My Biggest Enemy Is A Woman

When you are ur authentic self, they still attack ur authenticity. U fear what you are

I'm 32 years and do not have any children. I can't tell you how many times I've been told I'm wasting my time if I think I'll wait for marriage to have kids, how I'm getting old and how because I choose to be single until I meet a man who deserves me I'm too picky . When in actual fact I've allowed too many people who didn't meet my standards in to my life and that's how I've got so many bad experiences. I'd rather be single than be stuck in an unhappy marriage or relationship just to please people.

They're gonna come for you for saying having kids out of wedlock is challenging..but you're right Mrs Fox

I get amazed every time how women can be so cruel towards each other for absolutely no reason. I see this a lot at restaurants where the patron is a woman and waiter woman too. I've walked away from dates because of how my date treated a female waiter. I remember a group of female YouTubers that started a club, but today that club no longer exists because of the way treated each other. I fully agree that no man has the right to a woman's body, married or not. Men are toxic, but I feel that women are cruel towards each other.

I fully agree on hardship of having kids outside marriage....women don't want to hear the truth and we defend how difficult it is and emotional implications on the kids......

When you said "Commentary Channels" I felt that. Yeyi some channels live to bash women yooooo

Yoh thato im 29, no kids, im doing my PhD, its taking everything i have. Then i am asked by everyone about kids and im like YEY i have been pregnant for 3 years can i give birth to this thing first, im coming for other kids you know. I supise ndithi, can we allow women to have different forms of children, things we want to pour into, things we want to take up our lives, demand our attention etc. It can be anything and that also has to be okay.

no bc that toilet paper part 🧻 was everything 😭

The movie "Yesterday" preaches the points you are saying Sista,🙌🏽😂😂🙌🏽

Once again thank you so much That for always being real. I remember a few months after you gave birth to McKenzie you made an insta post about how it's OK not to snap back after pregnancy because there's just too much pressure to snap back to your old snap and everyone showing off about having gone back. You're so real and unfiltered and I absolutely that about you.

You are absolutely right, virginity is not the price.

I love this conversation!!! I have spent my teenage years and adult years trying to get approval from other women yhoo women will ridicule you and shame you and lie and say they support women but they don't, being a plus-size black woman can be the most painful thing ever and yet theirs so much beauty in being a woman and being part a circle of woman who authentically supports each other. This is making me weep I am that girl raising children alone

Thank you for being so real. I remember one time my "friend" took a picture of my new sneakers and sent them to her other friend mocking me, after she said she loves them, they so fire😅😅nna ke shapo kabo fake friends.

I always tell people that calling me Sdudla is some kind of offensive and I'm called sensitive 🙄🙄the fact that we have to defend ourselves from our fellow women. That's not on for real

Waze wasi giver😩😂😂 love you thato❤️

This was very insightful because women feel like it’s a competition even at work. We can’t understand that we’re all going through the same thing.

Very true❤️❤️

Kenna number one, 18 sec in 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

I don’t know if I’m crying because I realise I’m one of those women that secretly rejoice when another woman is down or that I watch on the sidelines while a women is being bashed and brought down by others ,, the truth is this is very hurtful … I need to do better . 😔😔😔😔😊

Buwa hle Thato🙌🙌😳Women literally find joy in destroying other women..yhooo some women are 🤮ke mahlatsa sies.