are men too scared to date you?! - Doin' The Devil's Tango Ep. 13

Alex and Kelsey are too wholesome I came here to be miserable.

Its cute how Alex always asks Kelsey for her opinion and how he is including her in those asks

German homie was HEAVILY abused. You don't act like that and then say "It's all my fault I'm a terrible person," without having been abused by a lover in the past.

"We got August" No, Alex, it is December.

My advice to the strong woman looking for better men is to take a deep look at the kinds of men that you're going for and determine if there are overlapping traits/red flags you may have been previously overlooking. I can’t tell you how many times I or a friend of mine have dated people who anyone else could take one look at and tell were going to be garbage but dated anyways because it's harder to see when you're the one in the relationship

Is it just me or does Kelsey look more comfortable talking in each episode? Maybe it's just me but I can feel her getting more chirpy and assertive, idk I might be wrong

“Men like to feel needed.” - Ted Mosby in HIMYM

Regarding the whole "getting over anxiety and overthinking". I am 26, and I have had (and still at times) have problems with overthinking. I'm not gonna say that I have experience with anxiety in the clinical sense, but anxious feelings. What has helped me in the long run, is to be proven wrong when overthinking. Often, overthinking is simply expecting the worst case scenario and letting it scare you. (This, I think, is also the case for anxiety, but that seems to be on an uncontrollable, so I'm gonna stick to overthinking) But the thing is, you can't know whether your overthinking is valid before you are either proven right or wrong. Then, overthinking is very much a confirmation bias thing! Your overthinking is not your own fault! Overthinking showed up for a good reason! Pain! However, try and focus on the times, where you can see that your overthinking was proven wrong! I have multiple times been overthinking and therefore denied (to myself) that some of my best friends didn't like me or despised me. I can't say that I am completely out of the woods when making new friends, but I can no longer doubt my friends in that way. (I would like to stress: This is about OVERTHINKING, it is NOT about ANXIETY! I do not know enough about anxiety to give suggestions!)

STAN KELSIE🗣

The first one: it doesn't sound like guys are intimidated by her, it just sounds like she comes across as to arrogant or something. there's nothing intimidating about a girl that owns her own place, for example, I think that's cool... But the way this girl wrote her message, I don't know, I just kind of makes her sound... Like one of those "I'm not like other girls" girl? Controlling? I don't know, I can't quite put my finger on it, just off-putting.

As wonderful as self confidence is, that first girl sounds so full of herself.

Most guys in their early twenties are idiots if your more successful than them they feel intimidated. I’m 25 now all I date are men in there 30s guys tend to be more confident mostly know what they want and have a decent career. At least the ones I’ve met. Not saying all guys in their 20s and girls are idiots too but you can usually see who you need to stay away from pretty early I never have sex now until a month or two in.

There's two types of politically different friends. The ones who can't handle others views and you find what else you have in common and stick to it. But like she said: Massive danger from echo chamber which is what caused "nowadays" issues imo. So it's also good to have friends who you like to occasionally have these either polite discussions or debates if it doesn't become aggressive, spirited if that's both your thing, sure but personality ground rules are necessary (knowing how each of you can be honest but still respect the other. This prevents a lot of cruel behaviors via the increasing shock of differing views that comes from not hearing them from people you trust and care about. Dating? That's different. I look at it like the highschool relationship. It Can work but the most likely outcome is one of you is changed by the others views over time (could be very good, could be very bad and you definitely can't guarantee who) or you will eventually fight all the time. If you're cool with random outcomes like that, sure.

That relationship with the guy that agrees with everything, won't define the relationship, won't tell her about himself is one huge giant crimson red flag. That girl is going to end up heartbroken

For the first girl, we also need to take into account that a lot of people tell the version of their story that makes them look best. There's a decent chance that this girl could be going on dates and just bragging about her success and shoving it down guys throats. I've had that happen personally and it's incredibly uncomfortable and just kinda a shitty thing to do on a first date. this sounds incredibly similar. She started talking about failed dates and relationships which is fine, just small talk, but then went on to brag about her job, bachelor's degree, house she's paying the mortgage off for and I'm just over here thinking she's just self absorbed. She literally spent 15 minutes just talking about herself until I interrupted her.

My parents (who were in their mid 30s and 40s when I was born and are ten years apart) would say to me: Boys are walking hormones with car keys. They have two heads and only enough blood to think with one. Don't bother til they're at least 25. All accurate, and I would add for Autumn (I can relate and then some) if you are confident and the full package, then sometimes you have to wait for the catch that reflects that. Try where you can, if you want, but don't obsess. Be and become your best self. Even if that's a lot to handle haha ...someone is out there who appreciates it. The universe really does come full circle.

Geez, I love the content but that's an annoyingly high amount of adds..

Anything about differing opinions just makes me think of someone I dated and how set in their opinions they were/are. I don't believe in treating anyone poorly but when it came to talking about world issues such as what our country should focus on I feel like I'd be made out to be an awful person and I don't think it's always right to do that. Like, just because someone differs slightly from you doesn't always make them a bad person or someone to look negatively at. I think it can be good to see the other side sometimes, depending on what that side involves.

Can anyone tell me why he has so many adds? I mean I love the guy and will watch but man half of the vid length is adds.

Toot toot August 😂😂❤️❤️🔊📯📯