Why You Need To Let Him Pull Away If You Want Him To Fall For You (How Men Fall In Love)

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He pulled away & put up a wall for the last time...this last time, I helped him build the wall even higher & shut down the entire “situationship.”✌🏾

Never ever chase a dude. Never call him or text. Make him come to you.

Why can't men and women just talk to each other: WOMAN: Baby where are you? I miss you, I feel neglected :( MAN: Yah I hear you babe. But don't worry, I'm just taking some space and need to work. It's my testosterone. I'm recharging it. We keep the passion alive this way xx back in a couple days WOMAN: OK no problem! Thanks for communicating!

Ive learned that in my relationship when it first started. He pulled away and the affection and intimacy started to dwindle and it was because I was trying to get him to talk and made him feel pressured and trapped in a corner. So i was only able to see him on the weekends so the distance helped but while i was gone i didnt blow up his phone. I kept busy and gave him a chance to miss me and text me first. Its true, when you give them a chance to miss you and dont push yourself on them and give them space, they will be encouraged to want to be around you more. Ive experienced it!!

I support this statement.. i always do this to a man.. whenever man pulls away or take some space i never text.. i never asked why why why... i just leaning back and focus on myself. If you think i dont worry yes i dont worry if he will not come back because i know my value.. but i worry if what is exactly happening to him. But let him feel alone for sometime. He is not dead lol. i let him pull back because i know he will come back because i know im a high value woman a high value man always wanted to be on his life.. i know my value and man knows it too.. if you understand man psychology, this video is right for you.. women should not only focus on her own intuition.. try also to learn and understand your man. He took space it doesn’t me he forgot you... noooo.. no such worries if you are a high value woman.. a man likes high value woman.. if you have this, once they get recharge and get back to you it is more intense. It is reality of some women to freak out asking why when man withdraw himself.. but thats a mind draining to a man. Your man is recharging , but here you are keep him draining for your improper action. as a high value woman you know your limitations of course l, consistently doing this to you is not healthy at all.. as i said if you displaying a high value attitude when he comes back instead of nagging and feeling you have forgotten, have a welcoming heart, you will see his effort for your patience and understanding.. he will pays off with so much love.. yes he will love you more and more like you are the only woman exist on his world. But dont be confused with a hot a cold treatment it is different from a man who has deep feelings for you and get detach to recharge. If you possess a high value attitude then you will be grateful because great man stays with great woman not into a woman who is needy and clingy.. high quality man hate these things.. thanks for this video this is a great help🥰

This is 100% legit! I've found that they tend to come back even stronger/closer when they've been away from you for a while (for good reason).

To me, it's all about respect. Both men and women need space. It's how one goes about doing it. If you just pull away and stop all contact for days or weeks, it's done. If you express that you need your space, I'll respect that. Any man that truly loves a woman will not risk losing her.

This makes a lot of sense, Helena. I'm used to a guy needing lots of space and some alone time because that's how my ex was. So I don't necessarily panic if a man needs space. I also love to have space for myself, to be an independent woman with my own hobbies and work. Thanks!

This is really helpful 😊🌻 thank you.. It gives comfort to know how common this is, most women don't understand why a man needs a few days where he doesn't contact you... And to understand he may even be more into us in that moment... It actually feels more relaxing leaning back in these times.. Even tho it can feel like your brain wants you to reconnect with the man.. Leaning back takes away a lot of anxiety I'm finding.. My ex had an avoidance attachment style and used to dissappear for weeks all the time to punish me, I hated it and hence the unhealthy relationship cycle went on.... Its been a lot of learning on my part to know it's not normal man behaviour... So much love to you both. You're amazing 💞

So I was dating someone that I really liked last year and I lost him when he pulled away because I handled it wrong. Fast forward to last weekend I’m now dating someone I really like and he pulled away. I freaked out a little and did a few things wrong, then I REMEMBERED what you said! I used your advice from this video and advice from another video that you did on the same subject. Tadaa! Still dating him!!! If I hadn’t remembered your advice in the nick of time, this relationship would be over. I know this because we’ve talked about it! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!! 🙏🏻👏❤️☺️

I had a man who would always just text me and say Hi. He would sometimes take weeks to come back. I kept going on with my life and dating. Each time he would reach out I always was. Friendly and greeted him well. 1yr 1/2 later we went out on our first true date he bought me flowers and he poured his feelings out. He Made it clear he loved me and wanted me to be the woman that was going to meet his children. He also wanted to formalize our relationship and marry me. This is why we need to let things be God has a plan for each one of us. I always let him lead the relationship and I always kept Busy. I actually didn’t even care about him but I did enjoy texting n talking with him. I wasn’t expecting anything at all. What will be will be. Keep busy enjoy your life. The man that will be in your future will be.

Needed this 🙃 had a weekend away with him and even though I know he’s moving apartments and hosting family this week— the pull back since Monday has had me so anxious . I’ve been good so far and haven’t been chasing, Thank you for this !

“I love that. ☺️” - Helena Hart 💕

This makes sense, so glad I watched. Thanks!

Best topic ever ! And you guys make it so simple to understand, thank you ❤

I love your new authenticity Helena... I feel you. Gorgeous. ❤ And yes amazing video I couldn't agree more. From my experience men are simple creatures they need to recharge themselves to be able to give more energy back into the relationship also they need to find themselves again.. connection and a lot of intimacy and feeling is still something men learn to deal with. Usually their woman is the exclusive point of access to that emotional world and it can feel overwhelming to men... so they need to recenter to be able to reach out again and want more of that. Leaning back is so extremely important for us women and it taps straight into our feminine energy. ❤ great work! Lots of love

I never learned this until I was around 30 years old and it makes so much sense to me and wish I had known this so much sooner. It feels so painful for a woman who doesn’t know this information, we take it so personally. But would we really want our mans testosterone to drop where he isn’t in his right energy and he’s not happy??? He has to bring that back up and MISS US.

Oh my goodness…this information is priceless!! Thank you, thank you!!

You two are awesome!! Doing a great job! It's great that you are both offering this! 👍