how to be confident in 5 minutes ( NO BULLSHIT)

I absolutely love this, finally someone who preaches the difference between ego & confidence; something everyone on the internet has blurred the lines of.

I love how aggressive she is with the advice 😂 I need this energy every now and then

It’s so rare now to find a girl like you that’s not brainwashed by social media. My respect.

Confidence takes time. Like real real confidence. It takes time to not care about what people think. It takes experience. Confidence wont be earned by just talking to someone, listening to videos, and other stuffs. It takes time. You will cry, feel like a failure sometimes, but that’s part of the journey on being confident. No need to rush yourself to earn confidence in such a short amount of time. You will just trick yourself. And nothing good happens when things are being rushed. Take your time, and just keep hoping. It gets better :3

confidence is quiet, egos are loud. i hate people with egos so much, its a pet peeve

In my opinion “fake it till you make it” refers not to physical appearance but to how you see yourself. It’s the foundation of manifesting

“Everyone on the internet is a piece of shit & im tired of it “ you ain’t lied. Felt that deeply.

the minute she started screaming I subscribed lmao

this is what the internet needs to hear. period.

We need more influencers like youuuu! SPITTING FACTS

psychologically speaking, you absolutely can trick your brain into believing that you're confident; however, if you have an underlying issue that is disrupting your ability to feel confident, ie: anxiety or trauma, then it will take a lot more work. thats why some people struggle more than others. being honest and open with yourself about what is causing your lack of confidence and speaking to someone about it can help a lot.

Confidence is like money. It's hard to keep and easy to lose.😂

I know it’s difficult to believe, but I genuinely kept telling myself that I was confident, loved, etc. and, with time, that became true in my head. You begin to realize that you have to have your own back, and you’re actually a really cool human being even though society or people in your life might have made you think otherwise. It’s often easier to say to fake it for others versus doing it for yourself in the beginning, but when you do find that ounce of love for yourself, you continue to fight for yourself to get better. But also, I definitely agree that people online have become egotistical and attempt to put others down to make themselves feel better and call it confidence. Confidence is about being content and at peace with yourself and the flaws u have and only competing with yourself.

I can feel the confidence coming inside me

I think you might have misinterpreted the statement on a bias viewpoint. Fake it till you make it is representative of one's self being viewed as confident from outside to within. When you act confident - have open body language, standing straight, shouldere back, and believe you have as much right to be where you are as others around you - you will internalise this and thus feel more confident. Biologically, this is how it has always worked. Our ancestors used this to feel less threatened by predators and boost their ability to fight. In modern day, we can translate this to feeling secure within yourself in any given circumstance. This doesn't mean you have a big ego, value yourself over others etc. It simply allows you to be less insecure and more trusting of yourself. Faking confidence can be subtle - not boastful, loud or obnoxious as you seem to be suggesting. Faking confidence can simply mean looking less scared, or nervous as you are. It's like smiling when you're sad - it signals to you brain to release happy chemicals. I do this when public speaking - Faking the confidence - and I believe it to be true. Another example - as soon as you tell yourself you can't, or you can, you're right. This suggesting that whatever you believe to be true becomes your reality.

When she said having confidence is building trust in yourself, I related to that because it is SO true. When you can't even keep your promises to yourself your mind starts to lose its faith in you, therefore you start losing faith in yourself. And this is the root of bigger issues. The importance of self-care, self-growth, and self-love is so crucial, it's crazy.

This’s aggressively sweet i needed that

Love this. I really needed to hear something real for once. I'm sick of these girls that look like models telling me how to be confident. This actually made a lot of sense and recently I've been wearing clothes that I like and posting on social media and I feel so much happier. Thank you for this

when you understand that you are just existing and are comfortable with your existence, you see how others around you exist too and how all space is divided between everyone and how beautiful different dynamics are. you are changing the dynamic already just by being there. when you know that, you stop seeing all those angry people who are all trying to get you. you start to see just people - calm, anxious, happy, in worse case deeply insecure ones who are trying to release the pain by taking it on you. you won't take it because you see it right through and even feel sorry for them

this needed to be said. fake it till you make it is basically telling people to act something your not and be miserable until your accepted. Even when you are accepted, still keep it going or you’re getting turned down, might as well be real and stop acting like it will fix all of your problems. One of my fav quotes is confidence is key but I’ve never lived up to it. I love this video so much you go girl 🩷