What to do When a Guy Suddenly DISAPPEARS
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Published 2019-04-29
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I got this question from a client. She had a good thing going with a guy. He featured her on his IG, gave her gifts, and they had a lot of sex. Then, she started teasing him that she only wanted to be friends with benefits. He got upset about that and started ignoring her texts.
They talked and he said he wasn't sure if he wanted to be in a relationship with her or he just wanted to hang out.
What she could have done at this point is to say that they should take a break. He'll see other people and she'll see other people. If they meet again and they're both still single, they can get back
He eventually warmed up to her. He would be sweet in texts, will send her pictures, and say he missed her. However, he never made any effort to see her.
This is called breadcrumbing. What she needed to do was focus on his actions instead of his words.
After a few weeks, they met each other again and hooked up. She said she didn't want to see him only once a month. He agreed and they had a good talk while cuddling.
They texted a bit then he went silent for four days. He messaged again saying he was out of town. She told him that maybe he has girls in other states. He denied it.
He hasn't texted her for five days since that incident.
To me, it seems like he has a girlfriend. She needs to move on. M-O-V-E O-N!!
I'm not going to give her any elaborate plans. She needs to just throw out the trash.
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Disappear too. ✌🏽 That took me 2 seconds 😁 👻
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She is too emotionally invested. Women MUST LEARN TO CONTROL OUR FEELINGS. Ladies I promise if you don’t get emotionally invested and give up the cookies you will maintain control of the interaction...otherwise these trash ass sleaze balls are going to continue to bulldoze you.
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Alex when I feel like am about to break.. I just look at your videos and am strong again thanks
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Don’t sleep with someone until marriage and you see their character. Will save everyone a lot of heartache I think. God Bless You all. Thank you Alex. 🙏
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Sometimes we're in denial despite all the signs...."MOVE ON!"....& keep your dignity!
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She didn’t even let him take her out on dates or do anything cute, all they do is hookup. That’s boring and shows what she means to him.
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Always remember there are so many deserving men out there. It’s all about your energy. Ask yourself.. what would someone who loves themselves do. Have respect for yourself always ❤️
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Me i and myself dont keep my standars low because when the right guy appears he knows he Has to be patient...if a guy dont respect it ladies he is Not the right guy..do not give your body soul heart easy away. If you test him and you See he dont respects your Time ..your Life...and your value ..if he gives you only signs that he wants you for the bed and doesnt makes efforts to know you as person and individual run or he will hurt you use you or break your trust
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Sounds like he was serious. But she started playing games so he started playing
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My guy was obsessed with me for the first 5 months and then completely vanished out of nowhere soon he will see the grass ain’t greener on the other side !!!!
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I dont blame him tbh! He was amasing treating her like that. Buying sweets and a big bear. I'd be really upset too. He is rightfully guarding himself after her mind games. Poor guy!
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He treated a girl 100% like a friend-with-benefits but got upset when she suggested that this is what it was?!?!? How convenient it is to have an easy sex at a free place - no need to pay for hotel nor bring anyone at his place and still enjoy the special treatment and being prioritized by someone always available! And then, the girl took that as "being his real girlfriend" ?
😵😵😵 I think she was his sexy doormat and not a girlfriend. -
Whenever I get sad and lonely... I will just watch your videos and Im laughing myself alone here! Lol!!! You got all the sense of humor! Lol😂
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Throw out the Trash and MOVE ON!!! Right!!
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They do it for you to chase them ! Hands down 🖐!
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Your videos help so much! Ppl dont care, ppl are not honest and are very egoistic. Its so true and thank you for talking with us this way
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I love watching your videos Alex you keep it so real, and easy on the eyes too!
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You smack rationality to our heads lol god bless
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Love ur advice always keeping it real
