Life Update: I'm Overwhelmed.

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Published 2023-08-01

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  • @tanialuv4920
    I hope you’re okay ♥️ You crossed my mind today. Haven’t seen you active for a long while now.
  • @NwaLioness
    Deleted my social media for like a couple of months, because I felt overwhelmed and I started to compare myself to others. Waking up in the morning the first thing I would do is pick up my phone instead of praying….. I was losing myself because I was focused on others and not myself. Social media can be entertaining but draining at the same time.
  • Be with people who always show you your strength and hopes and not waste time with people who constantly remind you of your failures and mistakes.
  • @jobjemima9736
    I miss you mama,can’t wait to have you back,I pray God guides you in every area of your life,I’m praying for you.
  • @prettybrown6247
    Social media has ruined our generation and I’m so proud of you for going on a break. I stayed comparing myself to girls in relationships because I’ve never had one and I hated my life literally. If we didnt have social media life would be so much more peaceful and we wouldnt have to add pressure to ourselves or rush into things we’re not ready for
  • @MsEgomaniaac
    This is exactly why I came off social media 2 years ago and haven’t looked back. And I don’t feel like I’m missing out on anything either. My life is very normal & realistic right now. I go to restaurants where I enjoy the food & not because of how aesthetically appealing the environment & food looks. I don’t feel pressured to dress up 24/7 & I don’t fear being caught off guard outside looking normal. I enjoy the little & meaningful things in life without feeling like this is nothing compared to what others are doing on social media. I’m able to save money on investments & goals because I don’t need monthly big shopping hauls. Social media is draining because the momentum does not last. No matter how satisfying your life appears to others, you constantly feel you’re not doing enough. There’s a constant need to outdo what you did just 5 mins ago and that is a big problem. Once I realised this I had zero reason to envy someone from social media because 90% of flex culture is all fake
  • @Iamrosyd
    I feel like social media is too much. It messes with my mind when I post. I have more peace when I don’t post
  • @latoyaforever
    Social Media is a gift and a curse, so I feel you. God Bless! Stay Well.
  • @msasouthall
    I got off in 2021 from FB and Instagram. I deleted Tik Tok about 2 weeks ago. For me is I realized that the opinions of others, specificity these panels and podcasts, became too much. It has altered our judgement and caused us to become robotic. Tik Tok was loaded with information but it was too much. Embracing every aspect of life has been a new journey. Good for you! Good for us all to just step back! ❤️
  • @TheDydy26
    Social media fatigue is very real. The brain fog I have been feeling lately?? I think this is my final sign to stop wasting so much time on it and just break that bad habit for a good while.
  • @cassandraxpaz
    Social media ironically makes us antisocial and furthers us from ourselves. I am so happy to know you took a social media break 💓 wishing you all the best
  • @wallflower777
    being a consumer of social media has def affected my mental health. i found myself comparing to woman who appear to have it all together then i do and just wishing i was some of the people i see online. being a creative person means you have to step back, cocoon and recharge. not everything you create needs to be shared. what i am recognizing is that i don't have to feed the algorithm i can just feed my own needs and that it is plenty for me. love your videos
  • Deleted my Twitter & Facebook account last week. I’ve been 1 week free. Just deleted TikTok yesterday. I’m doing all the apps just week by week. Every time I wanna scroll I just start reading the Bible. I’m so drained from social media. I consume too much of my time on here. It wasn’t making my anxiety any better just having me feel more burned out and in major depression. Sometimes it’s okay to abstain from things once in a while. My focus is to get myself better,walk with Jesus Christ here on earth, pour into my child, home, family & friends.
  • @OnazjiBorscha
    I truly feel like it’s a collective movement for some of us that are children of god, to… slowly remove ourselves from Social Media. I’ve been feeling this… yearning, to separate myself from social media and be much more present in this year. There’s been so much growth and I just want to genuinely enjoy it and be in the moment. And I’ve come to realize how much social media steals that from us. How we do so much for “the gram” but nothing truly for ourselves or even others. I want to stay in touch with my humanity, thank your for being the confirmation from God Brenny that my feelings are not wrong or invalid.. ❤️
  • @Chasing_flow
    It’s so refreshing to understand that you are clearly not enjoying being a content creator as much as you used to and actually SHARING and BEING HONEST with us about it! I feel like not many people actually share the down sides and perhaps negative effects of it which makes it all just seem too good to be true and fake most of the time. So, thank you Breeny. Your amazing ♥️ May God continue to guide you through life and help you be wise with your future decisions xx
  • @ruesvenus
    I'm seeing a lot of people admit to feeling like this about social media and I am too. It is so draining, and I'm not even a consistent content creator. I am realizing that I do not wish to spend much time on it at all anymore. What concerns me about that is the fact that I am an artist (paintings, digital work, etc) and I feel as though the only way to get my work seen by many people, is to post a lot. I just want freedom.... I'm so tired of working jobs that do not fulfill me, I am a server at a lounge right now. I can feel myself starting to lose it a little bit. But social media drains me too. Not sure how to find a balance.
  • I’m so glad I don’t use social media apart from watching YouTube; it’s so refreshing to just live life and enjoy my relationship without looking at all the unrealistic goals and expectations. Social media will rob you of your joy and peace, people are robots and cookie cut outs on there just followers of everything and leaders of nothing.
  • @inala_hlatywayo
    I miss you so much doll 😢 but thanks for the timeless content!❤
  • @rachelr1132
    Felt also overwhelmed with anything audio/visual content. I did a TV fast (including YT/Netflix/ etc..) Instead now starting my day with Christian affirmations podcast, then go for a walk with spa music and stop at the beach with a good book. I did that daily for a week and boy It fixed my white noise in my brain. i'm more focus, more present, more confident ✌️🫶 Now I intentionally leave my phone in my car if I go somewhere or meet people to make sure I grasb every moment 💚
  • @mameafrane1725
    You look beautiful as always. There is a season to everything under the sun. Years ago, I got off social media like for 12 years. Because I was building myself and my career as a clinician and I just wanted to focus on that. It helped me to grow normally without having unhealthy competition lurking in my mind. I just got back on Social media. I’m much matured, and I’m not easily swayed as I would have been in my teens. You have the keys to your destiny. It can be overwhelming inviting all eyes into your life . However don’t loose heart. God doesn’t give us nothing we can’t handle. Appreciate yourself more and don’t stress. Just take extra time off if you need to. Spend deep moments in the word of God it’s always comforting.