The best relationship advice no one ever told you

You loved some of our other videos on this topic... so thought I'd share the 3 BEST pieces of advice I've heard on relationships. Remember, all there's ONE common denominator to EVERY relationship you've had in the past, are in currently, or might have in the future.... YOU! That's why when you shift into the highest version of yourself, ALL your relationships improve. We've helped hundreds of people this year alone just like you create and shift into that 2.0 version of themselves using Identity Shifting. Want some more info? Wondering if it's for you? Check out this free vid that'll fill ya in a bit more ➡ www.clarkkegley.com/free-case-study?sl=yt-relation…

I loved this. "Instead of trying to find the right person , become the right person"

“Stop trying to LOOK like the 10, and focus on BECOMING the 10.” THAT. IS. SO. GOOD. THANK YOU.

As my father in law once said, "Live your own life, and look next to you, and you might just find someone going the same path as you, and that's a good start." I think this is the best way to find a "compatible" mate. Honestly you don't have to be compatible, to love, because you can love anyone, but it may be work. So to find someone along the same path, makes it much easier.

Been married 35 years now and the number one thing that ALL relationships MUST have before love and friendship, for a lasting relationship is "RESPECT". If you do not have respect for each other then love and friendship will not carry you.

"You don't attract what you want, you attract what you are". Amazing quote.

Attraction alone is not enough. Just because you feel good with someone, doesn't mean you can build a healthy long-term relationship. You need to align on values, respect one another, and have good communication. Well said Clark.

“Stop looking for the right person and become the right person” Love this 💪🏿

Most people looking for “the right person” forgets to think that the other person has needs and dreams of their own.

The most important thing in any relationship is good communication.

"you don't manifest what you want you manifest who you are" YES.

When issues develop in a relationship, many people consider leaving. But I've learned that it's critical to talk about and work on relationships on a daily basis. Especially if you really love the person, but I get it sometimes it’s hard. So, for those times we use lovify’s couple games, to share our expectations. We are now trying to open up about topics we previously avoided ❤

compatibility isn’t a prerequisite for love, it’s the achievement of love.

"If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can't hear them..." If you are reading this, I hope you have an amazing day!

“10’s attract 10’s - Not just looks wise but energetically, lifestyle wise, communication wise, value wise, job wise, social circle wise - you don’t attract who you want you attract who you are”

Thankyou for saying "you dont attract things you want, you attract things you are" cause that taught me alot. I understood more. Thankyou! And also "stop looking for the right person, start becoming thr right person" have a good day yall!:)

Romantic love may not be “the most important thing,” but even after watching this video I still truly believe love is the most important thing. Love keeps us going. Love is helping others. Love is doing things that fully benefit someone who isn’t yourself. Believing in love is believing in God without knowing it.

I never played any relationship games. I was my authentic self from day one, and I share everything. I knew I was going to marry my wife after our first date, and I told her on our second date. She thought I was nuts, but we've been married for 17 years.

One of the most TOXIC beliefs around relationships is that there is one right person for everyone. I've been married for 21 years (8/19). Love is WORK. It might be rainbows and unicorns for the first 6 months, but eventually, as you mentioned, those immediate feelings fade. My husband and I married when I was 19 and he was 18. When people are in a marriage, they can grow together or they can grow apart. Either way they are growing. Love is definitely a choice in a lot of ways. Now, of course if your spouse is abusive or dismissive, then working on the relationship may not be worth it and might be futile. However, if we aren't working on our relationship by loving each other every day and making that person feel loved, what are we doing? It's definitely a two-way-street, but over the years, one of us definitely has more energy to give at times than the other. We hold each other up and help each other be our best selves. We've been through a lot and there's no one I'd rather spend my life with than my husband.

"Being in love is kinda easy." It always has been for me! I love so many people passionately. It doesn't mean I see a viable relationship with them. I would only pursue romance if I could have meaningful conversations with them, want to experience life with them, and work well together. Looks are at the bottom of what I value in relationships.