When He's TRULY SERIOUS About You, He'll Ask You These Questions... (Dating Advice)

A man can ask you all these questions and still play you. Pay attention to his actions and trust your instincts.

Never answer a guy when he asks what are you looking for in a guy... because you’ll start naming off everything he can start pretending to be.

To be honest, most men don’t ask questions at all. If a man is serious about you, his actions will tell you/ show you everything you need to know. You won’t be confused, you won’t need to question anything. Trust and believe that.

There was a man who asked me those questions but he was someone else's husband...well I took the help but I had to let him know that I wasnt created to be a mans mistress. He was disappointed but I do fear the Lord ...Im not the type to try to build my happiness on another womans tears...besides, I would be making myself unavailable for the right one.

Observe and trust your instinct, some men are very tricky and manipulative

Sealz, I loved this! I'm 73 and getting married for the first time to someone 70. He leaves NO DOUBT in my mind how he feels about me. I love him dearly. When he asked me to marry him [he's a widower who deeply loved his wife]. I knew what the word "wife" meant to him. I cried and answered: "YES, DEAR! "I DO!". You are a VERY wise young man. Blessings to you! 🙏🏾👊🏾

Actions speaks louder than words. I pay most attention to his actions when he's upset. It tells me a lot. IJS

His actions are the best answers 🙌🏼

Some times men put up front like they are into you to get you then ghost you

Don't believe a man's WORDS NOR ACTIONS.....BELIEVE HIS ENERGY🙂 Appreciate your singlehood it's peace of mind and serious age reversal💋......a man that has spent time with you with out trying to rush you to the bed is the one. He's studying you and taking his time. THAT'S RESPECT

These questions reminded me of my love Leroy 💔 may his soul continue to Rest in Peace 😢

I can tell you this, I reconnected with my high school sweetheart, we knew each other from Jr.High.. It's been 35 years and it's like we never lost touch...all.these.things have just naturally fell into place.. I was married to a abusive ex husband for 16years..I took the past 12 years to focus on me and getting my degrees and myself back.. Being patient and loving me again brought me my true love back into my life...

Shocked. A man I was dating took me house shopping with him. I was just excited for him getting his house. He was including me in the decision process fully. I said I’d always visit. He said you’ll live here. Lol

The only thing that matter is a mans actions .. words are easy .. when a mans actions match his words that’s what tells you a man is serious about you !

1 What are your future goals 2. Is there any way I can help? 3. Ask about someone who is important to you 4. Ask you questions that involves his future 5. Effortless conversation and interaction

A man who is genuinely in love with you will act not just asking you questions. Believe in actions because any idiot can ask you questions to make you think they are genuinely interested in you. Be wise, ladies 🌹🌹🌹

Or he’s a narcissist trying to manipulate you.

1. What's your goals? 2. Is there any way I can help? 3. How's "so-and-so" doing? (He asks about someone who's important to you) 4. He asks questions about the/your future and makes certain comments about yalls future together. 5. You sure I'm not messing up your bed time? His actions are the best answers

Love to see intelligent, positive, black men. 👏

This hit the nail on the head. Coming from separation agreement to divorce world. My BF now (friend then) stuck with me all through that without hinting sex from me. I was so afraid of getting into another realtionship (bcus of my own trust issues) after 6 months of no commitment from me he broke up with me very nicely. I did not realize when he asked these questions he was really into me and wanted a future with me. So FFwrd I waited a day or 2 and hit him up and we heard each other out. Now we are in a committed relationship and I don't regret how slow I took it. I'm just happy I went after what I believe what was right for me. Blessings and abundance to all ♥️🙌🏽💜. Thanks for sharing.