New Year, New AITA wedding drama - REACTION

5:33 as a cancer survivor, I can say that Ana is definitely using her cancer as a way to steal the spotlight. I have 9 siblings and through my treatment I always made sure that they had the full spotlight on their milestones. Of course people asked how I was and I would tell them but I never did so in a way that would ruin my sibling’s celebrations.

The first one sounds like one of those typical "Title sounds awful, but OP is actually being fairly reasonable."

For the first story, I was sold on NTA when the sister refused to tell people in advance. She didn't want people to know, so that, when she showed up in a wheelchair, they'd flock to her asking if she's okay.

As an ER nurse I have so many stories about the toxic, steal-the-spotlight, invalid family members; it’s incredibly common particularly, I’ve noticed with people that got sick as kids. When a kid gets sick society and parents typically shower them with attention and make excuses for all bad behavior. Their health and the attention from it very quickly becomes the only source of validation for them. It’s a sad situation for them, but also, going low/no contact with them is often the only thing family can do to keep from getting sucked into a never ending pit of codependency and manipulation.

My fellow disabled people, having a disability is NOT an excuse to be rude/impolite. Most folks, including myself, are really grateful for help and attentive people. But don’t suck all the oxygen out of the room because just because you can get away with it.

The sister in the wheelchair is jealous of her healthy sister. She's doing this on purpose to take away her sister's joy on her special occasions.

When the sister refused to tell people before the wedding, boom. Told on herself. She 100% announces these things on purpose to ruin op’s moments

I spit out my drink when 🎶THEY SEE ME ROLLIN🎶 captioned "Anna" came on 😂😂😂😂

My cousin got married outside in 90° weather when I was 9 months pregnant. I went. My water broke during the ceremony but I finished out the wedding, told them congratulations after and How much I love them but I couldn't come to the reception because I had to go to the hospital. I told my mom and my grandma so they wouldn't wonder and that was it. No need for drama. The bride (my cousin) was excited and said she understood. There is no family drama when no one is toxic 😂

The girl in the second story is a walking red flag. She is ruining childhood friendship over a hearsay. The guy should RUN.

The first story I was willing to give the sister the benefit of the doubt until she insisted on revealing her wheelchair at the wedding

"The titties be tittying...." I'm dying!! I'm so stealing this!!! You are hilarious, girl!! ❤😂

I knew for a fact that my golden child sister would've objected at my wedding, so I asked the Officiant to not ask if anyone objected. The look on her face when we skipped over that part was a mix of "Wait, What?" and sarcastic "Great." 😊

The first story… when she starts announcing her illnesses etc get the Groomsmen to get a sheet of paper and one of them say ‘right who got x time…?’ And when her sister and Mum asks what do they mean… they laugh and say ‘oh we had a book on how long it would take for the sister to make this day about her…!’ Then they start handing out money to one guy saying ‘you won’. And when she gets offended explain we’ve been doing this for years because she always stealing the limelight.

I had a friend like "Anna". She always had to be the centre of attention. Like when my father passed, she never gave me any word of comfort, she never came to his funeral even though she used to live in front of the church (and she knew him-we grew up together) and when we saw each other again, the first thing she said to me was:"if I were you, I wouldn't have cried"

I'm imagining the SIL 'alice' with the white dress/wine explaining to the salesperson at Ross why they were there. "Oh no! At your wedding?" "NO MY BROTHER'S WEDDING" "side eye"

Being sick is not an excuse to take over events. She definitely just wants the attention. I was told by my doctor that they thought I had esophagus cancer the day before a close friends wedding. You know what I didn’t do? Tell everyone at the wedding about my hospital trip the day before where a bunch of scary tests had been rushed for me. People with handicaps or health problems don’t get a free pass from being decent human beings. I hope she works things out with her sister

“You can stay home pissy and pregnant” is great and accurate. 😂

Speaking as someone who was in hospital at the same time as a concert my sis had tickets for. Her friends, and my wife, told her, “Look, they’re in a coma. Just go. If you don’t, you’ll hate them for this.” She went to the concert. And was hospitalized with pneumonia. We still laugh about it. And yes, the hospital gave us rooms next to each other. It helped when I had to be in PT after waking up. My legs wanted to be noodles!

I was the sick sister growing up and was given an infinite amount of room to grow in, particularly with my personality. I've definitely had moments where my sister was like "Can you, like, dial it back?" But it's not an unreasonable request and I'd do anything for her, so I was like, yeah babes. And kept my lips shut for like 8 hrs. Then, the week before my brother's wedding I had a seizure and ended up on a ventilator. They weren't sure if I'd even make it to the wedding but I pulled through just in time. I wasn't in the wedding, which was fine, bc I had just woken up from a coma. Like, it's one day that's not about you. It's not that hard.