Boyfriend BREAKS HER DOWN, But She Won't Leave I Steve Harvey

"Kids would rather be from a broken home, rather than to live in a broken home" : Steve Harvey.

Staying teaches your children that it’s normal to be unhappy & to undervalue yourself. Having 2 happy homes is better than having 1 dysfunctional, unhappy home.

sometimes the BREAK-UP is the BLESSING!!!!!🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣💯

I was that kid as well. I even begged my mother to leave my dad, i was barely 10. The day she left was honestly was one of best days of my life! I was so sick of seing my mother sad and cry all the time. I learned a lot from observing my parents' relationship, especially what to NOT tolerate from a man. And one thing about me darling, I will leave!

I hope she finds the strength to leave this man.

Yes ladies. Don't lose yourself in a relationship. Because it takes awhile to find yourself again after it's over.

I knew my first marriage wasn't it at 3 years. At 8 years I knew I wanted out. Stayed 15 years for the sake of the kids. When I decided enough was enough, the kids said this...."Mama, being married is no different than being divorced". My kids saw no difference because he was never around any way. My resolve to make the best life for my children became stronger, made us stronger as we grew closer to God.

Those women were so supportive great advice I was that kid wished my mom left😢

The fact that she's allowing her boyfriend to verbally abuse her is showing her children that it's ok for people to treat you like dirt

Stormi talked about how her mom got into relationships to find love and she doesn’t want to follow those footsteps but yet she’s GETTING a divorce and already living with another man and is engaged . I think she’s following her mom’s footsteps 100% . Steve is correct “ take time to find love within yourself “

Cheating and bad relationships should always be dealbreakers. It’s refreshing to see people challenge the folks who make excuses to stay in horrible relationships and tolerate disrespect.

Took me almost 10 years to realize this myself, now being a single mom of 2 its hard but been the best thing for me tho. I was in a unhappy marriage and a abusive one at that. My kids have been alot better off also as well I can tell they feel relaxed

The worst thing you can do for your kids is stay in an unhappy and unhealthy relationship

Twelve years, years too long. You need to leave. Pack and wipe the dust from your feet. Kids are smart.

Steve gives the best advice. As a man who's been thru divorce, he's the first to admit he wasn't the husband he should have been. This is not just the man's fault in the relationship. We force ourselves to stay and struggle and be the martyr, when in truth we are showing our kids that we don't value ourselves by accepting being treated any kind of way. Trust me, I stayed. And it was a MISTAKE. And I threw away 37 years of my life. Men will always think of themselves, and women fault them for it, when WE should be doing that for ourselves.

That’s 50%. 50% is an F at all schools. Love all of the advice and the compassion and empathy.

Two happy homes are better than one unhappy home💚💛❤

My husband & i hv been married for 11 yrs been together for 18 yrs. We hv a 5 yr old & 6 month old. I am my biggest critic & i am constantly saying i feel like i dont do enough for the newest baby, i dont pump enough, i dont make enough milk & my husband is always encouraging me. You are enough, u do enough & u make enough babe. He is the best ❤

The HELL NO 😂 after Steve said “can you do 12 more years?” She’s such a strong lady.

Self Care And Self Love, I had to find to give that to myself.