for you, by setting standards! 2) "Don't fill in the gaps by talking"- let there be silence when you are nervous, true emotional connection, true sensual tension is build in silence. 3) "Care for him"- be curious about him, ask yourself what's best for him, if you are the right person for him.

Simple, great and actionable advice. #1 is a big problem in the AA community right now. BW collectively have overdone the unearned hero worship. I love #3 and thought I was the only one who thought having a friendship bond is important! #2 Very powerful, connective and non manipulative. An intimacy builder before even a stitch of clothing is removed. If ppl practiced this one, the chronically hooking up culture would be in trouble. Thanks so much for insightful content.

This Jason Silver truly has a heart of Gold 💛. So genuine and that energy of kindness, understanding, positive lights just shine through 🌟🌠. Like a true friend, a loving father, a beloved brother... . What beautiful energy. So much integrity.. 💚 So blessed to hear you out 🙏

This is powerful! The win win strategy in particular. Indeed we all want to feel cared for , well said 👍

Thanks 😊 this is an excellent video!

I 😍 it!!!!! Good advice! Like a gentle tug of war....

Been on many many many coffee dates that now I usually know within minutes whether they're a good match, but I realize its also okay to try 2 dates so I wasn't always dismissing potentially good guys...Also yes, silence is amazing and needed..its actually creates closeness and sexual polarity/tension...but there are times where the MAN says nothing at all or has nothing to say or isn't mature enough to really add to a conversation or ask questions.... THAT GUY is NOT the right guy. Dont force it but usually if there is chemistry there will be moments where you have alot to share or he wants to know more. If the silence is awkward and bad, and very uncomfortable...please dont linger and end the date. Ive been on dates where some men were such POOR conversationalists (low self awareness, conscientious, low curiosity, poor social skills) and I felt so exhausted from carrying the conversations that I let the silence drag on and it didn't help at all that I had make excuses to leave. Also YOU CAN CARE and be curious, but if the man ghosts or stonewall or drops off....ladies he doesn't care, move on and stop beating yourself up. Its not your fault. Casual modern dating is learning to be good person but also never take anything too personally. And yes always ask yourself if youre also right for them....I ask myself that on most dates and find myself matching out of most men. It saves me and them time and a lot less confusion. Also, being single and free from all these dating etiquettes is so amazing and freeing and fun. It's exciting to know our future guy is out there waiting to find us but honestly being happy, living full life and being you is so rewarding already. Be your own hero, sit with your own silence and stare into your own eyes in mirror and say girl I love you, I got you, I'm here for you ❤💖💙♥💕

Love your channel ❤️

Great. 😊

The eye contact thing is even more difficult for us with autism. I'm going to practice though 🤞👍

Im so Happy that you are making videos regularly again . Mr. Jason why did you stop for a couple of months?

Another awesome video 😎

wooow that was so amazing video of you sir.,i appreciate you so much posting videos that we can used or apply in our daily life.. that was so heartwarming,keep on posting Good thougths for us thankyou very,Have a Great day and Godbless you always

Interestingly, I practice looking men in the eye but they tend to look away. What's up with that?

Brb gonna go win some staring contests in the frozen foods aisle 😂❤

After having baby, and corona...despite living and working from home...there is no "US" time or "me" time. We are together all the time...it actually feels like home is some sort of repetitive job. How to influence husband for some attention n love for me.

You Are Amazing thank u

I gave him all of those things but he still pulled away

This is quite insightful but I have to say that I don’t like it when a guy maintains eye contact without looking away from time to time, I find it creepy when a guy does that…I prefer that I like to be looking into his eyes and he looks into mine, but doesn’t stare into them without looking away here and there. I’ve only met two men who maintained eye contact with me the entire time whilst talking to me, and I just found them irritating and abrasive and something off about them… I also think having a strong bond together is important, but that bond takes time to build. If a guy is constantly addicted to sex and boomeranging between his ex and multiple FWB, then you just can’t build a bond with that person. That person would be happier being dependent on someone predictable rather than letting go of the toxic past, and you just simply can’t wait around for a person like that nor invest emotional energy into such a person. For me, if a guy shows me that he cares about our future together and takes actionable steps in doing so, then that is worth more to me than empty words of affection and love.