How To Frustrate Your Man | Kingsley Okonkwo

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1. Not appreciating his efforts 2. Not understanding timing 3. Not understanding submission 4. Not believing/supporting his dreams 5. Not respecting him, specially publicly 6. Not being emotionally responsible 7. Not knowing when to be his friend. I’ve leaned some more from this video, thank you for sharing.🙏🏾

Hello Pastor Kay, pls kindly teach men how to love. And pls make more episodes to serve as reminder. So many girls know these things but their men frustrate them a lot because of lack of knowledge on the part of those men. Thanks.

The whole world is always teaching women how to treat a man , how to keep a man . When can we start teaching men how to keep women, how to be faithful, how to create time for their family?

This message is talking to me... I feel guilty, you really nailed it sir.... thanks for this and I will adjust on my part. GOD HELP ME

Pastor K is describing men and I'm like, in that case I'm probably a man, because I don't like being told what to do, my solution to something I'm not so good at is running away, and just looking for somewhere else where there is no judgement. That's why I like spending much of my time by myself, because there is no judgement, no standards and I can relax completely. But then I get scared that I've been single for too long and I've grown comfortable with setting my own rules and living by my own judgement, that it may be difficult to adjust or cope when I start dating again.

Listening to this video, two things are quite clear. Men are needy and the whole world revolves around them. As a woman that wants to be with a man; you either learn to work with the situation or stay single...

It's not women. It's human. Every human can be this way.

Thank you pastor. The problem with most men is that they demand respect but they dont deserve it If you respect her she will respect you If you support her dreams she will support yours. But in Africa it's not many men who want to see their wives succeed

Chaiii!!! Your teachings have impacted my marriage so powerfully, God bless you!!

Thank you so much for this. I stumbled on your network and I must say that I appreciate your perspectives in the issues you highlighted. We have a lot of counselors or motivational speakers out there but your perspective suited my cultural background so I thank you. God bless you. Women get replenished when they have emotional companionship while men get depleted when they have the same... wow! Thank you so much for your insight! Wow!

Lets not forget that submission does not mean saying and doing nothing, about lies, cheating, beating and mismanagement of finances and laziness. Each person is accountable to the other on these matters.

Every human being both male and female need all these things....not just men.

So much wisdom. Thank you pastor

I experiences the same too. Where my husband don't support what i do as i can support him always. He complained in everything even when i go to church, pray and he nags. Doesn't listen to me. What do i do in this case PK. I have been following and listening to your teachings since i found you on YouTube and sometimes i will forward them to my husband because you teach so much of what i and hubby are experiencing, we almost go our separate ways last year. Your teaching have been giving me consolations to still carry on. Thank you for your words of encouragement full of wisdom and may the Lord continue to bless you Amen 🙏

Why do guys find it hard to say sorry. Also if guys run away from where they are being criticised, why not make some changes as opposed to run to somewhere else? If a man has several character flaws, only women who want to use him will stick with him.....

I feel there should be a lot more teaching and grooming for the men. Too much dos and donts for women and not a lot for the men. Please do more for the men so they also learn to do better for the women. Thank you

This was so helpful thank you greatly. Well articulated, precise and great.

Perfect 👌🏾 God bless you. You are so on point. WISDOM!💪🏽

Pastor Kingsley. Every time I bump into your YouTube videos_you always bless my life. I dunno how but you always speak the ‘truth’. In fact, one of the reasons I keep watching your videos or listening to your messages is because they are always backed up in God's word. Thank you so much.