9 Signs He's NOT SERIOUS About You

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A guy who isn’t willing to talk about or define the relationship, but still wants access to you, is a selfish user 😡

No one is ever too busy to contact a person he or she cares about.

If a guy is serious, he will MAKE time to spend time together, no matter how busy he is.

I had this one guy who told me ( he loved me, introduced me to BOTH SIDES of his family ,spent holidays and bdays with eachother, we drove eachother cars, he even forced me to keep a drawer over his place,) but when the “ where is this going?” Conversation came up he said we’re just FRIENDS …. I cut him off so cold and fast he didn’t know what hit him ! He had a nerve to be heartbroken cause I never looked back ☺️

Call me old fashioned but a man asking me for money or expecting me to split the bill for a date is a big red flag

Pray for the spirit of discernment. You'll be able to sense an energy vampire from a mile a way. Don't let the devil fool you ladies. God has great things for you! ❤

RED FLAGS HE'S NOT SERIOUS WHEN: 1. He doesn't want to spend any money on you - expects you to pay 2. He rarely initiates contact - lack of communication 3. He is unwilling to discuss his intentions for the future - he's not serious where you two stand 4. He disappears regularly, then appears again like nothing happened 5. He is unwilling to be open and transparent with you 6. He's extremely dismissive of your feelings 7. He is unwilling to compromise - everything is on his terms 8. He doesn't bring you into his world - he hides you - perhaps he's already attached 9. He is consistently inconsistent

At least I respect a man being honest enough to say he is not serious! He is upfront about wanting to waste your time & use your body

He is so right. I met a guy in July and by the 3rd week I was done. Any man that is truly interested will find the time to see you, spend time with you and get to know you. This guy hadn't asked me out on a date or even offered to buy me a cup of coffee, yet he asked me about sex. I was done. That's 3 weekends he had off and I hadn't seen him. Nope. You either have options or aren't interested. I'm gone. NOBODY is that busy. There's more to it, but I saw the signs.

Even if a man talks about marriage doesn't mean he's serious. I get this all the time. I don't bring up marriage but they tell me this because they want to disarm you. They do it too quickly and there's no distraction about meeting your father or men in my family. The point is if the actions don't line up, don't believe the words. And also look at the motives.

I recently had to let a man go. It was amicable but for me, he simply wasn't fulfilling my needs and non-compromising. That is a prison sentence to me. Had to bow out gracefully.

If a MAN wants you.... he will literally come and get you... it’s about the chase that does it for me💯

🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️Run. If he is not a giver or serious. It will never change.

My INTUITION has not failed me yet 😁😁😁👍

I think all this just means that women should get standards and stick to them

He may already have a close relationship with another woman 👩 and only wants you as a side chick. So of course he may be vague about his intentions toward you.

It’s so confusing because other coaches say that you have to create a sense of uncertainty in a man in order for him to pursue. Yet you suggest letting him know you have interest. I would rather not play games and take your advice. If he is meant to be with me, it will naturally evolve without withholding.

It's ok to let someone pay for your meal or get ya gifts if its comes from the heart.... but beware of the narcissist who uses money as a manipulation.

I fully agree that a man asking for money in the early dating stages is not serious! This is definitely a 🚩