Who Has Impacted Your Life and Have You Told Them Yet? | Bonnie Habyan | TEDxGainesville

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Published 2024-05-15

One of people's greatest regrets are the things left unsaid to those who matter most - simple, but power things like, "Thank you. I love you. You made a difference." In this talk, successful marketer, author, and inspirational speaker, Bonnie Habyan, urges everyone to identify and acknowledge those special people now. She tells them not to wait until it is too late. She shares some of the funny and touching lessons her special person taught her and explains how she made sure to let her know the impact she made on her life before she passed. She says letting people know what they mean to you right now is the single most beautiful gift one human can give to another, emphatically adding, "Do it today. You will be so happy you did." Bonnie Lorber Habyan is an author, speaker, and Chief Marketing Officer. During her 30-year career, Bonnie has been a corporate spokesperson, news reporter, and radio Love Songs DJ. Her passions are marketing, branding, writing, and family. After publishing her first book in 2022, a funny memoir about her mom, she embraced a journey that has led her on a path of connecting and sharing her life’s experiences. In addition to working full time for a rapidly growing commercial real estate finance company, she hosts a podcast series called Brand the Change and is working on her second book, one that will focus on branding and thought leadership. Bonnie lives with her husband of 32 years, former major league pitcher John Habyan, and has a 26-year-old daughter Holly, who she says is her life’s greatest achievement. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

All Comments (21)

@jessiedallen 6 hours ago

She's an amazing speaker, the fact that she can talk about all of that and not lose it, super impressive
@IdeaHammock 13 days ago

Oh my the story about the stolen car!! So good and I love that instead of her being embarrassed she told you to lighten up! What a woman.
@DanielleL1000 14 days ago

So wonderful. Such awesome messages. I knew Bess and she always greeted me warmly. She is proud of you Bonnie.
@skipmassengill3884 21 days ago

Bonnie , I recently lost a very close friend of many years. Luckily, we spoke almost daily, and in our last conversation, he told me he loved me, and I told him the same. Watching your TEDx talk deeply moved me, and your heartfelt message and the life lessons you shared from your mother, Bessie, resonated profoundly. Your emphasis on gratitude and expressing love to those who have shaped us reminded me of the importance of cherishing and acknowledging our loved ones while we can. Thank you for sharing such a personal and impactful story. Warmest regards, Skip
@kellyhabyan5973 21 days ago

I was fortunate enough to see this talk Live, but it was just as good and heartwarming watching it here on YouTube! Bonnie gets you laughing and crying a little as she shares the impact her mom had on her life. She also helps us all remember the importance of telling others how much we love them and appreciate them while they're with us! This is a great talk to share with friends & family of all ages!
@DIANAPARISI-wb4lk 21 days ago

I love how she took those stories from her book "The World According to Bess", and shared an important message to others. Today, everyone is always running and not paying attention. Thank you, Bonnie, for beautifully helping people to understand what really matters. Job well done. 👏
@kathymaxa9397 21 days ago

What an amazing and inspiring talk. Bonnie makes us laugh and makes us cry by sharing insightful and sometimes irreverent advice from her mom but most importantly shares how she took the opportunity to tell her mom how that advice had shaped her life. I imagine this Ted Talk could have a ripple effect. Maybe the stirring of emotions will propel each of us to tell at least one or two important people in our lives how much they have impacted us. This isn’t just a warm, humorous collection of stories; it’s a crucial reminder. Act now, before it’s too late. Thank you, Bonnie!
@BarbaraMacLeodUS 21 days ago

So many words of wisdom, Bonnie, and very inspiring! And you're so well spoken - well done!
@MrJoe6strings 14 days ago

Amazing Ted talk Bonnie! Thanks for sharing such an important and heartfelt message about letting the people in our lives who have loved us and supported us know that they matter. That we love them too. And that there's no time like the present to show our gratitude!
@carolpoliti 21 days ago

Love this Such a blessing to be able to support your mom in that time, and anyone else special, and to thank them.
@danamileskie3289 21 days ago

This was AWESOME Bonnie!! Laughter and tears together!! Congratulations on this amazing YouTube!! Loved to hear Bess’s name and memories you shared❤️🙏🏻💕❤️🙏🏻💕💕
@MarcoPolo-uh4pn 13 days ago

Oh my her mother sounds so amazing, no wonder she loved her so much
@goldsteinfamily 21 days ago

What an amazingly inspirational presentation. Bonnie speaks with humor and grace. It made my night. I can’t wait to see what she shares next.
@snrism 14 days ago

one of my favorite tedx talks in the recent times. Great job Bonnie
@sarahoberlin3869 14 days ago

Bonnie this resonates with me. I'll keep your message in my heart as I work to remind others how much they mean to me. YOU impacted my college life in many important ways, but most of all by being my friend. Cheers to you.
@bvisiblewithmel3582 21 days ago

Bonnie's grace & eloquence always warms our 💕 with inspiring magic. Watching with warm tears as your stories help us celebrate loved ones & their legacy. You rich presentation is helping me navigate some big steps with courage. Bless you Bonnie. Looking forward to a virtual toast to celebrate your success until we meet in person.
@anneshaffer5314 21 days ago

This is the TedX video you will want to show your family, friends, students, and the neighbors! Great life lessons!!
@judy-zz9ok 21 days ago

...words matter, dance on the table, life is short...so true...we all need to be reminded. Thx Bonnie.
@gerikern5570 21 days ago

Super job, Bonnie!!!
@jmartello89 21 days ago

Such wisdom! And delivered in a beautiful and funny way. Bonnie's talk made me pause and reflect on what's important in my life.