Yandy & Mendeecees: Is Love Worth Fighting For? 💔 Love & Hip Hop Atlanta

Once Yandy found out that her husband wouldn’t ride for her if she was in jail she lost respect for him.

See this is why I will never do a bid with a dude. You sacrifice so much money, time, energy, no sex, all while your holding him down just for him to get out and tell you he doesn't want to watch the kids for a week while your on a business trip.

A man is your worst hater. He wants her full attention but she’s held him down. She’s did all she had to she wants to live her life a little . For him to say he don’t think yandy love him is ungrateful

She did it alone for so long and I think she is still in that mindset

As a man I am infuriated with Mendeecees. Yandy held down this relationship when he effed up. She was a single parent holding down the household, being mother and father, putting her dreams and desires on hold, having to put up with two atrociously awful ex-things of Mendeecees, having to deal with the disrespect from his mother and the frustration from her friends..... only for him to be insecure that he isn't stepping up and feeling shame and guilt and can't get his 'ish together because Yandy is now finding her new groove! I'm proper vexed big time. I'd love a sit down with him to point this all out! He needs to be very careful otherwise he will lose his rock Yandy! She is a great woman and any other man....a real man... would love to have her in his life! Get your ish together Mendeecees!

If it was the other way around he would tell her he’s providing and taking care of his family such a double standard Smfh

Imagine holding down a man when he went to prison. When he got out, he dragged on marrying you. Told you that if the tables were turned, he wouldn’t hold you down. And now has the audacity to try and guilt trip you out of pursuing your passions because he has none… This just shows no matter how much a woman gives up for a relationship, a selfish, entitled, egotistical man will still find something to complain about. If he wanted things to be like they were before he went to prison, he shouldn’t have did the things that put him there.

Lmao this the same man that said out his mouth he wouldn’t hold his wife down like she did for him if the tables turned. Sorry Yandy ain’t wrong

I understand both sides. Mendeecees misses his wife before he left for prison. When he came out she was hustling & I’m guessing he felt like he was being forgotten. Yandy had to pull up her big girl panties and make sure the family was good. They need to talk it out, get to a common ground, & find the love again.

Dang Mendeecee you’re asking yourself “Can I divorce Yandy?” everyday ?? It’s that bad??? 😬😬😬

Ladies this is why , when you’re more successful than your husband , this happens .

He’s upset about nothing, he ain’t say one thing that he’s actually upset about. He’s just complaining about what he thinks her motives are, but hasn’t asked her specifically. 🤷🏿‍♂️ this is what happens when you marry somebody dumb. 😅😅😅

Welp how many yrs did this woman wait on her husband while doing all of this on her own with no help no backbone no support no breaks and now that her husband is home he can't carry the torch for a week and then says that he doesn't feel love because she's not as present as he would like well isn't that the pot calling the kettle black

He's not up to par so he's guilt shaming Yandy. Hes the man he feels she's out doing him instead of loving and and helping him. He's immature she's too much woman for him. She deserves to live on her terms she has sacrificed enough. Dont let him dim your light Yandy you are a great woman. It's nothing wrong with giving all you gave and sacrificed to yourself. Don't let his mental instability shrink your greatness. Keep living, doing self care, meditating, creating, and live and be happy . He can't live thru you he must be his own man and bring that to you. Bless up Yandy 🙏🏾💝💯💃🏾👍🏾🎊

He is speaking up without acting up, pouring his heart out and asking her to hear him. This is beautiful I pray over them.

I feel like two things can be true and I see where both of them are coming from.

I think this all stems from Yandy deciding to give her eggs to her cousin without even really consulting him. Yandy is use to doing it on her own for those years so now that he’s back their dynamic has changed. He’s used to Yandy doing what he wants. He has to realize that this isn’t the same Yandy that he left when he had to go to prison and she also needs to realize that she can’t just go about making huge decisions like he still isn’t there.

Yandy is so naturally beautiful 😍🥰

I can see where both of them are coming from. I get it and I'm happy he has suggested talking to someone instead of calling it quits. They should work on it for sure. 👏🏽

This man went to jail for 4 years while yandy held her and his family down and still loved him, he came out and said he wouldn’t do the same for her and instead of doing his job as a man and stepping up to either take care of the household or his children which yandy did both while he was in jail, he couldn’t take it for not even a year probably not even 6 months and had the audacity to tell her that she doesn’t love him and that she needs to slow down on what she’s been doing for 4 years without him. He’s def not emotionally intelligent, he’s manipulative💁🏽‍♂️