How To Tell If Someone Truly Loves You | Femi Ogunjinmi | TEDxXavierUniversity

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Published 2018-11-29

Is proclaiming your love for someone truly enough? Femi Ogunjinmi brings to light what fully constitutes an enduring, fulfilling relationship through his engaging experiences. Femi Ogunjinmi, mostly known as Gfem is a certified life coach, international relationship coach, award winning motivational speaker, and a radio talk show host who has been improving the lives of singles and couples for over ten years. He has authored two edition books titled, "Revelations of Relationship: What you don't know about finding true love and sustaining relationship." Femi earned his Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from Morgan State University and a Master’s Degree in Business Administration from Benedictine University with a Certificate in Financial Management. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

All Comments (21)

@natalie8711 4 years ago

If they love you, you’ll know. If they don’t, you’ll be confused
@amberselledge1345 3 years ago

Actually watching this to see if I'm properly loving others.
@LateshaRenee 3 years ago

I don't want to date a guy who feels like being faithful is a "sacrifice"
@joslynle6033 3 years ago

When you truly love someone, the idea of cheating already made you feel disgusted.
@kozmnavt5158 4 years ago

“If you loved someone would you cheat on them?” Audience...........cough
@Kiritazu8 4 years ago

This audience was so dry. They just don’t like to hear the truth. Bet all the cheaters in the room were really uncomfortable.
@zachattack12325 2 years ago

"I now see that goodbyes are for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with their heart and soul there is no such thing as separation" - Rumi
@KrystleLaughter 3 years ago

To all the hopeless romantics: You will have true love one day! Know your worth & refuse to settle for less. You are worthy!💕
@davisdavis1347 4 years ago

When I'm in love with someone I simply can't cheat. My whole being wont even allow it. The thought of it litterally makes me ill.
@THANEXTSUPREME 4 years ago

Cheating is being normalized. I don’t like it.
@LeeNacola 3 years ago

He's literally so intelligent and unbothered that it doesn't even even matter if they cheer him on. The man knows himself. I'm a cheer leader!
@jcw034 2 years ago

Love is not something you find. It's something you grow.
@arkansas99 4 years ago

Legend has it, there was no audience.
@softest_eevee 4 years ago

"He says he loves me but his actions don't show it." That speaks volumes.
@kumral76 3 years ago

The worst is when ur the one who is passionate and sacrificial, they take you for granted and use you...😔😔
@kikoarmani 3 years ago

This man's skin is absolutely stunning!
@imsuperioroso 5 years ago

this crowd is the opposite of his perfect skin... hella dry
@thatboikb9466 4 years ago

I’m 25 and convinced I’ll never find love...I hate my generation. The normalization of cheating and having multiple partners ruined the idea of love. UPDATE: I’m now 28 and in a happy & committed relationship ❤️ crazy how life works 🙏🏾
@KoganeKeith 3 years ago

if you truly love someone, you would never even fathom doing something that would hurt them in any way possible.
@a.k.walker7429 3 years ago

Real love starts after the honeymoon phase is over. I've found that real love can be seen after both of you break each other's heart. If both of you come back after your heart was broken, then you'll know it is meant to be. Everyone always thinks they'll never make mistakes, until the day they do. No one is perfect.