9 Signs You are Probably NOT Autistic...

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Published 2024-01-28
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00:00 You're just an introvert, tho??
01:50 Autistic people can't have friends?
05:52 Are you a robot?
08:19 This is not fun.
10:57 If people said this to you, you might be autistic
12:18 Autistic traits are just human traits.
16:30 Does this give you rage?
19:33 Neurotypical people are boring?
23:30 I don't want to admit this about myself...
26:30 Do you get stuck?
29:45 What if you're hiding autistic traits?

šŸ“’ Sources šŸ“’:

Autism & Genetics: www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/what-is-autiā€¦.

Neurotypical Peers are Less Willing to Interact with Those with Autism based on Thin Slice Judgments: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5286449/

Uncanny valley: www.simplypsychology.org/uncanny-valley.html

Robots clip: Ā Ā Ā ā€¢Ā UncannyĀ ValleyĀ RobotsĀ TalkingĀ Ā 

Britons show huge lack of knowledge on Autism: www.carehome.co.uk/news/article.cfm/id/1667907/lacā€¦

Dr Hannah Belcher Blog: hannahbelcher.com/blog/

Dr Hannah Belcher Autistic People & Masking: www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/professionalā€¦

DSM-5: www.tricare-west.com/content/dam/hnfs/tw/prov/resoā€¦

It feels like holding back: www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1750946ā€¦

Potato: www.amazon.co.uk/Untold-History-Potato-John-Readerā€¦

Inside our autistic minds: www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bbc.ā€¦

Shy, withdrawn, or autistic BMJ: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1995127/

