When They Move On Too Fast. . .
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Published 2024-02-26
But what about when someone breaks up with us, and before we have time to recover and heal from the heartbreak, we discover they have moved on with somebody else?
Sadly, this happens often and now we have unlimited access to our ex's lives through social media, our healing process can take longer than feels bearable sometimes.
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All Comments (21)
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If your old person is now dating someone as rude as this woman seems to be (based on her social media behaviors, i have nothing else to go on)....perhaps you are better off. You're meant for better. ❤
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Unless you all are 15 years old, this new partner does not seem to be a high value person. The fact that your ex tolerates this, just shows that they are in the same league. You dodged a bullet.
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The new girl is very insecure. He must still talk about you. She will see in time.
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Is anybody gonna talk about how crass and low class it is of this other girl to post these kinds of things on social media, as if to rub it in the ex’s face? Who post text conversation with their new significant other online on social media? Is nothing private anymore? That is so de clase. Fastly, to who the woman was that was expressing this problem in the first place… Girlfriend, block her and block him on social media. And if you don’t have the emotional wherewithal to do that, the courage, Then you need to get off social media altogether until you get your head straight
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Anyone who posts that publicly after a breakup is insensitive and immature, in my opinion, especially if he knows his ex will see it. Even if he feels that way about his new girlfriend, you keep that to yourself and don't rub salt in the wound, but some people just have no self-awareness or respect for others. She's better off without him!
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If someone feels that way, then by radical definition, that person was never my person.
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When my ex fiance posted, "Happiness is being married to your best friend!" IDK how I replied, "Fantastic! Time will tell." Two yrs. later, it was over. Nothing is forever, so not letting the new temporary wreck you is key.
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New Girl is a rebound and she knows it. Block them both and keep it pushing. 6 months isn’t that long
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The new girl is jealous of the old girl and trying to show her up / one up her / competitive/ ego distortion. The new girl feels something is off and why she’s targeting the old girl. He’s not really capable of loving someone in a healthy mature way . 6 months is probably a very long term relationship for him.
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New girl is screaming "I'm insecure." Or The ex-boyfriend is decent at Photoshop and is the "new girl" trying to make her jealous. Either way, bullet dodged.
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That would hurt so much my goodness. That behavior is definitely not normal or necessary. If they are really so in love why not leave the past love alone. Sounds like their relationship isn’t what it appears to be. She definitely is better off without him.
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My 12 tear marriage ended and within 2 years ge was engaged, now married and I saw there first dance and it was the song we used for our first dance. I was gutted
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The new chick is toxic. I think the one asking about this should block the new girl on everything because she's playing mind games and is intending harm. The guy will have to deal with that side of the new chick soon enough.
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She isn’t the new girl, she was there before you broke up!
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This is beneath anyone with class. Step away and don’t look back. Horrible people.
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The new woman could be lying through her teeth. You just never know. And who cares right? He freed you to move forward in life if he wasnt going to be invested.
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I always say that, “they were just not my person” or “they were just not into me”.
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Mine moved on about 6 months after our break up too, they even moved in together. It lasted no more than 4 months. He was back grovelling nearly 2 years after no contact. Guys tend to move on quicker but regret it later - at least that’s been my experience anyway
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Deceitful guys lie to the new girl … just like they probably lied to you. I’ve heard one guy LITERALLY saying he “was in love with me” and that I was “The best woman he’d ever met” … But was moving onto someone he was “more sure” about … because she was EASIER TO CONTROL 😳 … he literally said she was easier to get in bed and he knew he could literally give her money to keep her “loyal” 😂 … she’s not a “better” choice, she just had lower standards and will sell her body.
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3 years & he dated someone within a month. He lied to her...saying we had broken up months ago lol he posted her within weeks & it took him almost a year to post me. Gut punch
