If A Man Is TRULY SERIOUS About You, He Will DO THIS! | Matthew Hussey
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Published 2020-10-28
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On this episode of Women of Impact, motivational speaker and dating advice expert Matthew Hussey joins Lisa Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they break down the complicated parts of finding love and reveal how dating and relationships can be much simpler than you might think. They discuss the importance of feeling someone just try in a relationship, how to identify good intentions, why you have to invest in someone, the pitfalls of building up a story in our heads even before the first date, and why you should be willing to ask the difficult questions necessary in developing a strong relationship long-term.
SHOW NOTES:
It’s Not That Complicated | Matthew shares the importance of feeling someone just try. [1:53]
Intentions | Matthew discusses the difference between attention and intention. [5:46]
Invest, Then Test | Matthew shares why trying and staying confident is key to finding love. [7:20]
Complicated | Matthew shares why we try to force a fix when it gets complicated. [12:45]
Fantasy | Matthew reveals the pitfalls of writing a story in your head before it’s unfolded. [15:15]
Process | Matthew shares the four stages of importance in developing any relationship. [18:13]
Maintenance | Matthew discusses why the work in a relationship never ends. [23:52]
What They Actually Mean | Matthew reveals the true meaning behind what he says. [27:09]
What You Can Trust | Matthew reveals what you can trust that signals he likes you. [31:45]
Ask | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t shy away from asking the tough questions. [33:56]
Be Ruthless | Matthew reveals why you have to stand firm in your conviction. [39:21]
Love Switches | Matthew discusses the importance of knowing what your partner needs. [40:05]
Difficult Talks | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t steer clear of difficult conversations. [43:12]
Connect | Matthew shares how you can get his free guide and follow him for more. [47:05]
QUOTES:
“Attention does not mean intention. We can get lots of attention from someone who has no intention of taking it anywhere further…” [5:46]
“Don’t invest in someone based on how much you like them, invest in them based on how much they invest in you.” [7:13]
“Instead of watching a story unfold, we’ve created the story before it’s happened.” [15:15]
“Women have to be brave enough to ask questions that they’re afraid of the answers to.” [35:35]
“Be kind in your tone, but ruthless in your actions.” [39:21]
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All Comments (21)
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“If he’s interested, you’ll know If he’s not interested, you’ll be confused.”
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I feel like every woman needs to have an experience of when the guy likes you more than you like him, so that she can see what a man who is interested and pursues looks and acts like.
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"Don't invest in someone based on how much you like them. Invest in someone based on how much they invest in you" Matthew Hussey. 🎯🎯🎯
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"Be kind in your tone but ruthless in your actions"
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"I'm not looking for anything serious" means "with you".
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Do not enter the world of doubt. When people aren't sure of their emotions, commitment or desire toward you. Stay clear of them. It can be the ultimate clash and/or crash of your life. Choose self love 1st.
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Women need to be brave and ask the hard questions, without being attached to the outcome
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I’ve spent three and a half years around a man who just didn’t know what he wanted. I, on the other hand, wanted him 1000%, all of the time. Well, finally, I had to accept that no matter what, this man simply didn’t want me enough. I couldn’t hang around anymore so I left with all the grace i could master. Heartbreaking, but I didn’t think it was right to keep company with someone who simply didn’t want me.
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YOU GOTTA BE CAREFUL OF THE GUYS WHO ASK A TON OF QUESITONS ABOUT YOU TOO!!! trust me on this. that dosnt garantee they are genuinely into you. It means they know it makes you feel seen and you are going to feel flattered and charmed by them! Also, they know if they keep the attention on you they don't have to reveal as much about themselves!
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If someone is mistreating you and tells you they haven’t done anything “wrong”, listen to them. They are telling you they are going to continue😔✨☘️🙏
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I started to see someone and noticed negative behaviors. Emotionally, I didn’t want to end it because it felt good when we were together. But when I asked myself “does this bring peace or take away my peace?” I knew exactly what I needed to do. Trying to date for two years post divorce I have yet to meet a man who doesn’t expect me to fill a void or in a round about way ask “what can you do for me.” It’s exhausting so I’ve stopped looking. When I got to bed at night and snuggle my pup and my little girl, that’s all the love and abundance I need. Would it be nice to have someone to share that with? Of course, but unfortunately quality is hard to find and I need to protect what I do have. I would rather be alone than compromise my boundaries or expectations. Welcome to 2022.
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Also, Maya Angelou & Oprah said it first - when someone tells you who they are, believe them.
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“Invest in those who invest in you” I like how she asked “where do you start then”
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Starting a situationship without wanting a relationship is a symptom of manipulation.
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"If it doesn't work out I'll still be okay." Love that!
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For me its impossible to have a connection with someone who has disrespected me in any way at that point I'm completely turned off 👎👎
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6:13 “attention doesn’t mean intention” 😮💨🙌🏻 that hi
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I’ll just say this: if a guy really wants you, you know. You just know.
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“ their intentions aren’t bad, their just different from yours “
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I’m never afraid to ask the hard questions, because I value my time. The answer I receive is usually angry, as they don’t want to be asked hard questions lol. So basically, their anger is my answer. 🙃