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Aspergirls by Rudy Simone:
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Unmasking Autism by Devon Price:
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  • To find a sense of peace and improve your sleep, get started with Aura today for free. The first 500 people to use my link will also get 25% off + FREE trial to the Aura membership: www.aurahealth.io/imautisticnowwhat02 Hope youā€™ve all had a lovely week! Since filming this, Iā€™ve lost my voice, which is sooo annoying ā€“ I have so many scripts and ideas Iā€™m excited about that are almost ready to go!!! I need someone to make an AI voice for me šŸ˜‚ Not really, because thatā€™s scary! If you think you're autistic and don't know what to do next, this might help!: https://youtu.be/sQ102wzqaXY If you think you might be masking the fact that you're autistic, you might find this video helpful: https://youtu.be/36-K-HW3syc Thank you so much ā€“ I never imagined having such a warm, caring community behind me. The reaction to my little stimming clips in the last video was so kind. I didnā€™t even stress about posting it that much in the end šŸ˜‚šŸ’›šŸ’›šŸ’› And apologies that some of the DSM-5 diagnostic criteria language is not always the most flattering. ā€˜Restricted and repetitive behavioursā€™ always makes me cringe a bit. But thatā€™s just what it is right now. I wonder how it will continue to evolve? Also, I say 'autism is genetic' at the start of the video. What I meant by this is 'being autistic does run in my family'. There's a lot we don't know about why people are autistic, but we definitely know there are genetic fac
  • @AnnabethsEdits
    Claim your "imposter syndrome made me watch this" ticket here šŸ˜‚
  • @sophiethee
    I'm so autistic I didn't realize I was bullied in high school until years later
  • I have been depressed for a long time, but after taking shrooms few months ago, l feel much happier and highly motivated and my ADHD gone , lost a ton of anxiousness and had a few epiphanies about how I should live my life. I decided to buy an ounce for backup, but havenā€™t yet felt the need to take any more since then.
  • @abecline
    I watched this video two weeks ago expecting to learn something about autistic people, but instead I got 9 punches to the gut that made me realize I am obviously autistic. I'm 40 years old and never even considered I might be neurodivergent. It's incredibly validating to suddenly have moments from my life and all my "awkward" behavior make sense, but also kind of a mindf*** to have everything about my self make sense. I find myself having childhood flashbacks at least once a day (plus some oof cringe memories as an adult). I struggled with posting a comment, but I wanted to say thank you for making content that communicates so clearly. I can't speak for anyone else, but you have changed my life.
  • "Oh you crochet?" Yeah, I just really love repeating the same movement 40,000 times. It's very soothing...
  • @UmbralForest
    Its absurd to me that people think autistics can't have ANY friends, like other neurodivergent people don't exist at moderate saturation. I just look for people who share my weird little vibe and i always consistently had 1 friend at any one time growing up, the OTHER weird kid in the room. I've tried and failed to have neurotypical friends so many times but it usually ends with my bluntness or black-sheepness making them upset with me. I'd rather just stick to my fellow weirdos.
  • I found someone talking about their autism in 2020 which made me think that I was as well. I relate to this video so deeply. Since I am undiagnosed, I often find that I gaslight myself into thinking that I am making it up. But the more I come across other Autistic peoples experiences I realize that I am more than likely Autistic too. My childhood makes so much sense to me now. The little things that annoyed my mom so much were autistic traits I was showing. I have been masking around people for so long since then. Thank you so much for this.
  • @Lupa_Lycan143
    I've always been told I was autistic, I never believed it even when I got diagnosed, I guess I was in denial about it because I knew people with autism are bullied and I didn't want to be bullied more then I already was, but now that I'm learning and understanding it more, it's so refreshing to know that I'm not just some weird, fucked-up-in-the-head kid, I'm just a bit neuro-spicy āœØ
  • @chrisbarber2436
    I was recently finally able to get an autism assessment and the doctor said something along the lines of "you're autistic but you cope too well to be diagnosed with a 'real disorder'" which was... weird. I'm still trying to figure out if that was validating or invalidating, but it definitely feels like being trapped in a no-man's land where I just don't get to belong anywhere.
  • @katcalico9142
    ā€œBeing bullied is not a trait.ā€ When I was young it certainly felt like one. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚
  • @samiidumdum
    I came to realise that my stims are more on the hearing side in the sense that if i do an action and like how it sounds i do it over and over to replicate that sound so my actions are done according to that sound and my stims are also unnoticeable. I sometimes catch myself stimming and didnt even know about it. For the repeating of words I dont sayvit out loud.....i write it. I was doing a project for school and the phrase "good morning" was stuck in my head so i wrote nearly half the page with good mornings and when my friend saw it she said "what the hell is going on here" šŸ˜‚
  • When I told one of my French teachers that I was autistic, she said ā€œ Oh, you donā€™t look autistic, I didnā€™t know.ā€ I was confused, how was I meant to look šŸ˜‚She also stated that I didnā€™t ā€œactā€ like other autistic people she knew, she said that they acted ā€œstrangeā€ or ā€œdifferentlyā€, which I did, but I was good at masking my autism. Great channel, you have really helped me to understand myself more as a person. Thank you!
  • @Hawthorn6852
    I used to consider myself a chill and easy-going person because I thought those things meant you were accepting, non-judgemental, not easily annoyed or angered, or easy to get along with and I was like "yeah I relate to that" until I found out that being "chill" means you're all those things on the inside as well šŸ˜…
  • @kated3165
    Pretty sure I had an autistic rat once. Poor fellow had no idea how to behave with others, and had many quirks that were very different from any other rat I've ever seen. One minute he would be snuggly sleeping with the others... and the next he would be biting them out of nowhere, probably because he suddenly wanted to be alone. He didn't understand that biting was a HUGE no-no in rat society, and after a while the other rats would just avoid the poor bugger entirely. He did not socialize with me the way pet rats typically do with their owner either, and was very peculiar about certain things in his environment that other rats don't typically have issues with.
  • @Kloxbyn
    1. Introverted (textbook). āœ” 2. Very few friends. āœ” 3. Somewhat monotone, not very expressive. āœ” 4. Most of the time, I enjoy being alone and I do not enjoy socializing. āœ” 5. Speak oddly. āœ” 6. I stim a lot, in several ways (especially in social situations). āœ” 7. Yes, noises (even subtle ones), can really throw me off (sometimes to the point of rage). āœ” 8. I'm an artist and when I create art, I absolutely need to be alone and focus. And when people interrupt that, it tends to ruin my whole day. āœ” 9. I'm somewhat laid back but only in certain situations. However, I doubt this one is true of me. āŒ This seriously makes me wonder (now) if I'm on the spectrum.
  • @hericide
    this video blew my mind - i have been suspecting i am autistic for several years now, but i had never heard of autistic inertia before. i relate so much to what you described here, but i always thought i was just "lazy" or not functioning like a proper adult for some reason. hearing that this is apparently a symptom of autism is somehow incredibly relieving to me, like its not a personal flaw of mine that i have somehow failed to overcome. thank you so much for this video!
  • @meganmeunier8698
    On the manual thing... As a kid I did well academically but struggled socially and also with physical coordination. I remember, clear as day, standing in the school playground and watching children chat with each other effortlessly and thinking "it's okay, I'm ahead in maths, so I suppose I'm just behind here. Someone will teach me this one day too." When I got diagnosed at 23 all I could think about was tiny me, not sad, not angry, not feeling confused, absolutely certain that someone would soon notice that they had forgotten to teach me the manual and the fact that no one did.
  • I saw the timestamps and I genuinely thought that someone's "aura" could mean they're not autistic like "yeah no you don't have the autism ghost aura following you, I don't think you're autistic"
  • @EVLanche
    That video ironically taught and explained more about me than I expected. Thanks for making me feel less isolated!