How To Keep Communication From Ruining Your Marriage

I’ve woken up to the terrible way I’ve been acting through my marriage. It’s almost identical to the way this man has explained he acted. I have been a verbal assassin and it’s taken me to long to figure this and I’m close to losing the love of my life. But I’m determined to get my stuff together.

Good gracious I am grateful for stumbling upon this. I saw myself immediately as a verbal assassin and I can not stand that horrible side of myself. I can do so much better than I do now, but lately I just seem to continue ending up in this same space. What's even more pathetic is that I really want to see my man face his challenges and overcome them, but I have watched myself wither into a person I also detest after the resentment kicked in. I need God.

It takes two willing participants to do this you can’t do this on your own

Bravo. This is brilliantly put together, very well articulated and 100% spot on. I say that as a marriage therapist with 16 years working with couples.

This message is so on point I watched it twice just now. I wish the text message at the end was still active… I need the 30 day communication challenge in my marriage.

I like the idea about studying your partner... What you suggested is not only genius, but romantic... The idea of my husband and I being so devoted to each other that we literally document every little thing about the person so that we can fully learn about our partner and understand them on a near scholarly level. Get a PHD in your partner

I think your right on. You always hear one of the most important things for successful marriage is communication . We can communicate all day. But it must be meaningful and effective. I've been married 30 years and still learning things too enhance my marriage.

Both people must want to deeply do this. I implement ways to work on us, I was rededicated to god and my husband wasn’t, I involve biblical principles in my marriage and then some. He isn’t taking the charge to change his side of communication and yet, I’m always self aware of how I come off, reacting, while ensuring him that I’m listening. What’s so crazy is that his effort is Zero. So that means he’s not willing to change and that means he’s not self aware and doesn’t see his lack of husband efforts. But that’s great you too got it right! I’m very happy for y’all. To God give the glory.

This video should be the most popular video ever! If every couple watched this, life would be so much easier and better!

Thanks brother, I'm horrible at this. Lord help me!!!

THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY A BLESSING…… Thank You ❤️

Beautiful message. Thank you

May God provide you with love, respect and understanding for all of those who go through troubles in your marriages and if you are separated from your spouses. Keep the faith. Jesus loves you!

Awesome video Hasani! I agree words can kill you!!

This both blessed me and cut me at the same time. So glad I came across this. Going to share with my Husband. Thank you❤

This is what you called learning from your mistakes and moving forward. 😊

This is so good, I can relate to everything that's been said

This was amazing 👏🏾 🙌🏾. I have learned a lot thru this vid

This is very insightful!!

This is amazing thank you so much !!