The Proof That He Feels Emotional Intimacy When He’s With You

Men who can communicate beyond sexual needs are praiseworthy gentleman

A man actively pursues what he wants with no ambiguity and in no uncertain terms. Mixed signals is the equivalent of a NO, ladies. Move on and don’t (continue to) waste your own time.

If he takes you out , spends his money , prays for you , fights and comes back , do dumb things because it makes you happy He loves you. Mine only fought with me.

That’s so true. Little moments give it away. I had a lightbulb moment when I was talking about films with a man who I was not yet dating, but just working with, and we got talking about the films that always made us cry. I told him mine and he went and watched it that afternoon, just to see what it was that effected me so much. He told me how he felt a couple of months later. There are good ones around, promise!

Easy, don’t sleep with him quickly. That’s how I made my boyfriend fall in love and trust me I spent a lot of time praying to meet someone like him

If he provides protects and profess to others about you, he is a keeper.

Why am i checking this? I dont even have a man😩

You’ve perfectly explained the dating experience of single women. Men only agree to casual sex first “then see how things go”. I know this dude is trying to help inform and educate about men’s behaviour however after 12 months attempting to date online, needing to connect with someone sexually first is beyond problematic and quite shallow and dangerous.

I think men get really nervous when the woman he has been chasing starts paying attention to him too Their insecurities come alive and they worry about being good enough

I think it is true that there are definite signs of emotional attachment in the course of things. However, keep in mind that men, like women, can 'act' and 'put in effort' of emotional attachment, in heavy doses when they want to or initially to get into favor, but as with narcissists, this can be a way to draw you in for the 'use of you'. SO, if a person you are dating or getting to know can keep up the emotional effort with consistency for a longer period of time than say about 6-9 months, you may have the real thing. I do think you are also right about the initial period - you don't want a 'love bomber' but you want to see if he is interested in getting to know the real you, and puts in some effort there first.

No matter what I'm doing I always stop when Brian Nox uploads a video. They are always amazing and so informative. Thankyou Brian xx

I find that you know truly how someone feels about you by how they treat you after youve been physical with them. If they have no interest in you, they tend to phase out and stop talking to you right after being physical. If they are actually interested, they will stick around after those bedroom activities

I’m sooo glad you mentioned all the effort some men may put in, just to obtain “Option A”. That’s not talked about enough! I have a man in my life who does all the listening, making me happy, chasing me, overcoming obstacles, caring about my life and comfort, etc... JUST to have the chance for “Option A” with me. And for years that threw me in for a loop because his actions were that of a person who loved someone!

I met a man last year who put in an amazing amount of effort for Option A. When I realized this, and told him flat out I was leaving him be (and not giving him Option A at all), he ghosted and I never heard from him again. 😂

I think Love finds us. I don't believe a person should chase after anyone to obtain it!

Was talking to this guy who seemed to “fight” for me, I was confused by the way he’d call/msg knowing I’d tell him to kick rocks, it made me sad the way he’d politely accept defeat and try again in a couple months, I admit there were times I accepted him out of admiration for his “effort”, and questioning whether it was me just rushing things, he drove through heavy snow, rain, and even to another city and back for me, most times for company, a cuddle, and of course sex, and it was ALWAYS ALWAYS at night. There was a brief moment in the connection where he kicked it into high gear, did the things I’d been wishing him to do, it was a beautiful couple weeks and that was it. This went on and off for 2.5 years. I was so confused, what man puts in this much time and energy if he only wants sex? What man drives an hour in sleet just to hang out in the car if he doesn’t have feelings for me? It was in his eyes, I’d catch him stare at me with joy written all over his face, he started opening up to me, he loved to hold me, he’d listen to me talk and talk and talk happily. I convinced myself he was silently in love and now I’m realizing that he enjoyed me for emotional comfort. I was a safe haven, and we were definitely attached, probably just two lonely people with aligning standards, but it was going no where. I had grown to love him and hopeful for us. He had his own shit going on, he attempted to be transparent but in a masculine/logical way, I needed more clarity on feelings. Its not on him to know what’s best for me, though I wish he’d had been man enough to tell me he was unwilling/unable to give me what I deserve. I adored him and am faithful to a fault. I say this bc this video helped me realize why I misinterpreted his “effort”, I was young, still am. It was a lesson for sure.

I'm opposite I want to sleep with him fast to see if I'm even bothered to go any further. If the sex doesn't work from the start then I wont be emotionally interested. Haven't we all tried to be all in love first and then sleeping with them makes you fall out of love quicker than anything. Such a waste of time. Must have been so sad in the old days were people would marry first and then find out they were completely incompatible in bed.

It happened the exact way, when i was emotional the first time. I was cyring, trying to hide it, but he noticed and asked me about what happened, if he said or did something?. I was unable to talk about the problem, so i was just silent, but he continue to asking, and hugging me. He was sooo sweet, that after i felt sorry for him to worrying that much for me. After we talked about the problem, it seems it was nothing, i was just exaggerated something... but still he was so understanding and kind. I think he really loves me, and don't wants to risk loosing me.

Thank you for approaching this tough subject! Knowing we don’t think alike but not understanding how they think puts us at a disadvantage when you genuinely care for a man and want to know if you are being understood. You just 100% summed this up for me! Thank you! Happy New Brian and Good Luck Everyone 😊

This is so sweet, I'm melting just thinking about him. Thank you so much for your help Brian! <3