Relationships, Shadow Love, Healing Trauma, Passport Bros, & Marriage with 19 KEYS & STEPHEN SPEAKS
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Published 2023-05-13
S3E3 Ft. Stephan Speaks
Featured Guest Bio: Stephan Labossiere, AKA Stephan Speaks, is a certified relationship coach, speaker, and author. From understanding the opposite sex to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self-growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight help countless individuals achieve an amazing and authentic life. Dedicated to helping and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward yet compassionate delivery style attracts a varied clientele, including notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth! Stephan has been seen, heard, and chronicled in national and international media outlets, including the Tom Joyner Morning Show, The Examiner, ABC, and Huffington Post Live, to name a few.
This Episode:
This episode goes high level into the conversation of our understanding of fixing the misconceptions of the dynamics of relationships, recognizing styles of attachment, developing a healthy self-view, identifying the root of past trauma and its correlation to our present lives, the importance of honesty and transparency in relationships, and creating strategies to attract and maintain long term relationships.
Featured Guest Contact:
Website: www.stephanspeaks.com/
Instagram:www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/
19KEYS:
He is a believer in the unlimited human potential, and he aims to help more and more people realize their full potential. His mantra is “slaveship to ownership.” Growing up in Oakland, California as a Muslim of African-American origins, he had to face a lot of difficulties. Many people around him lost their lives due to poverty which motivated him to work harder and secure a better future.
19KEYS is a global thought leader and one of the pioneers in the space of Web 3, business, mindset, holistic wealth, tech , metaphysics and financial literacy; having millions of followers across the globe. 19KEYS is known for his relentless efforts in matters of wealth creation, especially for the youth. One of his initiatives has funded over 5 million student investment accounts.
19KEYS is also the co-founder of initiatives such as The Block World Order (BWO), Goldewater, and Crownz Society. When people think of 19KEYS, they think of a self-taught 21st-century polymath who believes work is the cure to all of our problems.
Follow his links below to learn more:
BWO (THE BLOCK WORLD ORDER)
bwo.cheatcode.com/
LinkTree
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Crownz 19 Link
crownz19.com/
GoldeWater Link
goldewater.com/
Book link
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00:00 Intro
04:33 No Nonsense
06:11 The State of Healthy Conversations
11:11 Exploring Our Shadow Self
16:33 Connecting to the Real You
17:55 The Baseline of Happiness
20:48 The Arranged Self
29:11 Anti-Love Culture, Rights of Passage, and the Logic of Love
39:33 The Great Customization of Human Beings
43:33 Making Peace with the Pain of Your Past
45:55 Healing the Hurt: No Longer Triggered By Trauma
50:22 Balancing Acts: Principles of the Divine Masculine and Feminine
01:00:33 Going Against Yourself
01:03:11 The Fall From Grace: Removing Hero Expectations
01:12:00 The Multitudinous Styles of Attachment
01:19:11 Promiscuous or Polygamous?
01:33:11 Cohabitation: Shaking Up the Concept of Shacking Up
01:43:55 The Effects of Microwavable Results
01:48:44 For the Love of Love or Fetish?
01:54:33 Settled Love
02:01:40 Innerstanding the Flow of Energy
02:06:44 Passport Bros and the Quest for Love
02:09:11 The Globalization of Love
02:11:33 Putting in Work
02:19:55 Customization vs. Generalization
02:28:44 Spiritual Compatibility
02:33:22 Soul Ties and Shadow Love
02:36:22 A True Reflection of Self
02:46:11 The Power of the Provider
02:54:00 Mind Sex: Reducing Stress to Enhance the Experience
02:58:44 Feminine Flow: The Art of Seduction
03:02:00 Appreciating the Beauty in the Differences
All Comments (21)
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Glad to have been able to join 19Keys for this high level conversation. I pray everyone finds this video helpful 🙏🏾
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Women instinctively become masculine when we realize we’re not being protected. We can’t help it. I hear you guys saying we NEED to be feminine all the time but different circumstances causes a different response 🤷🏽♀️.
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Love this, I’m 20 yrs old and I want to be good husband and father one day. I want to use my 20s to build the man I know I need to be when that time comes. It’s get hard and lonely sometimes but it will be worth it. This video made feel better about focusing on myself and trying overcome my problems so I don’t put them all on my partner. Thank you guys keep going!!!!
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Being authentic is best. Let a person love you for who you’re.
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“Not everyone is entitled to a relationship “ — POWERFUL.
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Thank you Keys for always loving on us Black woman! We appreciate you <3
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A high-level relationship event would be really great!
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The first half of this conversation really made me sad. The realization that we live in such a loveless, transactional world is heartbreaking. It’s hard for those of us who truly live in our heart chakra and view the world from a love centered perspective.
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Been married to my husband since 22….. turned 33 this year and we are still doing our thang! We look at social media , look at our children and am FEARFUL of the current brainwash smh !!!! Great conversation
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We all have masculine and feminine in us. Embracing both and knowing how to bring them out at the appropriate times is definitely is necessary but sometimes we bring them out at the wrong time and it can come off offensive to your partner. So knowing your partner and accepting both and expressing them at the right times is definitely important.
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This conversation was extremely helpful for me. I am a woman who has had to live in her masculinity, & within this conversation I have realized why I have always attracted men that I eventually felt like I became the "mother" to. Thank you 19 keys & Stephen for doing God's work and bringing awareness to all of us! I am extremely grateful.
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When he mentioned the suppressed shadow self as a child. It really hit me and completely changed my entire outlook on everything I do. I was extremely physically abused as a child and I had to always pretend I was okay. Always hiding bruises and scars and pretending my body was okay when I was in severe pain. I remember recently saying to myself I kind of lost track of who I was because I’m still pretending to this day. Working a job I hate being around dishonest hatful ppl at work. It makes me shut down and I keep quiet to myself to avoid it, just as I was a child. I couldn’t fight with my mother so I would try my hardest to stay as quiet as I possibly could to avoid it even though it never worked. I guess now I realize that, I get to get comfortable with finding my voice and using it.
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Stephen truly believes in love Keys is just worried about mating
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19 Keys, allow the guest to answer and elaborate when you present the guest with a question. It will truly be High Level before you give your point of view.
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19 Keys, with respect, please provide the space for your guest to talk more. We get that you are a Thought Leader but please ask them more questions. You legit go on monologues for 3 minutes - 10 minutes
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I totally AGREE...children need at least one parent when they come home from school. I didn't do many "things" because my mother was home until I became an adult!
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This is deep. My first date with my lady I took her to see Shahrazad Ali. And we also read her book together. It was powerful.
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I was waiting for a high level relationship conversation, y’all didn’t disappoint 🔥🤝🏾
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Yes please do create HLC love and dating events where high vibrational singles can meet. Just please make sure that there is an equal amount of men and women so that it's not just mostly women and that the people there genuinely are looking for love and commitment, marriage, etc.
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That Shadow self is soooo real. Ive always felt like this but didnt know what to call it. This causes so much anxiety also. Its soooo real whew. Just working and paying bills can be so miserable. I have no idea what I should be doing. But this is definitely not it smh!!
