reacting to Erica Mena and Safaree's extremely toxic marriage (deep dive)

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The biggest red flag in a man is if he cannot empathise with you on the simplest valid points. Run sis.

He doesn’t like confrontation, doesn’t know How to have a genuine conversation, and very dismissive. I feel sad for Erica, he literally lured her like a predator, swept her off her feet, made a song about her and once he had her locked in with marriage and a kid, his skin started to shed.

Healthy relationships are not overly emotional or dramatic, real love feels like peace and comfort it feels familiar it’s not supposed to give you “butterflies”

“They don’t deserve you, but they’ll act like you don’t deserve them.”

The timeline is so comical! Narcissists are SO predictable. HE lovebombed her and locked her down with a baby/marriage, the only time he showed “emotion” (the theatrical crying) was when he was trying to look good in front of a crowd at his marriage, and the minute he knew he had her, he starts neglecting/gaslighting her and deflecting all his negativity.

My heart breaks every time we women go through this foolishness with narcissists. Like dang can y’all demons leave ppl alone.

Narcissist only start pretending to care when they start losing you

"Y'all know how much I love myself, so how can I not want to be with me, in a female version" ..... #1 RED FLAG🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Breeny, just as there are text books in Universary that are mandatory reading, THIS VIDEO should be mandatory viewing for every straight woman in the world! You nailed it.

I now realize that it is very important not to be chosen but to choose your partner and your worth as a woman is not intertwined with being a wife. Ladies donot let age and loneliness let you give a narcissist and manipulator a place in your life. You are dropping gems Bree. 💯

First off, your face card never declines. I believe Safaree intentionally sabotage his own marriage. He really believe life is like a music video.

His reaction to Erica being pregnant made me feel sooo bad for her. Wouldn’t wish that on nobody, it’s so peak

The level of toxicity is sickening. For a man to sit in the presence of a breaking woman and feel nothing is the saddest thing ever. Especially when he is the root cause of her pain. Yet, I bet he would empathise with a man or woman with missing limbs begging for food. That woman went through so much especially with the son. I understand falling out of love, but I refuse to understand a man despicable behaviour towards a woman who bore his children. I guess they both are in a broken state. We need to normalise therapy and healing. Too many broken people, breaking people.

The idealization is real. It’s like a kid who gets his dream toy and it breaks in 3 days. When they see you have a weakness, or mistreat you and one day you finally have had enough, it’s like “why is it doing this??? I want my money back” This happened to me and it was bizarre how after I started standing up for myself, the person treated me like there was something wrong with me. Like I was malfunctioning and needed to be fixed.

He was so blatantly disrespectful and nasty to her, I’m shocked she stayed as long as she did. I can’t believe he laughed at his baby girl on the floor crying, didn’t even pick her up and Erica is sitting there big & pregnant. He definitely won’t be seeing the gates of heaven

I got out of a relationship with a guy like this a year and a half ago. This guy was my first real boyfriend, so I felt like I was on cloud 9 during the early stages of the relationship. Once my defenses came down, he switched like a light! The resemblance of Safaree’s narcissism and emotionally abusive behavior is so uncanny 😖 even the red flags such as the self-centered compliments, lack of empathy, and the idolization. Even with the red flags, I felt like he would be my one and only and it took me a while to leave him 😢 I have come to terms with the fact that none of it was my fault and have worked hard to unlearn codependency. I’m in a much better place than I was, but your video can help so many people 🙏🏾🤎

First of all, Can we just take a second to appreciate how stunning breeny looks in this video my God you're so beautiful! Secondly I hope every woman in the world gets to see this video and when you're done come back and watch it again and again it'll save you from alot. I've personally have learnt alot from it. Thank you breeny you're like a big sister to so many of us❤️

This video was on point !! I’ve been narc free for two years now and boy what a crazy ride that was…Narcissistic men are the worst, ladies protect yourselves no man is worth losing yourself for. Once I realized he was a narcissist I ghosted my ex, stopped responding to his texts, sent his stuff through the mail and never looked back😅 best decision of my life!!

Also. Can I just say. That I LOVE this play-by-play format?! So many people try to explain and use examples of this kind of thing. But actually watching it unfold and having you call it out for what it is is so fricken powerful. I wish more people explained toxic relationships this way. The tone of voice, micro expressions etc etc makes what you say make sense!