10 Ways Delaying Gratification WILL Transform Your Life!!!

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All Comments (21)
  • @tjsoares4826
    What he forgot to tell about marshmallow experiment is that: " some group of children who were told to wait and then they would get to marshmallows, they didn't get. So they lost the trust. When we have no trust in the future or in life, we tend to use instant gratification as a cope strategy." it's better to get now when I have the chance because I don't know if I will get another opportunity.
  • @Olohmayakun
    Decision making self control time management focus concentration problem solving financial stability stronger relationships. Greater personal fulfillment. I am a stoic. Increased resilience. Reciprocity. Rewards of delayed gratification olamide siyon self. Overall quality of life has improved.
  • It's rough a month or two before completion after already having worked on it for half a year. This video is relevant to my current feels.
  • @Geno420
    yup, 6 minutes well spent. De verdad, encontrar tu canal me ha servido de mucho, gracias pelado Dorian, un abrazo a la distancia desde Chile :)
  • @alexarnold3117
    I’m here because I’ve been struggling to fight my urge to get my dream car, I can pay cash for it and it wouldn’t kill me but my long term goal is to buy my first house with cash. I know it’ll be worth the wait but I see that car and it’s really tempting. I’m very good with delayed gratification but this is the one thing I have even come close to considering over the house. Need videos like this to bring me back to earth and focus on my priorities. Thanks
  • What if there is no big win and you made all those life sacrifices in life. Live in the moment please.
  • Can you make a video about ChatGPT and its effect on people learning to code right now
  • @RatusMax
    I was suppose to be finished studying 7 months ago, but I kept delaying from time to time and then 3 months came up. I was either going to crunch it all in for the passed 3 months like I always do, or just keep a slower pace and not force myself. I chose to keep the slower pace. This was because my reading speed at the time was slow. It's sped up now. It was like I had to re-learn how to read effectively and fast. I chose not to CRUNCH be cause it would cause mental stress and possible burn out. Also it was a bad habit I learned from college. Consistency is better than crunch. Adding more hours and speeding through multiple subjects starts to become extremely detrimental. I realized that I should take the materials in like I play games. When I play games, I explore around the whole place and try things. When I get to something hard. I have to re-evaluate my skills and see where I am weak at. Then I train that weak area until I feel like it's good enough and go back and to the difficult section and complete it. I NEVER rush through games. Yet at some point I hit a state of flow when information and actions are at a high state. I realized this is how I truly learn. This is how I learn to enjoy things. Being consistent and being there everyday investing into it. I realized that short times over multiple days is better than large blocks over 2 days because it allows me to think about the subject for a while. I remember taking my time with Witcher 3 for example. I explored everywhere in that game. That was 2015....When I saw the trailers for the next gen upgrade, I knew exactly where the people were in the trailer. This is how I knew this slower path of doing things is the right path. Maybe, me rushing through the stuff was me selling out for the short term rewards....and now taking my time to actually know and explore my software skills means that I am finally delaying my gratification. I could have had A job by the end of the year...but would I have had THE job by the end of the year if I burned through the subjects. I don't think so. My goal is to have a job by the summer now.
  • @angmori172
    One week without gaming, which along with a sweet tooth has been my most detrimental addiction. Productivity has skyrocketed and I feel like a new man.
  • @sohodoll1235
    Could you give us some examples on how we can implement this?
  • @Clipahoy
    Bro you even copied the thumbnail