Relationship Breakdowns And Narcissists - with Elizabeth Goddard

Published 2024-07-12
In this episode, John is joined by emotional abuse therapist and author Elizabeth Goddard, the founder of The Divorce Sanctuary.

Elizabeth joins John to talk about the effects of relationship deterioration, including the sometimes unexpected loneliness that occurs in its aftermath. Elizabeth also discusses where abuse can begin, how we can identify the red flag traits in a partner, and how we can learn to move past the effects of a relationship breakdown.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Often, the person presented at the beginning of a relationship can be very different to the reality of a person. It's a painful and conflicting revelation to come to terms with.

Abusive behaviour in relationships can imprint upon impressionable minds. If children are taught that abuse is normal, then there is good chance that this will be carried on in their own lives.

Narcissists feed upon their partners both emotionally and financially. They suck their partner dry, and when there is nothing left to give, they move on.
Narcissists and sociopaths are by their nature, not good at taking responsibility for their behaviours, and so do not feel the innate desire to seek help to overcome their condition. This can make therapy and treatment almost impossible.

All Comments (3)
  • @tmking7483
    I went conscious earlier than 7 I had to make decisions at 4 for my safety _ remember hiding from caregivers and how unfair they were.
  • @tmking7483
    They abuse u if u don't do what they want_ whatever that is_ power and control of u is what they need to survive_ when your empty _ they leave u alone for a while _ then strike again.