7 Signs You're Just An OPTION To Him...

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If a man makes u feel confused, he is wasting your time.

If he treats you like an option then leave him like a choice.

It's simple: "Always judge a person by their ACTIONS, and you will never be fooled by their words."

Fight for a man who loves you, do not fight for a man to love you. Very powerful message in here. Thank you

U can never be good enough for the WRONG
Person!!!
Amen

1. You always initiate
2. He doesn't spend a lot of time together (non-sexual)
3. He never wants to discuss the future with you
4. All he gives you is excuses and no correction
5. He keeps you in friend zone
6. His unwillingness to commit

" You can be an amazing woman yet he might not be designed to even see your value". Great point right there 💯💯💯💯💯🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️ Ladies let's set ourselves free 🙏🙏🙏

Ladies take back your power just walk away.. Make room for the right one

As men and women are out there dating in hopes of meeting that special someone, we are all options in some regard. What is the most devastating and disappointing aspect of dating today, is the lack of honesty. Speak on why men would rather lie, ghost and make up false excuses than speak the truth. Dating has become a world of constant pain, heartbreak and toxicity. If you're not playing those crazy games then you will surely be hurt. If you're not guarded at all times then you will be hurt. Being single is the only way to avoid any of these traumatic experiences in dating now. I'd rather be alone than subject myself to the constant deceptive behaviors I've encountered.

As a 31 year old mother, I wish I knew these things as a 20 year old inexperienced girl. I blurred the lines between sex, lust and love, and I thought because my now ex was hitting me up, that he was actually interested in me. He was interested in my body and vagina, but not what I had to offer. We had such a toxic, abusive, roller-coaster relationship over 10 years, including bringing a daughter into our mess. All of the signs were there, blaring in my face that he wasn't really interested in me "like that," but I chose to ignore them and was hoping to change him. I was so naive and so desperate for attention, love and affection, and I was not respected, cared for or understood. We are going through a custody battle at the moment. Ladies, please don't ever settle, know your worth, have dignity and follow your intuition if things seem off or inconsistent. If a man really wants YOU and what you have to offer, he will chase you and let it be known that he wants you. A man will never confuse you, play games or only hit you up at nighttime for sex.

Ladies please remember that you're not for everybody and everybody is not for you. A man not being interested in you can boil down to incompatibility.

“He wants the option of seeing you without the obligation of being with you”… whew I felt that to the core! U have a gift of verbalizing the uneasy and confusing situations

Some men all about words no action, ladies take care of yourselves, treat yourself to the nice things in life diamonds, cars, house, ect you work for it, why not,be that independent women, never seek a man's validation he should be the one chasing after you 🙌💯

You deserve more than being an option to any man. Value yourself and find the one who will see you as priority

Too many men want fwb and not the relationship commitment. I'd rather be alone than to settle for that.
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When he said " he wanna have the option to deal with her but not the obligation to be with her" I jumped out my seat 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

So true! When I finally met my husband, he told me he wanted an intentional and exclusive relationship and his actions made it clear!

It’s very hurtful when U know you’re a good woman and a man is not able see your true value. The rejection sucks and yes we may not be a great fit but trying to date in ur 40’s is tedious. I don’t want to settle but who wants to be lonely? No matter how confident I get there’s always that one person who walks away that makes me second guess my worth.

Ohhh when someone REALLY wants you, they will put that WORK in!