How a Christian Man SHOULD Pursue a Christian Woman #ChristianDating

I cannot express how discouraged I am about dating right now. It seems like no one cares anymore, or are afraid of commitment.

I don't ever want to see other people. If I am pursuing a woman, I am only pursuing that woman and nobody else.

I Hope My Future Husband Sees This. 🙏🙏

Why don't people go old school and court? Courting doesn't mean sexual attraction right away. You are literally friends getting to know each other. Be honest in saying if you get into a relationship, it's for marriage. Courting is NOT a relationship. There's been many times I've wanted to court people to know their personality but refused because I knew they'd automatically think it was being a girlfriend. I wish we'd bring back the idea of pure, innocent, courting.

Y’all know what’s crazy, if you’re automatically an attractive woman, men literally rush you into the sexual scene. They don’t know how to control their urges. It’s automatically “I want you”. They don’t even care about my brain, or anything. Just getting in between those sheets. I’ve been celibate for some years, and a men will totally act interested, but a few months down the line and they try to have sex with me and I say no…the text messages stop. The phone calls stop. The hanging out, going on walks or coffee outings stop. I’m tired of this whole scene all together. I’m married to Jesus Christ at this point.

And let all the holy women and men say AAAAAAAMEN!!!

I was very intentional and up front on our first date, and my wife says she loved it.

This is to protect our heart as men too! Trust me, I learned my lesson although God was merciful Proverbs 4:23.

I haven't met a man who is really intentional about me. I have never been married before or even be proposed to. Because all people care about is just looks and not getting to know anyone. Plus I'm different I know I am. You won't find me twerking or wearing clothes that reveals everything. I get passed up just because I am not doing what is popular. And the men who are interested in me they say they are a Christian until I bring up that I am waiting until marriage it's a problem. Make having standards, respect, morals popular.I haven't had the experience of being courted. :)

Allen is 💯 on this one. A man of God will care about you more than himself (self sacrificial love as Christ loves the church) and will also do all he can to prioritize pouring into you as a woman of God. Take it from me, a man who God straightened up and kept accountable to for his soon to be finance/wife! God bless!

COURTSHIP...NOT DATING.

No one has ever been intentional with me in my 29 years. I get discouraged all the time and yet I hear the Lord's voice to trust in Him💞

Men need to listen to him. I drop guys for this exact behaviour. Stringing women along and not knowing what they want.

Thank you for saying this I have had this problem with man all my life to the point where now I'm 51 years old and I'm alone and don't have anybody in my life never was able to have a family because men are not serious about a relationship

Thank you Allen. I am so glad to hear someone helping us with selecting a person to marry. Much needed.

I really think courtship is important, not only to have more reasons to be with a woman but to see if she's the right one idk about telling that person straight up with it not ending with you guys together, but yes intentions must be clear

What if you've never dated? Not even once? What should you do? I'm genuinely curious because I'm ignorant.

Aww. Alan's wife .. She's so pretty.

It really hurts being on the receiving end of that.

I’m so discouraged too and I don’t feel beautiful because no man who loves God seems to even consider me unless he’s basically desperate.