Why Didn’t Your Daddy Take You with Him when he left? #childsupport #modernwomen #babymomma

Where is the lie? Sounds like someone is making excuses again. Cut it out. Take care of tour children. Period.

Deadbeats always have an excuse, where is the lie in what she said though

Here is my question. Men say that they leave because she's crazy or something negative, yet leave a defenseless child there. The question is if the environment is toxic/dangerous why leave a child with her? Does that make sense? You as an adult can't deal with it but a child can???

She technically is right. If the dad was stable and wanted too, there would be more single dads and broken homes don’t mean fathers can’t help raise their children, most choose not to for whatever reason especially if they can’t be with the woman. Those are facts. Y’all gone have to argue with your momma about this one. All women don’t get assistance and that’s bare minimum. You mean women with bare minimum are better off with the kid than a man that should be taking care of the family? That’s wild at the least.

My husband was a single father before I met him. He fought for his son. Tooth and nail. Because he didn't want his son to be raised by a crazy woman who would turn their son against him. Hasn't taken a dime of child support from her. He also never says disparaging things about his son's mother to him, ever. That's just another excuse for yall to be lackluster lazy fathers.

This is highly bizarre. If the mother of your child/ren leaves you and takes your kid/s, take her to court to establish a custody arrangement. There are various legal organizations that aid folk in their custody matters pro bono. You don't have to act hopeless. You're telling me that her leaving leads you to throw your hands up in the air and give up on your parental duties...? What?

Ooooowwweeeee another man defending men’s actions while trying to tell women “what a woman can’t” teach you. That lady was 100% correct. Talk about that. Where’s the “things your dad that left cant teach you” as a man go talk to men. Center your channel around making men better. But it’s so much easier to talk about the parent that stays

Where's the lie, though?

It's Abandonment My father had so many opportunities for equal parenting and still did not show up I even went out of my way to live with him he did not want anything to do with me My step mother still experienced the same problems that my mother had I concluded Those men that want their kids Get their kids Those who don't Do not

She’s right

Sounds like he's attempting to bash the OP, but they're talking about two different things. OP is stating how men chose to leave their children because they aren't able to have access to the woman...that is abandonment! While he's pulled a clip from the 70's where a woman discusses how the system benefits single parent homes. I don't see how we can compare either at this point. With the way in which he's outlined this, you'd think all women actually want to be single mothers on the system - basically having kids just to b for a handout. No sir, no one grows up saying that's their ultimate goal‼️

I can't with the "No Diddy" at the end. I completely forgot about everything I just heard😅😅😅

I got a divorce after married for 15 years, when the ex abandoned her role in marriage, causing serious issues, when our kids were upper elementary age. I didn't take her court because we had mutual understand dispite our indifference on matter of the fallout the kid need both us to parent them we were doing in the marriage. We avoid the court system lawyers because it will cause more damage by filing uncontested divorce. We need to be mature and think about each others life because at the end of the day we still have to work together indirectly or directly in the society that we benefit from each other.

I told my sisters second husband that his daughter is living with an crack addict and that when they pick her up. They are safety concerns . As former CPS I told my sister and her new husband that if anything happens that child and dad was aware of the neglect. Dad could be a respondent in a child abuse or neglect filing. Dad filed for custody and was awarded custody. Mom never showed up in court. And she died a few weeks later.

The lady isn’t lying tho. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Well my dad was a rolling stone..he wasn’t raised on how to love one woman

Another man with excuses.....what else is new???

These women just be hella bitter lol

Check it out 1st everyone needs to speak real and not wat yu learned or heard in social media. So it goes… mamas baby, daddy’s maybe… only because how our government has enabled women to function without da father from getting child support food stamps/ government assistance of some short. Now whether the father takes da baby or da baby stays with da mother is all situational. Now most time men walk away because da relationship is over and to hurt her for hurting him by leaving him or not taking him back he feels that if he turns a cold shoulder towards da baby she’ll take him back to be a family. Yu knw how men be like “yu better not have da next man around my baby…” or he’ll attempt to win yu over but use da kids to do so. So all In all if he’s a stand up man at da very least he’ll give 50/50. Id refuse to allow my son or daughter call another man dad or anything of da sort. So yes it can be a nasty fall out between mom and dad or moms could make it extremely difficult or try to control da man or situation because she has that man’s child. But I always say put da bullsh*t to da side and come to an agreement/ arrangement together and stop allowing da “system “ to dictate and control yur family dynamics especially when all yu are/ we are is a docket/ sku number we putting money in their pockets because we can’t control our emotions and lead our families wether yu with the parent of da child or not if it’s really for da benefit of da child yull make it wrk and YES IT TAKES BOTH PARENTS. Unless one of da parents are I. Da streets or a knucklehead yu dnt want to lead yur child down da wrong path especially with a man or woman as influential as a mother and father. But da lady In da video we can see why da father isn’t around …

Damn u FINEEEEEE OOOH LORT!!!!!😍😍😍😍😍